Inzala yomdla ayinqabile ekuqaleni. Eyona nto, ekuqaleni, omnye wesibini uqala ukujonga ingqalelo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka ukutsala ingqalelo kunye nomdla, ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane obunokwenzeka.
Kulula kumntu ukuba atyelele intombazana yakhe. Kuqwalaselwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba uqala ukuthetha kwaye unikezela ukuba uyazi okanye uchithe ixesha kunye. Kodwa isinyathelo esivela kwintombazana ayisoloko imkelekile, kuba indoda ngokwemvelo ngumzingeli. Nangona kunjalo, ukwazi indlela yokukhangela abantu, ungayifumanisa loo ndoda ngokwakhe ithatha inyathelo kulo mbandela.
Yintoni amadoda ayayiqwalasela xa idibana nayo?
Ngokwesiqhelo, intombi nganye intuitively iyayiqonda into eyenziwa ngabasetyhini. Ukuba kukho injongo yokukholisa abantu, ngoko kufuneka ukhangele ukubukeka kwakho kwamehlo enesini esomeleleyo.
Amadoda ngokuyinqobo axabisa:
- Idatha yangaphandle. Njengomthetho, isifuba, ubukhulu bomzimba, ubuhle buso. Abayithandi into eninzi yokwenza, kodwa i-cute makeup iyamkelekile.
- Izambatho. Amadoda ayinomdla kwiitampu kunye namathegi. Kubalulekile kubo ukuba iimpahla zihambelane kakuhle, gxi ninisa isidima salo mfanekiso, hla mbuluke kwaye sihlambuluke.
- Ukwazi ukuthetha. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nabantu abahlukeneyo, bakwazi ukuxhasa incoko, bathethe inkolo kwaye banomdla.
- Ukuzilibazisa. Nayiphi na into yokuzonwabisa yindlela yokuba yedwa kwaye inomdla.
- Izimpawu zomntu: ububele, ubufazi, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka.
- U msebenzi.
Indlela yokutsala ingqalelo yamadoda?
Kukho iindlela eziliqela ezikunceda ukutsala ingqalelo:
- Ukuba umfazi engazi indlela yokutsala ingqalelo yomntu ongaqhelekanga, unokusebenzisa iindlela ezingekho izandi: qalisa ukuvuselela, ugule izinwele zakho, njengokungathi uzidlala.
- Isiphumo esihle sinikeza ubuso obunzima. Unokujonga umntu, unciphisa iimbosi zakhe aze aphendule ngokujonga. Kule ngongoma, imbono kufuneka ichithwe ngokukhawuleza.
- Gcina izandla zakho zivulekile, ungazixhasi kwikhekhi. Indoda kufuneka ibone ikhwebu yakhe evulekile.
- Jonga lakho ilizwi. Amadoda ahlawuliswa ngamazwi aphantsi. Intetho akufanele ifike ngokukhawuleza, kunye nekhefu, eziza kwenza ukuba abantu bacinge.