Ngexesha lokuqala, ihlabathi lafunda ngokudakalisa emisebenzini yomlobi waseFrancis uMarquis de Sade (igama lakhe kwaye yamkela le nto), kwaye ngokwezenzululwazi eli gama libonakala kwi -ograph ye-Kraft-Ebing, epapashwe ngo-1886. Ngomqondo obanzi ngokubanzi, igama elithi sadism lithetha ukunyamekela izenzo zobundlobongela kunye nokufumana uxhamla kwiintlungu zabanye. Kodwa le nzeka inezinto ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinxulumene neendlela ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Oku kuquka ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka ngezilwanyana, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Ukukhathazeka kwabantwana
Okumangalisayo kukuba, imiqondiso yokudakalisa ingabonakaliswa ebuntwaneni obunzulu. Kukholelwa ukuba ininzi yaloo nto ibonakaliswe kumakhwenkwe, ngenxa yezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi "castration complex". Ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumvuzo wakhe wokuphila, le nkwenkwe inobundlobongela, ichazwe ngomnqweno wokuphula into ethile, ukutshabalalisa. Kancinci, loloyiko ludlulayo, kwaye lugweba. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uyahlaziswa, ingakumbi nguyise, ngoko uloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumntu lugxininise engqondweni. Yaye ukuba umntwana uvalwe ngumlingiswa, ngoko-ke iminyaka yesikolo inomngcipheko omkhulu wokufumana ubuntu obunokusetyenzwa. Kwakhona, ukuthambekela okukrakra kunokuhlakulela ngenxa yokungabikho kwengqalelo kubazali, kodwa umntu makangaphuthelwa yimeko yokugula kwengqondo, uphawu oluya kuba lusizi.
Kodwa ubukho bezenzo zobubi ebuntwaneni akuthethi ukuba umntwana uya kukhula ulwaphulo-mthetho. UbuSadism bunokuthi bube bucala, oko kukuthi, ukuba zibonakaliswe ngokwabo kude kube iyure ethile (umzekelo, ngexesha leentlanzi). Abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuhanjisa ukukhwabanisa kwezinye izikhokelo-abaninzi abagqirha abaziwayo baye baxhamla imfuyo ebuntwaneni babo.
Ubuhlungu besondo
Olu hlobo lokudabuka luhlobo lwesenzo sokuziphatha ngokwesini, apho umntu anelisekile ngokubangela ukuxhatshazwa kumlingani wesini. Ngokwezibalo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kubhinqa kubonakala kwi-2% yabasetyhini kunye nama-5% amadoda. Kodwa oomama bakhetha ukuxhalaba kwengqondo kwengqondo, ngelixa amadoda anjengobudlova obukhulu. Olu hlobo luya kuqondiswa ku:
- kwizilwanyana;
- kubantu abanobuthakathaka ngakumbi kunabantwana abanesifo okanye abantu abakhubazekileyo;
- kubantu abaphantsi kwabo kubomi bentsapho-iqabane, izalamane, abantwana;
- kubantu abangaphantsi komsebenzi - abatsha abasebenzi;
- kubantu abemi bezantsi kwicala likarhulumente.
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeentlungu zesini:
- Ukucinga - umntu akaqapheli ukucinga kwakhe okubuhlungu, bahlala entsimini yeengcamango.
- I-Passive. Kule meko, i-sadist ivimbela ngamabomu ukuxhaswa ngokwesini komlingani wakhe, ukuphepha ngokuzithandela izenzo ezenza kube mnandi kakhulu.
- U buhlungu. Oku kufaka iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuthotywa ngenxa yokuphathwa kakubi ngokwengqondo ukuze kubangele ukulimala komzimba. Olu hlobo lusizi lukhohlakele kakhulu, kuba luya kubulala ngenxa yokuzonwabisa ngokwesondo.
Ukukhathazeka kwengqondo
Olu hlobo lokudabuka kweengqondo luthiwa ukuziphatha okanye i-psi-sadism. Kule meko, ixhoba lixhomekeke ekuhluphekeni kokuziphatha nokuziphatha ngendlela yokuhlambalaza, ukuthotywa, ukusongelwa, njl. Ukubala umntu onjalo ekuqaleni kokubona akulula, kuba unokufihla ukuthambekela kwakhe ixesha elide. Baya kuboniswa kamva, xa izinga lokuthembela liza kukhuliswa, kwaye ukuxhatshazwa kuza kuzisa umnikelo omkhulu kumntu ochaphazelekayo.
Izizathu zokudabuka kunye nokunyangwa kwayo
Xa kuvela ukuthambekela okukrakra kunokuthi kukho iimeko ezihlukahlukeneyo, ezi ziqhelekileyo ezi zilandelayo.
- Iiposiso zemfundo.
- Iingcamango zama-Erotic ezivela kwimpembelelo yeemveliso zecala.
- Ukuqwashisa ngokwabo abangaphantsi kwamanye.
- Ukungaphumeleli ngokomzwelo nangokwezesondo, ukunganakwa kwabanye abantu, ngakumbi kubantu abesini esahlukileyo.
- Iinkalo zobuntu bomlingiswa womntu, ubuntu okanye ingqondo.
- Izifo zengqondo.
Okwangoku akukho zindlela ezithile zokuphatha ubuhlungu, kuba iquka zonke iinkalo zobuntu bomntu. Okwangoku, iindlela zokuguqulwa nokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo ziqhelekile. Xa kukho imeko eziyingozi, izidakamizwa ezichasene ne-androgenic zisiwe, ezenza ukunciphisa umtsalane kwaye unciphise ukubonakaliswa okubuhlungu. Kukho nawuphi na, unyango lude, luyinkimbinkimbi yokuba izigulane azivanga ukuba ziyimfuneko.