Ukuziphatha okubi

Uninzi lwabantu lulandela ixesha elide elisekwe kuluntu. Siyabonga kubo, intlalontle ilawulwa ukuqikelelwa kunye nokuhamba rhoqo kwezenzo. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba abanye abantu abahlangabezane nokulindela kwabo ngezenzo zoluntu ezibeka kuzo. Abanye abantu bayenqaba ukulandela ngokuqhelekileyo bamkele izikhokelo kunye nemithetho. Ngenxa yoko, izenzo zabo ziziphatha kakubi okanye ngamanye amagama aphezu.

Ukuziphatha okukhohlakeleyo kuchazwa njengendlela yokuziphatha kwentlalo, apho izenzo zomntu azihambelani nemimiselo ekhoyo kuluntu.

Ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo kukubi kwaye kulungile, siya kuqwalasela ngokubanzi iinkcukacha zayo iintlobo:

1. I-Vagrancy (ibonakala ngenxa yokungabikho kwabantwana, ukungabikho kwengqalelo kunye nemfundo evela kubazali, abadala).
2. Ukuziphatha okubi (kubonakaliswe ngokumalunga nabanye, izilwanyana, njl., Kodwa aluphuli umthetho).
3. Utywala, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi.
4. Ukuziphatha ngokubonakaliswa kwe-autoaggressive (umonakalo kwimpilo yakho).

Izizathu zokuziphatha okungahambiyo

Phakathi kwezinto ezizalela ukuphazamiseka ekuphatheni komntu zingabonwa zimbalwa eziphambili:

1. Ngamnye. Ezi ziquka izifo ze-neuromuscular of person, ukulibaziseka kweempilo zakhe zengqondo nangokwenyama, okanye izizathu zobuqu zokwephula imfundo yemfundo efanelekileyo, kunye neempawu zobuntu.
2. Ngentlalo-yengqondo. Iimbangela zokuziphatha ezingahambiyo zingabonakalisa iimpawu ezintle zolwalamano kwabantwana kunye nendalo (uluntu lwasekhaya, intsapho, isitalato).
3. Lwezoqoqosho. Izizathu ezibangelwa uphuhliso lwezentlalo okanye intlalo-qoqosho kuluntu.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abantu abajongene nokusela utywala, ukuxilwa kwengqondo okanye ukuxilonga iziyobisi baxhomekeke ekuphambukeni kokuziphatha okubi, okungahanjiswa kubazali kubantwana babo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuziphatha okunjalo kubonakala kubantu abangenako ukutshintsha imeko yabo yentlalo kunye nengqondo, ebonakalayo ngumzabalazo ongenakwenzeka, ingxabano. I-psychology yokuziphatha kakubi, okokuqala, iyabonakala kubantu abangaboni ukuba banokuziqonda. Abakwazi ukuguqula isimo sabo sezenhlalakahle, bafezekise oko bafuna, kwaye ngenxa yoko banqwenela ukwamukela imigangatho yentlalo.

Ukuziphatha okungahambi kakuhle akulimazi abanye. Imizekelo yale mpawu iquka:

1. Ubuntu obunemali-ntle bucala lubandakanya inceba ekuncedeni intandane, njl.
2. Umntu oqhelekileyo-uncedisa amapolisa amgcina isela.
3. Ijoni liyala ukubulala abantu, nangona kunjalo ukuba inokunciphisa kwisikhundla.
4. Umculi kunye nengcinga yokuqala yokudala. Uluntu lumjonga njengelungaqhelekanga kunye nomgca.
5. I-Genius, ubungcwele, ubuqili, ubuqili.

Okokuthi, olu hlobo lokuziphatha alulimazi uluntu, kodwa alufaki ukungena kwisakhelo sentlalo esamkelekileyo.

Ukuziphatha okungahambi komntu kunokufunyanwa. Le nkqubo ingabonakaliswa, kunye nabantu abanokuziphatha okubi, kunye nomntu oqhelekileyo, umntwana wesikolo, umqeshwa. Injongo yalolu xilongo kukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuziphatha okubangela uluntu.

