Umyili wezakhiwo zentsimbi yithuba elihle lokufumana amava okuzimela okuqala ekuqulunqeni nasekuqokeleleni imizekelo. Umyili ulungile kakhulu kuba ufanelwe ngokufanelekileyo kubafana kunye namantombazana. Yenzelwe abaphulaphuli abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala kwaye ingasetyenziselwa ngisho nezifundo zesikolo.
Iyintoni inzuzo?
Abakhi bezakhiwo zensimbi bancedisa umntwana ukuba afumane izakhono ezininzi ezinobulumko. Okokuqala, bahlakulela izakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo, ingcinga kunye nendlela yokucinga. Kwinkqubo yokusebenza umntwana ufumana izakhono zobugcisa bokucinga, ukuzimela nokugxininisa. Kwakhona ukulungelelaniswa kwezinto ezihambayo kuphucula.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukuhlanganisa umzekelo onikwe ngaphandle ngaphandle kwenkxaso. Ikhono lokumisela nokufezekisa injongo likunceda ukuphuhlisa injongo kunye nefuthe elichaphazelayo ukwakheka kovavanyo oluchanekileyo.
Abaqulunqi banamhlanje bamelelwa ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo. Ngokungafani nomklami we-metal weSoviet, namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukuba ahlanganisane nje imishini elula, i-locomotives okanye iikrane, kodwa imizekelo eyahlukeneyo kunye emangalisayo. Umntwana uya kukwazi ukuyila iloli, i-helicopter, indiza kunye ne-Eiffel Tower. Ukuba ufuna, unokufumana imodeli enezixhobo zombane.
Umyili wezakhiwo zensimbi unokuba yinkulu okanye encinci. Ngokuxhomekeke kwinani kunye nokuxhaswa kwamalungu, unako ukuqokelela ukusuka kumnye ukuya kumanqaku amaninzi.
Unokukhetha njani umklami wezinyani onobulungisa kubantwana?
Kufanelekile ukubeka ingqwalasela ngokuthe ngqo ekuthengeni, ukuze endaweni yengeniso elindelekileyo, ayibuhlungu umntwana.
Kufuneka uqale ngokukhangela izinga lomgangatho. Umakhi kufuneka abe nesiqinisekiso. Kungcono xa uyeka ukukhetha kwiimpawu eziqhelekileyo okanye ezibonisiweyo.
Iinkcukacha zomyili kufuneka zibe ziphathekayo, zingabikho zikhwebu ezibukhali kunye nobunzima. Abaxhamli njengamantongomane kunye nezikrini kufuneka babe nomtya omhle kwaye baqhube ngokukhululeka.
Nika ingqalelo kwiliphi idayi eyenzelwe yona. Umncinci umntwana, omkhulu, onokuthenjwa kwaye olula izinto eziyilwayo kufuneka zibe. Musa ukunyanzelisa izinto ezikhethwa ngumntwana, kuba lidlala yakhe.
Yona inkqubo yokuhlanganisana nale nto okanye loo mzekelo iza kuzisa uvuyo olukhulu kumntwana, kwaye imveliso evela kumyili wezakhiwo iya kuba yiqhayiya lokwenene yinjineli.
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