Njengoko kuchazwe kwisihloko sencwadi eyaziwayo - zivela eMars, kwaye sivela kwiVenus. Ngokuhluke kukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulahleka kwaye akazi ukuba ungathetha ntoni nabo. Ukubuza umbuzo indlela yokufunda indlela yokunxibelelana namadoda, okokuqala kukho konke kufuneka ube nentswela ngandlela-thile.
Ukuze ube mnqweno kumnxibelelwano wakho, kufuneka ube mnandi kuwe. Zibukele ngaphandle: ingakanani imbonakalo yakho ehambelana nehlabathi langaphakathi? Kufuneka uphile ngokuvisisana nawe, kufuneka ukhululeke. Nantoni na inokuthi, abantu bathanda amehlo. Qaphela ukuba uhlala ukhangele kakuhle kakuhle, umfazi kunye no-sexy.
Kufuneka ube neminqweno, izinto zokuzilibazisa, izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bakha abantu abancinci. Bakhetha abafazi abaqaqambileyo abahlala "ngokupheleleyo." Fumana isifundo kuwe. Ingaba ukudansa, ukuvama, ukubhukuda, ukutyelela rhoqo kwi-gym - nantoni na. Into ephambili enokuthetha ngayo, fundisa ukukhupha umdla kumntu wakho.
Ukuba umntu akafuni ukuthetha, mhlawumbi ulahlekile into ethile, okanye akayena mntu ufanele uchithe ixesha lakho. Iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo kwingxoxo ephumeleleyo kunye nesini esahlukileyo zilandelayo:
- musa ukulibala ngokukhangisa kwangaphandle;
- kuvulekele ukuthetha;
- Ubume bemvelo bubaluleke kakhulu;
- ukumomotheka kunye nokunyaniseka;
- unomdla, rhoqo unamabali ambalwa angavamile;
- gcoba (konke kwenziwe), kodwa ungadli;
- Musa ukuthetha ngeentombi zakho zangaphambili kunye nolwalamano oludlulileyo;
- musa "ukulayisha" loo ndoda ngokungahambi kakuhle kunye nezingxoxo ezingenanto;
- ungabi ncokola kakhulu;
- bacele kwaye baphulaphule.
Indlela yokuthetha nomntu oqhawule umtshato?
Kwimibuzo yendlela yokunxibelelana nomntu oqhawule umtshato, kuyimfuneko ukuphawula ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Lo mntu unamava obomi bentsapho, uyazi ukuba yintoni umfazi angabakho ngaphambi nangemva komtshato. Ngamanye amazwi, le ndoda iya ku "kukhanda" ngokujonga, jonga amandla kwaye ulinde ukukhohlisa okungcolileyo. Ukuba unento yokufihla, kuya kuba nzima ukuyifihla. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uxoke kunye nobuqili. Akayi kukunyamezela ukuzenzisa.
Indlela yokuthetha nomntu osisityebi?
Indlela yokuthetha nomntu ngemali, ukuba awuyithandi kuphela isikhwama sakhe, kodwa yena ngokwakhe? Apha umele ubonise ukuzithintela, kodwa kungekhona i-zazhatost. Zithobe, kodwa ungayeki izipho. Zizimeleyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ubuthathaka bakho.
Ukuba uphonsela umgomo wakho wokuthi "uhlenga" into ethile, ke ulungele ukuhlawula ixabiso eliphezulu. Amadoda asobutyebi banamhlanje, anzima ngamava, akayi kuvumela ukuba asetyenziswe. Akukho mntu uya kuthanda ukuba yinto eluhlaza kumntu othile. Yiba nengqiqo.
Omnye umbuzo omele uhlolisiswe ngowendlela yokuthetha nabantu abadala? Isibetho sakho kulo mzekelo kufuneka sibe: "Ukunyaniseka okungakumbi, ukufumana umntwana ngokukhawuleza, okulungileyo
Ukukwazi ukuthetha namadoda kuza namava. Ukuba ubonisa ukungakholelwa, vala uze ufihle, ngoko malunga nawaphi na amava kunye nentetho ayikwazi. Akukho mntu ukhuselekile kwiipazamo, umntu akafanele abe noloyiko lobomi. Ukwesaba kunciphisa amandla ethu. Umntu okhubazekileyo ngumntu okhubazekileyo, ngoko ke, umntu kufuneka aphelise ukwesaba. Khumbula ukuba iingxaki ziphazamisa ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo. Sebenza ekupheliseni kwabo.