Ukujonga ezininzi zeemiboniso zeTV, eziqhelekileyo kwixesha lethu, ngokuqinisekileyo uhleka kwiintlanzi eziva kwi-screen yeTV. Kuwe, unokuqaphela ukuba iinkokeli zeenkqubo ezinjalo zinomqondo ohle kakhulu wokumemeza kwaye ufikelela kwinqanaba labo ekuhlekeleni, zikhula kwaye zikhula.
Ukuphuhliswa kwento yokuhlaziya ngumsebenzi olula ongafuneki umgudu omkhulu, kodwa ugxininisa ukuba khona kolwazi oluthile lolwazi. Kuyavunywa ukuba ukuhleka kwamanzi kukukwazi ukufumana iinkcukacha ezihlaziyiweyo kwimihla ngemihla. Akunabo abantu abangenanto yokuzihlaziya, kuba abanye abantu ngenxa yempembelelo yeendlela ezahlukeneyo zentlalo indlela yokucinga eyahlukileyo kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo kunye nezinto ezibonakala ngathi zixhamla kubantu abaninzi abaqondakaliyo.
Ungayithucula njani indlela yokuhlaziya?
Unokuphucula ukuhlaziya kwakho ngoncedo lwezandla ezithile:
- Khetha naluphi na uluhlu lwealfabhethi uze uzame ngamagama aqala ngalo, ukudala isigwebo samazwi 10-12.
- Yenza oku okuphindwe kwamanye amaxesha.
- Phinda uhlaziye imisebenzi yakho kunye nokumomotheka.
Lo msebenzi awuyi kuthatha imizuzu engama-5 ngosuku. Ikhuthaza ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezinceda ukuza kunye namahlaya abo, kwaye ungasebenzisi i-humour edibeneyo kwingxoxo.
Umntu ongenomdla wokuzihlaziya, njengomthetho, ucinga kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo abathandi ukukhawuleza kwaye baceba ishedyuli yabo kwiiveki okanye kwiinyanga ezizayo, ngoko ke naziphi na izimo zamandla amakhulu ezikhokelela kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo kwaye akukho nto yokuzimela. Ingqiqo engcolileyo yinto exabisekileyo yempawu ebanceda abantu ngokukhawuleza kwaye baxhamle kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Ukongezelela, ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukuhleka, okanye kunoko uvuyo oluhamba kunye nalo, kuphucula isimo sengqondo, kwaye ngoko ke, kwandisa ubomi.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuphucula umva
Akunabo bonke abantu ngokwemvelo banikwe amandla okwenza ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokuhlekisa ngokuhlekisayo, baninzi abanomdla kumbuzo othi "Ngaba unokuhlakulela umva?"
Ukuze amahlaya akho aqondwe kuwo wonke umntu, kufuneka uqwalasele izinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo:
- Uthande wena kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Leli candelo lidlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuboneni abanye. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela lo msebenzi olula, ubuze uncedo kumntu owaziyo iphuzu. Ngokukhawuleza kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba apha akubhekisele kumntu onamava obomi obutyebi, kodwa umntu othanda ubomi kuyo nayiphi na imbonakalo yayo. Utitshala ogqwesileyo kuwe kule nto unokusebenza njengabantwana beminyaka yobudala bezikolo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi kwakukho kule minyaka umntwana ethanda aze amkele abanye njengabo.
- Ukukwazi ukuzihleka. Yeka ukuzibamba kakhulu kwaye uzigxeke ngenxa yezinto ezichanekileyo kwizinto zoshishino okanye ukukhusela, kuba kusemandleni akho ukuhleka kunye nawe ukuba uhlaziye umonakalo ukuba ungabonakalisa kubo bonke abakujikelezile.
Yintoni eyenza umlinganiselo wehlazo
Ikhono lokukhwaza amahlaya ngokuthe ngqo lixhomekeke kwi-erudition yakho, isigama, ukucinga ngokubambisana, izakhono zokusebenza. Uninzi lweendlela ezihlekisayo zixhomekeke ekukwazi ukudlala ngamagama, kwaye ukuba isigama sakho siluncinci, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Abantu abanentlonelo enkulu bahlala becinga ukudibanisa, ngeendleko zeziphi iifubble ezihlakulela ngokungahambiyo entloko. Ikhono lombhali lingakunceda ukuba ubonise ihlazo eliqhelekileyo ngendlela abaphulaphuli bayakuhleka ngayo yonke into oyithethayo. Smile uze wenze abanye bavuyiswe ngamahlaya abo.