Ukuchonga ukuziphatha okungahambiyo

I-questionnaire yokuhlola eyenzelwe ukuxilongwa kwesi sifo iqukethe isethi yemilinganiselo yeengqondo ezenziwe ngokukhethekileyo ezijolise ekulingeni ukuthambekela komntu kwimbonakalo ethile yokuziphatha okungahambiyo. Nasi umzekelo wenguqu yabesifazane yale vavanyo:

1. Ndizama ukugqoka ngefashoni ukuba ndilandele imodeli yanamhlanje okanye mhlawumbi ndiyikhuphe.
2. Kwenzeka ukuba ndibuye ndibuyele ngomso into endiyenzayo namhlanje.
3. Ukuba kwakukho ithuba, ndingathanda ukujoyina umkhosi.
4. Kwenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndixabana nabazali bam.
5. Ukuze ufezekise, le ntombazana ikwazi ukulwa.
6. Ndiza kuthatha umsebenzi onobungozi kwimpilo ukuba ihlawulwe kakuhle.
7. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndixhalabile kangangokuba andinakuhlala phantsi.
8. Ngamanye amaxesha ndithanda ukuhleka.
9. Ndiyathanda uqeqesho oluhambelana nobungozi bokuphila.
10. Ndiyayithanda xa iimpahla kunye nobukeka bam buhlungu abantu besizukulwana esidala.
11. Abantu abanesiphukuphuku kunye nabesabayo bafezekisa yonke imithetho nemithetho.
12. Ndingathanda umsebenzi onxulumene nokutshintsha nokuhamba, nangona kubungozi bokuphila.
13. Ndihlala ndithetha kuphela inyaniso.
14. Ukuba umntu ngokumodareyitha kunye nemiphumo emibi usebenzisa izinto ezinokuzondla nezengqondo-okuqhelekileyo.
15. Nangona ndiba nomsindo, ndizama ukungaxolisi nabani na.
16. Ndivuyayo ukubukela amafilimu amanyathelo.
17. Ukuba bayandihlambalaza, ngoko ndimele ndiphindise.
18. Umntu kufuneka abe nelungelo lokusela ukuba ufuna kangakanani kwaye ufuna kuphi.
19. Ukuba intombi yam isifikile ixesha elimisiweyo, ngoko ndihlala ndizolile.
20. Ngokusoloko kunzima kum ukwenza i-robot ixesha elithile.
21. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiwela esiphambanweni apho ndiziva ndikhululekile, kungekhona apho kufanelekile.
22. Eminye imithetho kunye nokuthintela kungakhishwa, ukuba nantoni na oyifunayo.
23. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ndizange ndiphulaphule abazali bam.
24. Kwimoto, ndiyakuxabisa ukhuseleko ngaphezu kwesantya.
25. Ndicinga ukuba ndingathanda ukwenza ikarati okanye imidlalo efanayo.
26. Ndingathanda umsebenzi we-waitress kwindawo yokutyela.
27. Ndidla ndiziva ndifuna imimangaliso.
28. Maxa wambi ndifuna ngokwenene ukuzilimaza.
29. Isimo sam sengqondo ebomini sichazwe kakuhle ngesaga: "Isiqingatha sixhenxe, qhekeza kanye".
30. Ndihlala ndihlawula ixabiso lokuthutha loluntu.
31. Phakathi kwam obaziyo kukho abantu abaye bazame ukutywala izinto ezinobuthi.
32. Ndihlala ndigcina izithembiso zam, nangona ukuba akuncedi kum.
33. Kwenzeka ukuba ndifuna nje ukufunga.
34. Abantu abalandela umzekeliso balungile: "Ukuba awukwazi, kodwa ufuna ngokwenene, ngoko unako."
35. Kwakusenokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeka ukuba ndifike kwibali elingathandekiyo emva kokusela utywala.
36. Ndisoloko ndikwazi ukuziphoqa ukuba ndiqhubeke naliphi na umsebenzi emva kokungaphumeleli okukhulu.
37. Unqandelelo oluninzi kwintsibano yesini ludala kwaye luya kulahlwa.
38. Kwenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndixela amanga.
39. Ukubandezeleka kwentlungu kubangelwa ngumntu wonke.
40. Ndingavumi ukuba ndivumelane nendoda kunokuphikisana.
41. Ukuba ndizalelwe kumaxesha amandulo, ndiza kuba ngumphangi ohloniphekileyo.
42. Kudinga ukuphumelela ingxabano nayiphi na indleko.
43. Kukho iimeko xa abazali bam, abanye abadala bevakalisa inkxalabo yokuba ndiyisele incinane.
44. Izambatho kufuneka ziqale ukuhlukanisa umntu phakathi kwesihlwele.
45. Ukuba i-movie ayinayo imfazwe efanelekileyo, yile movie embi.
46. Maxa wambi ndikhumbula isikolo.
47. Ukuba kukho umntu ophosakeleyo engithintele kwisihlwele, ngoko ndiya kucela uxolo kuye.
