Indlela yokuphefumula ngexesha lokubeletha?

Xa ukukhulelwa kufike ekugqibeleni kwaye umfazi uqala ukuqonda ukuba umntwana oza kulinda ixesha elizayo uza kuzaliswa, kudla rhoqo ukwesaba ukubeletha. Kuya kuba mfuneko ukucaphukisa bonke abo bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba icandelo elimnyama liya kunciphisa intlungu: awuyi kukwazi "ukulwa, kodwa ndikholelwe, ukulwa akukwesabeki ukuba usebenza ngendlela yokuphefumula kakuhle ngexesha lokubeletha. Musa ukucinga ukuba kulula ukuphefumula ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha lomsebenzi kwaye uphindele lo mbuzo kwiveki ephelileyo. Inkqubo yokuphefumla ngethuba lobambano luncedo olukhulu kakhulu ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu ngexesha lobulungisa, kodwa kufuneka ufunde oko kwangaphambili.


Indlela yokuphefumula ngexesha lokubeletha?

Kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kukho iindlela zokuphelisa intlungu, ukuphefumula ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha lokubeleka nokuzalwa kuza kunceda umfazi angacingi kwiintlungu zakhe, kodwa ngoncedo lweemvuthu xa efika kwihlabathi. Ngolunye uhloliswano kuze kube yimhla, kukho iikhosi ezikhethekileyo kubazali, ngokucacileyo nangokulula ukubonisa indlela yokuphefumula ngexesha lokubeleka, kuya kuba mnandi ukuthatha aba bafazi kulezi zifundo, akayi kukwazi ukukuxhasa ngokwengqondo ngexesha lokulwa, kodwa ukujonga ukuphefumula okufanelekileyo ngexesha kubeleka. Cinga ngamanyathelo okuzalwa komntwana kunye nendlela yokuphefumla ngexesha lokubeleka kwezi zigaba:

Eneneni yonke inkqubo. Iimpawu ezinzima, ukuba uyakwazi ukuphefumula ngokuchanekileyo ngexesha lokubeletha. Into ephambili akuyiyo ukulwa neentlungu, kodwa ifilosofi yamkele kwaye incede intsana ukuba idlulele ekuphumeni. Ukuphefumla kakuhle kusebenza, ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba unokukwazi ukujamelana nale nto ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, cela umyeni wakho nonina ukuba akuncedise kwaye akuxhase, ngaphezu koko, ukulawula ukusuka kwicala kuya kukwenza okulungileyo. Phakathi kwezinto olwaziyo ukuthetha okanye ukuphazamisa, ngoko ukuzalwa kuya kuba mnandi kukukhumbula, kungekhona ukuhlushwa kakubi.