Nantsi indlela yokuqonda into abathanda ngayo abantu ngesondo? Omnye nomlingani ofanayo unokuxhomekeke kwimizwa ethi "ulala embhedeni njengemigqa" okanye "uyazi njani ukwenza oku, uziphathe njengehenyukazi." Ewe, loo madoda anqwenela ngesondo - umlingane okhululekile okanye onamahloni, zeziphi izidalwa eziyimfihlakalo ezidinga ngokubanzi? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, kuyaziwa ukuba amadoda ahlukeneyo kunye namakhwenkwe athile ngokwesini, kwaye ngoko ke, indlela eya kumntu ngamnye kufuneka ikhethwe ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa kukho iingongoma eziqhelekileyo ezamkelwa ngabo bonke amalungu esondo esomeleleyo. Ngokomzekelo, indoda oyithandayo iyabelana ngesondo, bonke abafana njengaye bavumelana nale nto ibalulekileyo.
Izinto ezizithandayo zamadoda ngokwesini
Ngaba ucinga ukuba abantu bathanda ubulili ngaphezulu: ukulawula inkqubo okanye ukulinda into enjengeli qabane? Awazi na? Ngoko awazi, kwaye bobabini bafana nayo, kodwa bakhetha ukuba yinto ephambili ebantwini besini ngokuphindaphindiweyo, okuqinisekiswa yinkalo yezinto ezizithandayo.
- Indawo yokuqala ithatyathwe yindlela yokwenza i-doggy ifowuni, amadoda afana nokuba angemva kweso qabane. Nantsi yonke into ilawulwa ngumntu, mhlawumbi yeso sizathu sithandwa ngabantu abaninzi.
- Okwesibini eyaziwayo yayingumthunywa wezithunywa zevangeli. Iingcali zengqondo zithi zikhethwe ngabantu abakhathalela iimvakalelo zabo.
- Kodwa kwindawo yesithathu yindawo yomgibeli. Amadoda ethu ahlambulukileyo akahlali engqondweni yokuphumla nokunyameka kobuhle bomzimba wesibini, zombini iminqweno iyakwazi ukufezekisa ngoku.
Yintoni amadoda ayithandayo ngesondo?
- Ukucinga into enokummangalisa umntu omthandayo kwisondo, oomama bahlala beqhekeza ulwazi oluninzi malunga neengxaki, amathoyizi eentlobano kunye nemidlalo yokudlala indima ebhedini. Kwaye kunjalo, elowo umntu ufuna ukuhlukahluka. Kwaye mhlawumbi awufuni ukuba isifundo esifanelekileyo, njengesondo, sibe yinto eqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, kude nokucwaswa kunye neentloni, ukuzama, unikele into entsha, yamkela iingcebiso zomlingane. Nangona kunjalo, akufanelekile ukuba uvumelane, ukuba awufuni ukwenza into, musa ukunika enye into. Ngaphandle koko, umntu uya kucinga ukuba akakhathaleli ngawe, kuba ufuna ukungafani nokulala ngesondo, ufuna ukukwenza ube mnandi.
- Yintoni abafana abafana ngayo ngesondo, xa zonke iziphakamiso zabo zidibana nomdla, okanye xa ufuna intombazana ukuba iphose incinane? Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa, kodwa abanye abantu bathanda ukuthatha iinqaba zokuzikhukhumeza ngokugqithiseleyo, ngoko akuvumelekanga ukumelana ncinane. Kodwa khumbula, igama eliphambili lincinci.
- Kodwa umbuzo olula, ngaba phantse bonke abafana bathandana? Ngokuchanekileyo, isondo somlomo, bayayixabisa bonke abamele isigqeba esisisiseko sabantu. Kodwa bayayithanda kakhulu, xa intombi ivuyela kuyo, kuba indoda yenye ingqina yokuba uyamthanda kwaye uyamkela yonke into.
- Ngaba ucinga nje ukuba ufuna ukuthanda Umntu wakho ufuna, naye. Ngoko musa ukulibala ukuqala umdlalo wothando, xelela intanda yakho,
ukuba uyayifuna, kwaye apha kwaye ngoku. Ukuba umqalisi wesondo ngumntu kuphela, unokugqiba ekubeni kwesi sicwangciso awunayo yonke into enomdla, kwaye ubekezelela ukulala naye kuphela ngenxa yokuba unika wena okanye ezinye izizathu. - Ungabi neentloni malunga nombhede, kungabi namntu ongafezekanga, okanye ungalindelekanga. Ngomdla ofanelekileyo, lo mntu akayi kuwuqwalasela ezi zinto ezincinci, kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuba uvulekile kuye, ukuba uyamnika yonke inzondo.
- Kwaye ke, asimele sikhohlwe ukuba amadoda afana nemifanekiso emihle, kwaye ukuba "umfanekiso" uya kuvumba kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo kulungile. Into ekhethekileyo yokukhetha iphunga eliyithandayo kwaye alihambeli kude neqhumiso, udinga kuphela isitimela esilula esilungisa umthandi wakho. Kwaye ngo "mfanekiso", i-sexy lingerie iyakuza kunceda, kwaye kungcono ukhethe kunye nendoda yakho, makhe akuxelele into afuna ukukubona.