Yonke imihla, phantse wonke umntu omdala kufuneka axoxe nabanye abantu. Ngamanye amaxesha incoko ingaba nobungqina obunobungane, injongo eyona nto kukuba nexesha elifanelekileyo. Kwakhona kukho iingxoxo ezinjalo, ulawulo olubonelela ngemiphumo ethile apho amacala omabini aya kuyaneliswa.
Indlela yokwenza ingxoxo kwisingqo sengqondo ichaza uhlobo lokubuza imibuzo, olusekelwe kwingxoxo ecingayo kwaye elungiselelwe, injongo yokufumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo, inyaniso kwimeko ekuxoxwa ngayo kunye nesihloko esicatshungulwayo.
Indlela yokuthetha ngengqondo kunye neendlela zokunxibelelana kubandakanya ukubonelela ukuba incoko iyincoko eqondiswe ngokucacileyo phakathi kwengcali yeengqondo kunye nommangalelwa ukuze ufumane ulwazi kumntu oceliweyo.
Indlela yokwenza ingxoxo iquka iimfuno ezithile zomoya apho uhanjiso luqhutyelwa khona: isicwangciso sencoko kufuneka silungiselelwe ngaphambili kunye nokuchongwa kwemiba ehambelana nokucaciswa okufunekayo. Kufuneka kudalwe umoya othembekileyo. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba ukwazi ukufaka izicelo ezingekho ngqo kwiinkcukacha ezikunceda ukufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko.
Kwimeko xa ngethuba le ncoko, umbuzo umgweba umxholo phantsi koviwo ngempendulo yommangalelwa (oko kukuthi, umntu oxoxwe naye udliwano-ndlebe), ngoko incoko ibonwa njengendlela yokuphanda. Ngoko umphandi kufuneka akwazi ukufumana ukuthembeka kweedatha lowo umceliweyo anika lona. Oku kungafumaneka ngokuqwalasela, uphando kunye nolwazi olongezelelweyo olufunyenwe kwabanye abantu.
Ingxoxo njengendlela yokuxilongwa ixutyushwa kwimeko yokunxibelelana ngendlela yoxoxiswano. Ngo kunceda ngale ndlela, umntu ufumana ulwazi oluqhelekileyo olujoliswe ekufundeni iimpawu zomntu, uhlobo lomntu, ukuqonda iimfuno zakhe kunye nokuthambekela kwakhe, isimo sengqondo kubantu abathile, njalo njalo.
Cinga ngempumelelo kunye nenkunkuma yengxoxo yencoko.
Izinzuzo zendlela yokuthetha:
- Ukukwazi ukubuza imibuzo ngokulandelelana okufanelekileyo.
- Ukukwazi ukusebenzisa izinto ezincedisayo (ukurekhoda kwemibuzo ekhadini, njl.).
- Ukuhlalutya iimpendulo ezingekho ngamagama zomntu ophenyanwe naye, sinokwenza isigqibo esongezelelweyo malunga nokuthembeka kweempendulo.
Iingxaki zendlela yokuthetha:
- Kuthatha ixesha elininzi.
- Kufuneka ube nezakhono ezifanelekileyo ukuqhuba ingxoxo efanelekileyo.
Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ingxoxo eqhutywe kakuhle ingaba ngumgcini-mgca wemgangatho wolwazi olufunyenweyo.