Abasetyhini, ngokwemvelo yabo, ngeendlela ezininzi banobuthakathaka kunabantu. Umnqweno wokulungelelanisa, ukuthatha izigqibo, ukuthembela kuye kwaye kwiintlonipho ezininzi zithembele kuye ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ekubeni ixesha apho uxanduva lwentsapho yakhe yonke lubekwe ngabameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuxolisa kwethu kuya kumonakalo wethu. Ngamanye amaxesha, umfazi uthembela indoda, le ntembelo ayifanelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ngenxa yoko-akuhlali ujabule. Kuthekani ukuba le ndoda ingumyeni? Indlela yokuvula amehlo akho? Indlela yokuchasene nendalo ngokujonga iinyani? Ungamyeka njani ukuthanda umyeni wakhe?
Uthando lwethu lomntu luvame ukusekelwe kwiimvakalelo kunye nemvakalelo emihle esiyifumana naye kumanyathelo okuqala olwalamano. Kwixesha elizayo, ukuqiniswa kolu thando kuqhutywa ngamaxesha anzima ahlangene kunye. Ibhinqa esuka kubo iqinisekile ngakumbi ngokunyaniseka kokukhetha kwakhe - ibe nendoda ehloniphekileyo, inokumkhusela, xa kukho nantoni na. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele kwaye uqonde ukuba ngexesha elithile umfanekiso womntu entloko wethu usele ugcwele ngokuzeleyo ukuba siyeke ukulungisa nokulungisa ngedatha entsha.
Yaye yintoni elandelayo - uya kucinga ngokulula. Umntu sele sele eziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, wenza ezinye izenzo, kodwa sonke sibona lowo wasondela kuthi. Kwaye kuvela ukuba uyaqonda: ngokwenene, ixesha lokuyeka uthando!
Indlela yokuyeka ukuthanda umyeni wakho - iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo
- Thatha iphepha kunye neepensile. Zama ukuphumla kangangoko kunokwenzeka, cinga ngomyeni wakho. Bhala yonke into oyithandayo ngayo, yonke into oyibekayo malunga nokufaneleka kwayo. Bhala yonke into, ungesabi! Wena ngokwakho uya kukwazi ukuphikisa yonke into.
- Xa le nxalenye iphelile, qinisa ukuba ubhekane nenyaniso. Kudala udlulileyo uyaqaphela ukuba awukho kakuhle njengoko singathanda. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo usabuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo, kumfanekiso wendoda owayithandayo.
- Ziqaphele ukuba ngoku u-mhlawumbi akafani nenye ye-N-th yeminyaka edlulileyo. Ngubani owaziyo oku bhetele kunawe! Ngoko kuya kwenzeka ukuba indoda oyifunayo ngoku ingenye. Kusemvelo.
- Bhala zonke iimpazamo zakhe kwiphepha. Zama ukungabonakali, ungabhala into ongayicingi. Khangela nje ukujonga inyaniso ekugqibeleni, ube nesibindi sokuthi: "Ndifuna ukuyeka ukuthanda umyeni wam."
Kunzima ngakumbi xa umfazi engavumi ukuhamba ebomini bakhe obudlulileyo, ngoko ucinga malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukumthanda umyeni wakhe wangaphambili. Kwindlela yokwazisa iingenelo kunye nokungonakali kukuba ukongeza ubulumko bendoda endala: "Amehlo ayiboni - intliziyo ayibuhlungu." Inombolo encinci yabathintana kunye nexesha elidlulileyo, ubomi obutyebi okwangoku, kunye kanye, ukuhlangana naye ngethuba kwisitrato, uya kuba nobuhlungu obukhulu malunga nomfi. Ezi ndlela kwiifom zabesifazane ziqinisekiswa kungekhona yinkwenkwe eyayilawula kwaye yabeka ukuthanda indoda yayo.
Kwinkinga yendlela yokuyeka ukuthanda umyeni wakho, ukusebenzisana nesimo sakho sengqondo kuye kuphela isiqingatha sempumelelo kwimeko, iingcali zengqondo zithi. Kubaluleke kakhulu
Ingakumbi cinga ngawe, malunga nobomi bakho. Ngaba uyathanda into oyenzayo, indlela ohlala ngayo kunye noko ubona kwisibuko njalo ekuseni. Zama, ngokusebenzisa inqwaba yesivumelwano kunye neminye imibono yabantu kunye nokutshintsha, zifumanise, uluvo lwakho, imbono yakho yonke into eyenzekayo. Umnqweno wokukholisa umntu omthandayo, ukumnceda kuyo yonke into, ukubhubhisa umntu ngamnye. Hamba ekugqibeleni kwimidlalo okanye kumidaniso oye uphupha ngayo ixesha elide, ufundela amagama, ufunde ukudlala igitare, ukhethe ukutya kweTshayina kwaye wenze ukulungiswa kwakhona kunye nokuphosa okufunekayo izinto.
Kwaye emva kwexesha, ukuhlonipha kwakho kuya kukhula kangangokuba uya kuthi: "Ndiyeke ukuthanda umyeni wam, ndaqonda - asikho endleleni."