Akunqabile ukudibana nabantu abathembele ngokuqinisekileyo kwabo kunye namakhono abo. Uninzi lwabo luyesaba, ezinye iinguqu kunye neenqandelelo ezibathintelayo ukuba zityhile ngokupheleleyo, zikwazi ukuba zikwazi ngokupheleleyo. Abaninzi banqwenela ukwazi indlela yokukholelwa kubo kunye nokuzithemba , kuba kuya kuvula amathuba amatsha kubo.
Indlela yokukholelwa ngamandla akho?
- Okokuqala, musa ukuthelekisa nokufana nabanye abantu kwaye uqonde ukuba umntu ngamnye uyingqayizivele kwaye nganye inezinzuzo kunye nezibi. Kufuneka udumise ngokwakho yonke impumelelo encinci, yonke inkolelo eyinqabileyo kwaye uzame ixesha elizayo ukwenza oku ngakumbi.
- Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi banzima ukuqala. Bayika ukuba abanakujamelana nayo, bayesaba ukuba kuya kuba nzima. Abo banomdla wendlela yokukholelwa kubo ngokwabo, musa ukuthatha loo nto ibe yingozi kakhulu. Ewe, ihlabathi aliyi kuqubuka, ukuba akukho nto eyenzekayo, abantu abayi kubhubha, njl njl Ukuqaphela ukuba ishishini elizayo alibi kakhulu, kulula ukuzola, uphumule kwaye uqale, ekugqibeleni, ukuya kwinqanaba.
- Ukuya kukwenza into ethile, ngokukodwa malunga nento enokuyenza okokuqala, kuya kuba kuhle ukulungiselela. Kukulungele ukufunda zonke iinkalo zeshishini, injongo kunye nemiphumo. Ngokomzekelo, enenjongo yokuthetha phambi kwabaphulaphuli, kukulungile ukufunda ingxelo, ukulungiselela imibuzo enokwenzeka kwaye isithethi siya kuziva iqinisekile ngakumbi.
- Awazi ukuba ungakholelwa njani kwaye uqale ukuhlala, kuyafaneleka ukuba uzikhethele umcimbi wokuthanda. Enyanisweni, ngaphandle kokuba ne-penchant ye-jurisprudence, kunzima ukuba ngummeli. Enyanisweni ndivavanya kwaye ndihlawula umthwalo kwimikhosi, unokuyithembela kwimpumelelo nokuqatshelwa, ukuba ube yinto ejoliswe yintlekele. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukwenza, kuba ukungenzi nto kudala ukudimazeka nokungakholelwa kuwe, kwaye kufuneka badityaniswe.