Ukusebenza nabantwana abaselula

Ukuziphatha okunzima kwintombazana kungekho nto engacacisiyo kwaye kaninzi iqulethwe ngumdlali. Ngoko ke, iindlela zokusebenza kunye nolutsha olunzima kufuneka, okokuqala, zisekelwe kubuhlobo babantwana nabantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abasebuntwaneni bahlala bexhathisa isikhokelo esinzima esiye sinikwe. Ukuphendula okunjalo kungabonakaliswa kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuphendula okunjalo kwenzeka ngokungazi, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abadala bacinga ukuba umntwana wenza oku kuluvo olubi kwaye uyazi kakuhle. Ukusebenza kunye nolutsha olunzima lusekelwe ekwakheni ubudlelwane bokholo kunye nokuchonga izizathu zokuziphatha kakubi, ukuba azinxulumene neengxaki zokutshatyalaliswa kokuphuhliswa kwengqondo.

Umsebenzi wezemfundo kunye nabantwana abaselula

Ngokuqhelekileyo kubazali, abazali nabafundisi benza iimpazamo ezifanayo. Ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwabantu abadala, abantwana bachithwa, "ukukhutshwa kwangonyani" kwenzeka, kwaye xa kwenzeka ukubonakaliswa kwengxakane umntwana kufuneka abonise ukuchasana, kodwa akaphuli ukuthanda kwakhe kunye nomlingiswa wakhe, ngezinye izihlandlo isisombululo esinokuthi siphumelele. Kwakhona, kwimpikiswano phakathi koontanga ababini, ootitshala abanakwamkela isikhundla somntu, kubalulekile ukuba ube phakathi. Xa abantu abadala befuna ukuthobela okungaqinisekanga, oku kunciphisa ukukwazi komntwana ukuhlakulela uluvo lwakhe, ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kukhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuqina nokuzinza.

Umsebenzi wengcali yeengqondo ezinomntwana onzima ulutsha luyinto engenakunceda inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokulungiswa kokuziphatha. Kodwa le yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, njengoko i-psychologist izakufuneka zifumane iinketho zokubaluleka komntwana osemtsha kwindlela entsha yokuhamba ngayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngeli xesha, abantwana banqabile ukusebenza, ukufunda ngokucwangcisekileyo, njl.

Ekubeni kwiindawo ezininzi izizathu zokuziphatha okuphambene nomntwana osemncinci uhlala kwiintsilelo zokukhuliswa, ukusebenza kunye nabazali kuyinto enyanzelisayo kwinkqubo yokulungiswa.

Umphumo omuhle kumsebenzi ngamnye kunye nentombazana enzima ixhomekeka ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba utitshala (okanye umzali) ngokwakhe ukholelwa ukuba kungenzeka ukuba utshintsho kumntwana ngokwakhe, ngamathuba akhe.