Usuku lomtshato lusuku oluninzi olulindelwe ixesha elide kumantombazana amaninzi. Zonke izilungiselelo, ukulindela, ukutshintshiselwa kwamakhonkco kunye nosuku lomtshato oqaqambileyo kubangele ukuba bazive benomdla kwiintsapho ezizayo. Xa amaxwebhu kunye neepasipoti entsha zifunyenwe emva komtshato, ngoko umfazi uqala ukuqonda ukuba utshintsho olukhulu lufikile ebomini bakhe. Ngoku kunye nalo mbuzo kuza umbuzo othi: "Yintoni oyenzayo emva komtshato?". Abatshatileyo abaninzi banomdla kwindlela ubomi bubatshintsha ngayo ngaphambi nangemva komtshato.
Ngelishwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, inyanga emva komtshato, iintlungu zokuqala ziza. Xa kusemva kwe-honeymoon nobusuku bokuqala emva komtshato, ixesha liqhelekileyo. Abasetyhini abaninzi, abanomyeni wabo wesikhathi esizayo badibene nomfanekiso wenkosana enhle kunye nokuphelela, abakwazi ukufumana lula utshintsho obomi babo.
Njengomthetho, inyanga emva komtshato, ubomi bobathanda buyatshintsha - iimpawu ezifihlakeleyo zobunjwa, imikhwa kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ziqala ukubonakalisa. Oku konke akunakulinganiswa ngokupheleleyo neengcinga zesetyhini zobomi bentsapho. Indoda emva komtshato ingatshintshwa ngokuphawulekayo emehlweni omfazi - uyaphela ukuvuyisa, kodwa uyasondela, akwazi ukwabelana ngokuvuyisa kuphela, kodwa nokugula. Ngeli xesha kufika ukuguquka - umzuzu wokuqwashisa ngokuzaliseka komntu omnye komnye nomnye, umthwalo wemfanelo kunye nozinzo. Ezi zinguqu zinokuphoyisa iimvakalelo zothando olucacileyo omnye komnye. Ukuze ulondoloze uthando emva komtshato kwaye ulomeleze kwaye lube lukhulu, kuyimfuneko ukusebenza, kwaye usebenze bobabini bomtshato. I-Honeymooners kufuneka ifunde ukuqonda, ukunyamekela, ukuvalela nokunyamekela. Enyanisweni, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kunamazwi. Ukwakha ubomi obufanayo kunokuba nzima, kodwa emva kokuhamba kuzo zonke izigaba zobudlelwane emva komtshato, umanyano wentsapho uyaqina.
Imithetho Yegolide Yobomi Bentsapho
Kukho umthetho omnye olula - emva kwexesha elihlukeneyo, isibini ngasinye esitshatileyo, sinokuthandana ngothando, ukususela kwiintsebenziswano ezinzulu kuya kuzinzileyo kunye nokulinganiswa. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa akufanele bathuke oku, kubalulekile ukuba bamkele kwaye baqonde yonke inqanaba lolwalamano, nokuba yintoni na. Umsebenzi oyintloko wobafazi bonke ukuzisa ukufudumala nokuthuthuzela kwintsapho kunye nokunyamekela umyeni wakhe. Ngokwemvelo, asifanele sikhohlwe thina.
Ubulumko bentolongo uthi - awukwazi ukudideka ngaphandle kokuthakazeliswa. Ukuba ibhinqa ithola kumyeni wayo omtsha isiphako sempazamo emva komtshato, kuthetha ukuba wadala isithixo kwaye akazange amkele into enyanisweni njengoko. Xa uphelele ngakumbi okhethiweyo, ukudumazeka ngakumbi kulindelekile ebomini emva komtshato. Kule meko, umfazi wakhe okanye umyeni wakhe kulula. Umfazi uyeka ukubona isithunzi somyeni wakhe kwaye uqala ukumbandezela ngomsindo nokunyelisa. Indoda, ke, ayikwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ubuhlobo butshintshile emva komtshato? Iimanyano ezinjalo zihlala zibuthakathaka kakhulu kwaye ziphela
Xa sinikela ngakumbi, ngakumbi xa sifumana. Lo mgaqo udumileyo usebenza kubomi bentsapho. Ngokubonisa umonde nokuqonda, ngamnye umfazi unokuyithembela kwiqabane lakhe. Kodwa intukuthelo, umsindo okanye intukuthelo kubangela iimvakalelo ezifanayo kwisiqingatha sethu sesibini. Ukuba uthabatha umyeni wakho njengoko unjalo kwaye umnike umvakalelo wothando, naphezu kwayo yonke impazamo yakhe, umfazi udala iimvakalelo ezithandekayo emphefumlweni womyeni wakhe.
Gcina uthando emva komtshato wabantu ababini abanothando ngokunyanisekileyo, into ephambili kukuba nomonde nokuthembela, uthando, ukuxabana nokuhlonelana omnye nomnye.