Ukuzivocavoca ukufundisa umntwana ukuba afike kuzo zonke ezine
Ukuba unika ixesha elifutshane ukuqeqeshwa kwansuku zonke, ngokukhawuleza umntwana uya kukholisa abazali bakhe ngempumelelo yakhe. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezilula:
- kuyimfuneko ukubeka intambo encinci phantsi kwesisu somntwana, ngokokuba unesidingo sokukhangela inkxaso;
- Kubalulekile ukubeka umntwana entanjeni ngesifuba sakhe, kunye nemilenze ukuguqa ngamadolo, ngoko ngexesha uya kuzama ukuzithemba ezandleni zakhe;
- kufuneka ambeke umntwana esiswini sakhe aze axhome phambi kwakhe ithoyizi enhle yokufikelela kumntwana uya kuzama ukuphakamisa umzimba wakhe.
- Abo bafuna iimpendulo kumbuzo wokufundisa umntwana ukuba bafike kuzo zonke ezine, sinokucebisa ukuba ubeke umzekelo omncinane, ukubonisa oko kukulindeleke kuye. Kungenako ukulungiselela abazali okanye abantwana abadala ukuba baqhekeza egumbini ngamaninzi amaxesha.
Iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo malunga nentlangano yoqeqesho
Ukufunda indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale kuzo zonke iine, kuyakunceda ukuphulaphula ezinye iingcebiso eziza kwenza lula umsebenzi kaMama:
- Ngaphambi kokuba wenze ukuqeqeshwa, kuyimfuneko ukuvuselela igumbi;
- Musa ukubandakanyeka ukuba umntwana unesimo esibi;
- Kungcono ukuqhuba uqeqesho kumgangatho, wembethe ingubo;
- akudingeki ukuba udonwe uqeqesho olude.
Kodwa abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba isantya sokuphuhliswa kwabantwana sinokuhluka. Ngenxa yokuba akudingeki ukuba ulingane namanye abantwana. Yaye ukuba unina ukhathazekile ngokuphuhliswa kwengane, kungcono ukubonisana neengcali.