Ehlabathini, mhlawumbi, akukho babazali abangenakuyichukumisa ingxaki yempumlo ephucukileyo yomntwana wabo. Umbuzo wendlela yokunceda umntwana uphuze impumlo yakhe, ukuba akasekho iminyaka emithathu ubudala, kwaye namhlanje akalahlekelwa yimpumelelo yayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngenhlanhla, kukho iindlela ezintle zokusombulula le ngxaki. Yaye unokwenza ngaphandle kobundlobongela kunye nefom ekhangayo yentsana.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphephe impumlo?
Into yokuqala yokunyamekela ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuqeqeshwa. Okokuqala, umntwana wakho kufuneka abe nempilo. Okwesibini, akukho nto ifanele iphephe ukuphefumula. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala ukufunda livela kwiminyaka enye nesiqingatha. Ngeli xesha, abantwana abasefomini yokufunda bafunde zonke izakhono zobomi ezisisiseko. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci kwaye akafuni ukuvuthela impumlo, oku akuthethi ukuba uguqa emva kokuphuhliswa. Kuphela kufuneka adlulise le khono kwifomu efikelelekayo kwaye enomdla, ukuze asebenze ngokufanelekileyo ukuphefumla kwakhe kwaye angashenxi i-snot ngaphakathi.
Ukuze ufundise umntwana ukuba aphephe impumlo, kubalulekile ukuthabatha umzuzu xa ehlala entle kwaye unokugxila kwisifundo esitsha. Emva kokuba zonke iimeko zokufunda zidalwe, ungaqala umdlalo othakazelisayo. Zonke iindlela ezikhethiweyo ongayisebenzisa ngokuzimeleyo okanye kwizigaba ngalinye ngomnye:
- Okokuqala, nikela umntwana umdlalo ekufuneka uqhube umlomo wakho. Uqeqesho olugqibeleleyo luya kusebenza ngamakhandlela okanye kwi-bubbles bubbles. Bonisa ngomzekelo wakho indlela yokuvuthela ikhandlela. Musa ukukhawuleza umntwana kwaye ungakulibali ukumdumisa ngempumelelo.
- Emva kokuba ubeke izakhono zomsebenzi kunye nomfutho ophumayo ngomlomo, bonisa umntwana ukuba umoya uhamba njani empumlweni. Ukwenza oku, ungasebenzisa umkhonto oya kuphefumula, okanye kwimeko apho upholile kwisitalato, ungabonisa umntwana ukuba iifestile zewindow iyancipha njani.
- Kwinqanaba elilandelayo unako ukumnika umntwana ukuba adlale i-hedgehog. Bonisa emfanekisweni umfanekiso weli lizilwanyana, kwaye uchaze indlela ayenyanya ngayo. Cetyisa umntwana ukuba aphinda aphinde ayenze ukuba abe yinqanaba.
- Enye indlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa umntwana ukuba aqhube impumlo yakhe idlala kwisitimela. Ingundoqo yinto yokuba ufuna ukutshintshela enye i-nostril kunye ne-buzz njenge-locomotive.
- Hlela ukhuphiswano. Ukwenza oku, unako ukubeka i-candy wrappers kwiiskese okanye kumaphepha amaphepha kwaye unike umntwana ukuba aphumelele, oya kubavuthela ngeentonga zabo. Ungakulibala ukubonisa umntwana ukuba uphumelele njani ngomzekelo.
- Ukuze ungabhekana neengxaki emva koqeqesho, xa umntwana engaphumeleli, zama ukumbonisa ngokukhawuleza indlela yokucoceka kakuhle impumlo yakhe: ukuvula umlomo wakhe kancane, ubambe ihekethi ephupheni lakhe kwaye unamathele enye ikhefu ngenye indlela. Khumbula ukuba ukusuka ekuphumeni komlilo kunye namaconsi awayi kuba nempembelelo. Sebenzisa i-handkerchief ukucacisa kwaye mvumele umntwana akhiphe izenzo zakho. Nangakhathaliseki ubudala, uya kukwazi ukuyisebenzisa le mkhuba kwaye akugcine kwiingxaki kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba izenzo zakho azikhawulezi ngokukhawuleza, ungadikibala. Umntwana wakho ufuna ixesha,
Enye ingxabano ekuthandeni xa umntwana esichukumisa ngokwakhe iimeko apho izinto zangaphandle zingena ekhaleni lakho. Ukukwazi ukuvuthela umoya, inkunzi yakho inokuyenza ngaphandle kokungenwa kweyeza. Ukuba, ngokubanda, nayiphi na inzame yokubetha ibangela ukuba umntwana abe nentlungu okanye aqale ukukhala kwaye abe neentloni, kungcono ukudibana nodokotela.