48. Ukuba umntu undicaphukisa, ngoko ndikulungele ukumxelela yonke into endiyicinga ngayo.
49. Xa ndihamba kwaye ndihamba, ndiyakuthanda ukuhamba kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo.
50. Ndingathanda ukuthandwa ngumqeqeshi wezilwanyana zezilwanyana ezidliwayo.
51. Ndiyathanda ukuziva ijubane xa ndiqhuba ngokukhawuleza kwimoto kunye nesithuthuthu.
52. Xa ndifunda i-detective, ndisoloko ndifuna ukuba umoni lowo ashiye intshutshiso.
53. Kwenzeka ukuba ndiphulaphule inomdla kumntu ongahlambulukanga, kodwa i-anecdote ehlekisayo.
54. Ndiyathanda ukuhlazisa abanye ngamanye amaxesha.
55. Ndivame ukucaphukisa ngenxa yamathambo.
56. Xa bephikisana nam, ndihlala ndixhaphaza kwaye ndiphendula ngokukhawuleza.
57. Ndiyakuthanda ukufunda ngokubanzi malunga neentyala zamanzi okanye ngeentlekele.
58. Ukuzonwabisa, kuyafaneleka ukuphula imithetho ethile kunye nokuthintela.
59. Ndiyakuthanda ukutyelela iinkampani apho basela khona baze bahlekise.
60. Ndicinga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba intombazana ibhema.
61. Ndiyathanda ilizwe eliza xa uphuza ngokumodareyitha kunye nenkampani enhle.
62. Ngamanye amaxesha, ndandinomdla wokusela, nangona ndaqonda ukuba ngoku ayikho ixesha okanye indawo.
63. Igwayi kwimizuzu enzima iyanciphisa.
64. Abanye abantu bayandiyika ..
65. Ndingathanda ukuba khona ekuqhutyweni kwesigebengu sokugwetywa ngokufanelekileyo isigwebo senkunzi.
66. Ulonwabo luyinto ebalulekileyo umntu kufuneka ayenze ebomini.
67. Ukuba ndiyakwazi, ndingonwabile ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimoto.
68. Xa ndijamelene nomsindo, kungcono ukuba ndingasondeli.
69. Ngamanye amaxesha ndifumana into yokuba ndikulungele ukuqala ukulwa kuqala.
70. Ndiyakhumbula iziganeko xa ndandithukuthele kangangokuba ndathatha into yokuqala eyayiwela phantsi kwengalo yaza yaphula.
71. Ndihlala ndifuna ukuba abanye bahloniphe amalungelo am.
72. Ndingathanda ukuphuma kwiinqwenela ngeparachute.
73. Imiphumo eyingozi yotywala kunye necuba kumntu ininzi kakhulu.
74. Banoyolo abo bafa beselula.
75. Ndiyonwabile xa ndibeka ingozi.
76. Xa umntu ehlaziya isithuko ekushiseni kompikiswano, oku kuvumelekile.
77. Ndisoloko ndingakwazi ukukhusela iimvakalelo zam.
78. Ngamanye amaxesha ndide ndide ndifunde.
79. Ndiyakuthanda iinkampani apho wonke umntu akhathazana.
80. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kuthathe enye yezona ndawo eziphambili ebomini zobutsha.
81. Ngokuqhelekileyo andinakuyichasa ingxabano xa umntu engavumelani nam.
82. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba andizange ndenze umsebenzi wesikolo ekhaya.
83. Ndisoloko ndenza izinto ngaphantsi kwefuthe lomsindo wesikhashana.
84. Kukho amaxesha apho ndinokubetha umntu.
85. Abantu bacaphukile xa befunda ukuba umoni lowo akazange ajeziswe.
86. Kwenzeka ukuba ndimele ndizifihle ezinye zam izenzo kubantu abadala.
87. Ama-simpletons anamahloni ngokwawo afanelwe ukukhohliswa.
88. Ngamanye amaxesha ndibacaphukisa kangangokuba ndikhwaza kakhulu.
89. Iimeko ezingalindelekanga kwaye ingozi indivumela ukuba ndibonise ngokwenene.
90. Ndiza kuzama into enxilisayo ukuba ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ayiyi kulimaza impilo yam kwaye ayiyi kubakhohlwaya.
91. Xa ndimi kwibhulorho, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyakhweba ukuhla.
92. Naluphi na ukungcola okubandezelayo okanye kubangela ukuba ndiyotheke kakhulu.
93. Xa ndiba nomsindo, ndifuna ukukrokra ngokugqithiseleyo igalelo leengxaki zam.
94. Ndicinga ukuba abantu bayakuyeka ukusela konke.
95. Ndiyakuthanda ukunqumla ukuhla kwehla kwinqanaba elisezantsi.
96. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba umntu undihlungu, kuya kuba mnandi.
97. Ndingathanda ukwenza echibini ngokusuka kwinqaba.
98. Ngamanye amaxesha andifuni ukuhlala.

