Ngokwemvakalelo efanelekileyo, amaninzi amantombazana enza iimpazamo ezininzi kwiintsebenziswano, ezithatha ixesha elide zikhokelela kwimiphumo ebuhlungu-ukuphuka komanyano. Njengomthetho, uhlalutyo lwezenzo zabo kunye nokufunyanwa kwezinto ezingahambi kakuhle kwenzeka emva kokuhlukana . Nangona kunjalo, ukuba intombazana imthanda intombi yakhe, ngoko kukufanelekile ukuzama ukuyibuyisela kuyo yonke indlela. Ngenxa yolonwabo lwakho kufuneka ulwa.
Ungabuyisela njani umfana oyithandayo?
Okokuqala kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ukuba abameleli besondo esinamandla kwiimeko ezininzi abanqweneli ukuvuselela ubudlelwane obuphukile. Ngoko ke, intombazana kufuneka iyenze imizamo eninzi yokubuyisela intanda.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqalise ulwalamano olusenyongweni, ukubuyela kumntu omthandayo kuphela emva kokuqalisa ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukujonga kakuhle ngexesha leentlanganiso. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka uqale ukufumana umdla kwinto entsha, ukuthetha nabantu. Umfana uya kuqhathanisa ukuba yiyiphi intombazana eyayisebudlelwaneni babo kunye noko kwenzeka emva koko. Buyela umfana othandayo kunye nawe unako ngeSMS, kwaye ngeencwadi ngesandla. Umfana unokuxabisa izibongo kunye nokuvuma kwiimvakalelo ngokusebenzisa imiyalezo efanayo. Ukongezelela, amathuba aya kunyuswa xa enothando. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kunceda aphinde azive
Indlela yokubuyela kumntu oyithandayo - iingcebiso zesazi sengqondo
- Gcina ikhefu. Eli lixesha lifuneka ukuze kuhlalise phantsi, hlawulela iingcamango zakho kwaye uzilawule. Ngeli xesha, akudingeki ufune iintlanganiso, bhala imiyalezo uze ubize.
- Qala kunye nawe. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umhlobo wakho akakuthandi, okukucaphukisa. Simele siqale ukulwa nale mpawu.
- Ixesha lokuzinyamekela - ukutshintsha kokubili ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Kubalulekile ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle.
- Phila ubomi obusebenzayo: thola izinto ezithandwayo, qalisa ukuhamba, utshintshe umfanekiso wakho. Indoda iya kuyixabisa.
- Unomonde okwaneleyo.
Indlela yokubuyisela umntu xa ethanda omnye?
Kule meko, akunakunqwenela ukukhuphisana nombambano ngokubonakala kwedwa. Kufuneka usebenzise ezinye iindlela:
- Funda kabanzi malunga nokuthandayo: indlela yakhe yokuphila , izinto zokuzilibazisa. Funda indlela yokuzilibazisa kwaye umangaliswe ngumfana onokufanelana. Kule meko, kufuneka uziphatha ngokusemthethweni nangokwemvelo.
- Yiba ngumhlobo kuye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhasa umfana, ukuqonda, ukuphulaphula.
- Yiba nomonde. Emva kokuba ubuhlobo bobuhlobo bubekwe, kufuneka kuthathe isinyathelo esilandelayo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ube kwinkampani yalo mntu ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukuya kuzo zonke iintlobo zeemeko kunye. Ukuba le ntombazana ingafakwa kuye, ngoko kubuya kwayo yinto yesikhathi.