Okwangoku, ukuphumelela kwekhono ngalinye kukho ubudala beminyaka ethile. Ukuba umntwana wakho uncinci emva koontanga bakhe kwindawo ethile, kubalulekile ukuqaphela kwaye ukunyamekela oku ngexesha elifanelekileyo ngexesha loogqirha. Mhlawumbi wakho unyana okanye intombi ifuna uncedo lugqirha, kwaye ngokukhawuleza amanyathelo afanelekileyo athatyathwa, ngcono.
Qala ukulawula izinga lokwakhiwa kwengqondo kunye nomzimba weemvuthu kufuneka zenzeke emva kwenyanga enye ukusuka ngexesha lokuzalwa kwayo. Kubonakala ngathi iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zizalelwa enyangeni 1, ezazisanda kuzalwa. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kwintsana enjalo, iintsana sele sele zikwazi ukwenza into ethile, kwaye ngokujonga ngokuchanekileyo umlinganiselo wokuphuhliswa kwintsana enyangeni, umntu unokuqonda ukuba konke kulungile na.
Yintoni inokuzalwa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kwinyanga?
Ngoko, unokujonga njani izinga lokuphuhliswa kwelo lunyana oluncinci? Masibhale ukuba yintoni umntwana oza kuzalwa ayenokwenza eneminyaka eyi-1:
- Amehlo omntwana asele akhiwe ngokwaneleyo ukuba asabele ngokutshintsha umfanekiso. Kuphela eneminyaka eyi-1 ubudala sele sele akwazi ukugxila kwimbono yakhe kwisihloko esikhulu, ngokukodwa, ebusweni bomama okanye omnye umntu osondeleyo. Ukongezelela, umntwana unokunyamekela ngokunyamekela ukunyakaza kwezinto kwindawo, kunye nokuhlukanisa phakathi kwemibala eqaqambileyo neyohlukeneyo, njengengqengqelo, imigca efanayo, iindidi nokunye.
- Ukuphulaphula kwenzalo. Intsha esele ivele ihluke ngokucacileyo izandi ezahlukileyo, umzekelo, uya kukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo ilizwi likamama kubo bonke. Ukongezelela, ngexesha leenyanga 1, i-crumb isele ikwazi ukwenza izandi zayo. Inyane ngalinye lingazifumana ngokuhluke ngokupheleleyo, umntu uhamba njengejuba elikhuphayo phakathi kwabo, kwaye umntu sele esele ahlasele.
- Ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhliseni ngokomzimba, umntwana osenyangeni usenamandla kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kwindawo 'yokulala ngesisu', kufuneka ukuba ubuncinane uzame ukuphakamisa intloko evela phezulu.
- Kwimithombo ethile ungayifumana inkcazelo yokuba umntwana oneminyaka eyi-1 kufuneka avele emomotheka kwiintsapho zakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Enyanisweni, oku akude kwimeko. Ukulinganisa umntwana usakhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye sele sele ekwazi ukuguqula nokubonakalisa ubuso obuhlukahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi ziintsana ziyabonwa kwaye zibonakala ngathi zityumza, nangona kunjalo, zenza ngokungazi ngokupheleleyo kwaye, nokuba kunjalo, zenzeke ngengozi.
Unokukunceda njani umntwana wakho ukukhula ngempumelelo?
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba unyana wakho osandulweyo okanye intombi engenzi nto omele ukwazi ukuyenza ngenyanga 1, ungadikibala. Sebenzisa izi zikhokelo ezilandelayo ukukunceda umntwana wakho akhule ngempumelelo:
- ukudala umoya ococekileyo endlwini yakho,
ukuba yonke imikhosi yomntwana yayijoliswe ekufundeni izakhono ezintsha; - Ngaphambi kwesondlo ngasinye, beka umntwana kwisisu sakhe;
- imihla ngemihla yenza umxhesho omnene "onomama";
- kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuthetha nomntwana, bhubela iingoma kuye, xelela ama-teddies;
- ezungeze isikhalazo somntwana sineemifanekiso ezinkulu ezimnyama kunye nemhlophe eziza kutsala umdla wengane kwaye ziza kunceda ekuphuculeni nasekuphuculweni kombono wakhe;
- uthenge ii-toys eziqaqambileyo kunye nokuzihambisa rhoqo kwindawo yentombono yomntwana.