Izikali zihlukaniswe ngenkonzo kunye nomxholo. Umceli-mbuzo ufunwa ukuba aqinisekise okanye alahle izitatimende ezicetywayo. Uvavanyo luzakuhlolisiswa usebenzisa uluhlu olusentla:

1. I-Scale yeempendulo ezithandekayo zoluntu: 2 (akukho), 4 (akukho), 8 (akukho), 13 (ewe), 21 (akukho), 30 (ewe), 32 (ewe), 33 (akukho), 38 akukho), 54 (akukho), 79 (akukho), 83 (akukho), 87 (akukho).
2. I-Scale of power to overcome the rules and rules: 1 (ewe), 10 (no), 11 (ewe), 22 (ewe), 34 (ewe), 41 (ewe), 44 (ewe), 50 (ewe), 53 Ewe, 55 (ewe), 59 (ewe), 61 (ewe), 80 (ewe), 86 (akukho), 91 (ewe), 93 (akukho).
3. (E), 22 (ewe), 26 (ewe), 27 (ewe), 31 (ewe), 34 (ewe), 35 (ewe), 43 (ewe) , Ewe, 60 (ewe), 62 (ewe), 63 (ewe), 64 (ewe), 63 (ewe), 64 (ewe) .
4. I-scale ye-propensity yokuzilimaza nokuziphatha kakubi: 3 (ewe), 6 (ewe), 9 (ewe), 12 (ewe), 24 (no), 27 (ewe), 28 (ewe), 39 (ewe), 51 ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe, ewe), 98 (ewe), 99 (ewe).
5. (E)), 5 (ewe), 15 (no), 16 (ewe), 17 (ewe), 25 (ewe), 40 (no), 42 (ewe), 45 (ewe (Ewe), 51 (ewe), 65 (ewe), 66 (ewe), 65 (ewe), ), 94 (ewe), 101 (ewe), 102 (ewe), 103 (ewe), 104 (ewe).
6. 20 (ewe), 19 (ewe), 20 (ewe), 29 (no), 36 (ewe), 49 (ewe), 56 (ewe), 57 (ewe), 69 (ewe) , 70 (ewe), 71 (ewe), 78 (ewe), 84 (ewe), 89 (ewe), 94 (ewe).
7. (E), 3 (ewe), 7 (ewe), 11 (ewe), 25 (ewe), 28 (ewe), 31 (ewe), 35 (ewe), 43 (ewe) , Ewe, 53 (ewe), 58 (ewe), 61 (ewe), 63 (ewe), 64 (ewe), 66 (ewe), 79 (ewe), 93 (no), 98 (ewe), 99 (ewe), 102 (ewe).
8. Umlinganiselo wokwamkela indima yentlalo yoluntu: 3 (akukho), 5 (akukho), 9 (akukho), 16 (akukho), 18 (akukho), 25 (akukho), 41 (akukho), 45 (akukho), 51 (akukho) (No), 68 (akukho), 73 (no), 85 (no), 93 (ewe), 95 (ewe), 96 (akukho), 105 (ewe), 106 (akukho) , 107 (ewe).

Ngempendulo nganye ehambelana, elinye iphuzu linikezelwa. Ngokuthe ngqo kwinqanaba, kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho ukuthambekela okuthe ngqo.

Ngoko, ukuziphatha kakubi akusoloko kusongela uluntu, ukuba akunjalo. Kodwa ukubonakaliswa kokungahambisani nokuziphatha komntu kunokulawulwa ngokubandakanyeka ekukhuliseni kwakhe, njl.