Ukumanga kokuqala kuyisiganeko esilindelwe ixesha elide kwaye sihlala sinomdla. Bobabini amaqabane okokuqala ngqa tushuyutsya omnye nomnye, ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukumanga, kodwa indlela yokwenza okulungileyo - awazi. Iintloni ngakumbi, ngokuthe kratya ukuhamba kunye neentlungu zenkqubo efunekayo. Malunga nendlela yokufunda ukumanga kuqala, siza kuxela kweli nqaku.
Indlela yokufunda ukumanga intombazana enomfana?
Lo mbuzo uvame ukuxhaphaza amantombazana amancinci, nangona kunjalo, akufanele. Amantombazana ngokubhekiselele kule nto kulula - iqabane likhokela, kwaye uphinda uphinda uhamba kwaye ujonge. Into ephambili, nangayiphi na iminyaka yobudala, ungaba neentloni malunga nokukwazi kwakho ukumanga. Umntu ohlakaniphile uya kuvuyela ithuba "lokuba ngowokuqala" kwimiba enzima. Kodwa a makhwenkwe ebusweni bokuqala kunzima kakhulu
Indlela yokufunda ukumanga emlonyeni okokuqala ngqa?
Unqobe lakho intloni. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kwindoda. Inyaniso kukuba ngamanye amaxesha amakhwenkwe ngendlela yonke elibaziseka ixesha lokubanga, kungekhona ukuqala ukuqala. Ukuba intombazana ibukeka kwaye ingaboni amehlo akhe - oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lokuba ulungele ukubanga. Ukukhulula kulula kakhulu kwindawo ekhululekile, kodwa yothando. Ngomsoka, abantu babonakala bekhangeleka, kwaye ukuvakalelwa kunzima kumda.
Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kwanoma yimuphi u kiss uphefumlela. Iphunga elimnandi lisuka emlonyeni ngokungahambisani naliphi na iqabane. Ngokwemvelo, i-flavour iya kubakho nceda. Ukuhlafuna i-gum okanye i-apple slice iya kulondoloza imeko, nangona kuya kuba ngcono ukutshiza amazinyo.
Khumbula ukuba ukumanga akukhona nje ukunyakaza komlomo kunye nolwimi. Amazwi amnandi, ukunqabisa iinwele, ukubetha intloko, amahlombe adlala indima ebalulekileyo ebusweni.
Musa ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Akunjalo wena okanye intombi yakho okanye intombi yakho. Ukuzinikezela kwiimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo ngaphandle kokungafuneki.
Indlela yokufunda ukumanga ngesiFrentshi?
Ukuba ucacisa indlela eyomileyo yokubamba isiFrentshi, kubonakala ngathi: emva kokunyameka komlomo, elinye lamalingani lingena elulwini lomnye (ngokufanelekileyo nangelunya). Chukumisa intetho yolwimi lwakho ngokubhekiselele kulwimi lomlingane, ukwenza i-soft, unobtrusive movements. Yisebenzise ulwimi phezu kweentlobo kunye nemilomo. Ungazami ukwenza ukunyakaza okunamandla-nokuba yinto enqabileyo kakhulu kummandla onobuqili obunamandla njengoko ulwimi lunokubangela ukuvalelwa okungazilibalekanga!
Iphutha eliphambili ekumangeni, elidla ngokuqhelekileyo kubafana ukuzingca. Abafana bayakhohlwa malunga namantombazana abo, ngokuqinisekileyo bayakholelwa ukuba xa benqwenela ukunyakaza, ukunyakaza okubukhali kunye nokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, kuya kuba mnandi kumaqabane (nangona kunjalo anjalo). Ngokubanga kubaluleke kakhulu ukugxila ekuphenduleni komlingane. Ukuba le ntombazana iya kuba yinto engathandekiyo, uya kuwuva - into ephambili
Ungaziqonda njani ukuba ulungile ukuwanga?
Impendulo yomlingane ayiyi ku khohlisa. Ukuba intombazana kunye nentombazana bayonwabile omnye nomnye, bobabini baya kuziva kwaye baqonde. Emva koko, ukumanga akukhona nje ukunyuka kwezobugcisa, kodwa okokuqala, ukuthanda, ukwabelwana kubini.
Indlela yokufunda ukumanga kangcono? Iiprayimari kunye neziprayimari ziyasebenza. Musa nje ukucinga malunga nantoni na ngendlela oyenzayo. Zama, zama, ufike into entsha, eyakho. Ukuqeqeshwa kwimeko enjalo enomdla kuqinisa ubudlelwane, kuphakamisa umoya kunye nokwandisa ubomi. Amantombazana akwi-note: ngokukodwa ukunyanga okukrakra kunceda ukunciphisa umzimba.
Jabulela u kisses!