Indlela yokuphila enempilo ebantwaneni abaneminyaka esikolweni

Kubantwana beminyaka yobudala kubaluleke kakhulu ukukholisa indlela yokuphila enempilo. Emva koko, ngexesha lokufunda, i-psyche kunye nomzimba wengane yenziwe. Kule nqanaba, abantwana banokuchaphazeleka ngamanani amaninzi anokuphazamisa ukuphuhliswa kwawo okuhambelana nokuphazamisa iipatheni zokuziphatha ezichanekileyo. Ezi zinto ziquka:

1. Umthwalo okwandisiweyo ohambelana nokufundwa kwenani elikhulu lezifundo zesikolo.
2. Iiklasi kumacandelo emfundo yecandelo lesibini.
3. Ukulawulwa kolawulo lwabazali.
4. Ukuphuhliswa kweempawu zobuntu bomlingani womntwana kunye nokwakhiwa kweengcamango zakhe malunga nendlela yokuphila enempilo.
5. Impembelelo yokuqokelela ngokuziphatha, ukuthanda kunye neenjongo.
6. Iimpawu ezizimeleyo zokuziphatha ezinxulumene nobuntwaba kunye nexesha eliphambili lokutshintsha.

Imigaqo yokuseka indlela yokuphila enempilo kubafundi besikolo

Ubungqina obufanelekileyo bobomi bomntwana bubaluleke kakhulu, kuba kunceda ukwenza i-worldview kunye neembono zehlabathi ezingayi kumvumela ukuba amjike endleleni efanelekileyo yokuphila.

Ukwenza indlela yokuphila enempilo kumfundi, abazali, ootitshala nabacebisi kufuneka benze ngezindlela ezininzi:

1. Yakha iimeko zangaphandle eziyimfuneko (kunika umntwana ukutya, iimpahla, iincwadi, iifenitshala).
2. Ukudala inkqubo efanelekileyo yemihla ngemihla apho ixesha lomsebenzi, ukuphumla, ukutya okutya kuzakuhanjiswa.
3. Ukwenza nokufundisa umntwana malunga neengcamango ezamkelekileyo malunga nentlangano engqiqo kunye nokuziphatha kobomi, kunye nokufaka iindlela ezintle zokuziphatha, ukusebenzisa le ndlela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: iingxoxo kunye nabafundi besikolo ngendlela ephilileyo yokuphila, ukufunda iincwadi ezihambelanayo, ukubukwa ngokubambisana kweefilimu kunye namavidiyo malunga neemfuneko zokuqhuba impilo enempilo kubafundi besikolo, umzekelo ngamnye kunye nabanye.

Ngexesha elifanayo, imiyalelo esuka kubazali kunye nootitshala ekubunzeni imilinganiselo yokuphila efanelekileyo yomntwana kufuneka igcinwe kanyekanye. Ukungayithobeli ubuncinane kunokunciphisa umphumo.

Imigaqo yokuphila ngendlela enempilo yomfundi

Abantwana kunye nentsha ebantwini baninzi bayicinga ukuba lo mgaqo wobomi ube mnxantathu kwaye awunomdla. Ukuze baqinisekise into echaseneyo, abadala kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kwimibutho yobomi bomntwana kwaye benze isicwangciso-sikhokelo kwisenzo, ngokuqwalasela "okulungileyo" kwezinto zakhe:

1. Ukutya. Ukutya kweso sikolo kufuneka kube nokulinganisela kunye nekhalori ephezulu ngokwaneleyo ukubonelela umzimba okhulayo ngamandla kunye nazo zonke izinto ezincedo. Nangona kunjalo, ixabiso lokunqongophala kwesantya nalo alwamkelekanga.
2. Indlela yokulinganisa kwimihla ibonisa ukusabalalisa ngokufanelekileyo umthwalo wokuqeqeshwa kunye nesixa esaneleyo sokuphumla okusemgangathweni nokulala.
3. Umthwalo osemthethweni ngokomthwalo. Enye yeemeko ezibalulekileyo zokuphila ngendlela enempilo ebantwini abaneminyaka esikolweni zizemidlalo. Futhi izifundo zezifundo zempilo azikwazi ukubonelela ngomntwana ngokwaneleyo ngokomzimba. Isikolo ngasinye siyanconywa emva kwesikolo ukuya kwiindawo zemidlalo kunye nokuhamba ngaphezulu emoyeni omtsha.
4. Ukukhawuleza. Le nkqubo ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo, njengoko ikwandisa umzimba. Ukongezelela, ukuqina kubangela intliziyo yangaphakathi yeselula.
5. Indlela yokuphila enempilo kubantwana besikolo ibonisa ukuthotyelwa kwemimiselo yococeko.
6. Imozulu yengqondo kwintsapho. Umoya othembekileyo nonobungane kwintsapho unako ukuqinisekisa impilo yengqondo yomntwana.
7. Ukukhutshwa kwemikhwa emibi. Ukutshaya, ukusela utywala kunye naluphina uhlobo lokuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi aluhambelani nendlela yokuphila enempilo.