Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela ukuba yintoni imvelaphi yenkathazo yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, kwaye yiyiphi impawu ebonisa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yengane ngeli xesha.
Izizathu kunye nempawu zeengxaki zonyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana
Yonke inzima eyenzeka ebomini bomntwana inxulumene kuphela nokukhula kwakhe nokunyuka inyathelo elitsha kubomi abazimeleyo. Inkxalabo yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila ayinjalo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, isiqalo salo sihambelana nokubonakala komntu omncinci kunye nokubonakala kwamandla akhe okuqala amanyathelo okuzimela.
Olu buchule lukhokelela ekubeni umntwana uqala ukuziziva ekhululekile kunaphambili. Ukususela kulo mzuzwana akanasaba ukuhlala yedwa kwaye uzama ukuphuma kumama wakhe ngethuba lokuqala. Yingakho i-crumb iqala ukulwa kwaye yonke amandla akhe ezama ukukhusela impembelelo yabantu abadala.
Uba yinto enenkani ngokungaqhelekanga, engenangqiqo kwaye ecatshukiswayo, ifuna ukunyamekela kwaye ayivumeli unina athathe isinyathelo esinye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana uyala ukutya oko akuthandayo ngaphambili, enze imisebenzi eqhelekileyo kwaye aze adlale neentshukumo zakho ezizithandayo. Konke oku, kubangelwa ukuba kubangele ukungaboni kakuhle phakathi kwabazali kwaye kaninzi kubangenisa kwi-stupor.
Yintoni enokuyenza kunye nendlela yokusinda ngxaki?
Okwangoku, eli qhinga alifanelekanga ukuba ukunganeliseki komntwana uye kude kakhulu, kwaye sele sele iqalile ukuhlaziya. Kule meko, umama okanye utata uya kufuneka anqabise umntwana wakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela kwaye ngelixa elizayo uzame ukuvumela ukuba "ukuhluma" okunjalo.