Izilwanyana zasemakhaya zidla ngokuba ngamalungu eentsapho ngokupheleleyo, zinyamekelwa ngokulinganayo, kwaye ukulahleka kwazo kubangela ubunzima obukhulu. Singasinda njani ekufeni kwesilwanyana, ngaba sinokulindela kude kube yintlungu? Enyanisweni, umncedisi ongcono kunaloo nto lixesha, kodwa usenokukunceda ngezenzo ezifanelekileyo kunye neengcamango.
Indlela yokusinda ekufeni kwesilwanyana?
Ukutshutshiswa kwemizwelo kusoloko kunconywa ukuba ukwabelana nabanye, kuyingozi ukuba ibe yodwa, kodwa xa kwenzeka ukufa kwezilwanyana, kungenakho ukuba kube nefuthe elilindelekileyo. Abo bangakaze babone imeko enjalo bathambekele ekuboniseni kakuhle imeko, banokutsho ukuba le nto inja okanye ikati, enokuthi ithatyathelwe ngokutsha kunye neentsholongwane ezintsha. Ngoko ke, ukuba unquma ukukwabelana ngamava, khangela umntu oye wafumana isiganeko esinjalo kwaye uya kukwazi ukukuqonda. Kodwa ukufumana isilwanyana esitsha akufanelekanga, de intlungu yokufa kwesilwanyana esiyintanda ayifuni. Ukwenza oku kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza, kubalulekile ukuphazamisa iingcamango ezidabukisayo-ukuhamba, ukuzonwabisa okutsha, imiba yemihla ngemihla, abanye bancedwa ngumsebenzi wokuzithandela kwiindawo zokuhlala ezilwaneni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulahlekelwa kwesilwanyana kubhekene nobunzima ngenxa yeemvakalelo zecala , abanini bacinga ukuba abazange benze konke okusemandleni ukukhusela ukufa kwakhe. Kule meko, kufuneka uqonde ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuchaphazela zonke iziganeko, kwaye yonke into efunekayo yenziwa kwilwanyana, kuba akukho mntu unokunyamekela kangcono kunomnini onothando.
Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba indlela engcono yokusinda ekufeni kweefama kukukhupha zonke izikhumbuzo zalo, ngokungathi akukho nhlekelele eyenzekayo. Kodwa le nyathelo ayinakwenzeka ukukhokelela kwisiphumo esifunileyo, uya kukhumbula isikhumba sakho, kwaye ukunyamalala kweefoto kuya kwenza ukuba uvakalelo lube namandla. Kungcono ukukhangela iifoto zenkomo yakho kwaye ushiye intombi ethandekayo kwindawo evelele, okanye wenze i-albhamu eneefayile ezifanelekileyo kunye nezikhumbuzo ezimfutshane zexesha elitywinwe.