Abo banamhlanje bazama ukufumana umsebenzi nge-intanethi, bavame ukufumana iposi, apho, xa bebuzwa ukuba babe yindoda ecebileyo, banikela impendulo emfutshane: kulula kakhulu. Kufuneka kuphela ukuthenga isantya esithile esithile (ngokuqhelekileyo esincinci) semali, kwaye unako ukulungiselela iikhwama ukuze uthathe isivuno semali kwaye uqhubeke ulala embhedeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi zithembiso "zi-dummy".
Kukho enye indlela "eqinisekisiweyo": zixelele yonke imihla ukuba ungumntu osisityebi, kwaye ubutyebi ngokwayo buza kuphuma kuwe kumlambo. Hayi, ukuba kwakungelula nje! Ukuba unomdla wendlela yokuba ngumntu ocebileyo kwaye uphumelele, kufuneka uqaphele ngokucacileyo ukuba kuya kuthatha imizamo enzima, ixesha elininzi, ulwazi oluthile nolwazi kunye nomnqweno omkhulu wokutshintsha ubomi bakho ukuze kube ngcono.
Ukuba unquma ukuba ngumntu ocebileyo ...
Ukuba oku kuyisigqibo sakho esiqinileyo, kufuneka uqonde ukuba akunakwenzeka ukulala kubantu abahluphekileyo namhlanje, kwaye kusasa ukuvuka njengomgidi-mali:
- Kufuneka ufumane ityala elithi, ngokucinga kwakho, liya kunceda, okokuqala, ukulungisa imeko yakho yezemali, kwaye ngexesha-liya kuqala ukuzisa imali;
- kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kugcwalisa ezininzi iimbonisi ngaphambi kokuba uqonde indlela yokuba ngumntu ocebileyo ophumelelayo. Mhlawumbi bafanele bayeke ukukhetha kokuqala kwishishini labo. Kodwa ngesigqibo esiqinileyo sokuthatha isenzo, uya kutshabalaliswa kwimpumelelo.
Ibhizinisi ukususela ekuqaleni
Amalungu amaninzi eentlobano zesini ngokufanelekileyo abanomdla kwindlela yokuba ngumfazi ocebileyo ukusuka ekuqaleni, nokuba ingaba nako konke. Ukusebenza kwenkwenkwezi yebhizinisi eliphumelelayo iqinisekisa - mhlawumbi, kodwa ingengomso, kungekhona ngenyanga. Ukuba awuzange usebenze kwishishini, kuya kufuneka ufunde ngamava kwabanye, kuba kwanokuba uthengise iparsley unyaka wonke (kwaye le nto ibhiziniselwano) kufuneka ukwazi. Umendo wobutyebi, ngakumbi ukususela ekuqaleni, ubude kwaye akulula. Kuya kufuna ulwazi kunye notyalo-mali olukhulu lwexesha ukufikelela "kwiindawo eziphezulu zobuncwane". Ukuba ulungele ukufunda kumashishini afanelekileyo, utyalo-mali ekuqeqesheni kwakho, ukuba kungenjalo imali, ngoko ixesha elininzi, ingxaki yokuba yindoda eyoyolo kwaye isisityebi iya kusombulula ngokukhawuleza.