Umsebenzi wezemfundo kunye nabantwana abaselula
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubazali, abazali nabafundisi benza iimpazamo ezifanayo. Ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwabantu abadala, abantwana bachithwa, "ukukhutshwa kwangonyani" kwenzeka, kwaye xa kwenzeka ukubonakaliswa kwengxakane umntwana kufuneka abonise ukuchasana, kodwa akaphuli ukuthanda kwakhe kunye nomlingiswa wakhe, ngezinye izihlandlo isisombululo esinokuthi siphumelele. Kwakhona, kwimpikiswano phakathi koontanga ababini, ootitshala abanakwamkela isikhundla somntu, kubalulekile ukuba ube phakathi. Xa abantu abadala befuna ukuthobela okungaqinisekanga, oku kunciphisa ukukwazi komntwana ukuhlakulela uluvo lwakhe, ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kukhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuqina nokuzinza.
Umsebenzi wengcali yeengqondo ezinomntwana onzima ulutsha luyinto engenakunceda
Ekubeni kwiindawo ezininzi izizathu zokuziphatha okuphambene nomntwana osemncinci uhlala kwiintsilelo zokukhuliswa, ukusebenza kunye nabazali kuyinto enyanzelisayo kwinkqubo yokulungiswa.
Umphumo omuhle kumsebenzi ngamnye kunye nentombazana enzima ixhomekeka ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba utitshala (okanye umzali) ngokwakhe ukholelwa ukuba kungenzeka ukuba utshintsho kumntwana ngokwakhe, ngamathuba akhe.