Amantombazana amaninzi ayaqhenyiswa ngokuba athandwa ngabantu besini esahlukileyo. Kodwa le meko yezinto ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva iphazamise kwaye ifuna ukubona ngaphaya komnye, kunye naye kuya kubakho ukudala ubudlelwane obuqinile. Kwimeko enjalo, kuvela ingxaki - indlela yokukhetha phakathi kwabafana ababini. Ngokuqhelekileyo ingxaki iqhutyiswa yinto yokuba wonke umntu onesini esomeleleyo unempawu ezikhethiweyo ezithandwa ngumdlali. Ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo, ungasebenzisa iingcebiso ezinikezela ngqondweni.
Ungakhetha njani phakathi kwamadoda amabini?
Okokuqala, kufuneka uziqonde kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba yintoni kanye ofuna ukuyifumana ebomini nasebudlelwaneni . Kubalulekile ukuba abanye abesetyhini bathuthuzele intsapho, kwaye abanye bafuna ukunxanela kunye nokuzonwabisa. Oku kuya kubangela ukuba luhlobo luni lomntu olufanele lube lulandelayo.
Indlela yokukhetha phakathi kwamabini amabini:
- Zama ukukhupha ngokwengqondo enye yeekhathane zakho ebomini bakho. Ukuba uqonda ukuba ubomi abuyi kutshintsha ukusuka kulo naluphi na uhlobo, unokukushiya ngokukhuselekileyo.
- Isiphakamiso esiqhelekileyo kukuba ubhale uluhlu. Mane ubhale kwiphepha eliqhelekileyo lephepha iimpawu ezintle zomntu, isimo sakhe sengqondo, imbono, njl. Phinda le nkqubo kumdlali wakhe. Into ephambili akuyikukhawuleza kwaye ibhale yonke into phantsi kweyona nkcukacha encinci. Emva kokwenza uhlalutyo olunjalo, kuya kukhangela ukuphumelela umntu ophumeleleyo.
- Iingcali ezininzi zeengqondo zincoma ixesha elithile ukuyeka bonke ubudlelwane, kuba oku kulungile ukuhamba. Kubalulekile kungekhona nje ukuba ungaboni, kodwa kungekhona ukuthetha nabafana. Ngokwezibalo, kuthatha malunga neveki ukugqiba kwixesha elizayo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha iingcebiso ezivela ngaphandle zinceda. Kwezinye iimeko, abahlobo abasondeleyo okanye izalamane banokubona indlela ngamnye umalandeli wakho akuphatha ngayo, kuba bayayixabisa yonke into ngaphandle kwemizwa kunye neemvakalelo .
Ungesabi ukwenza ukhetho, kuba ukuba umfazi uzimisele ukuba kunye nendoda ethile, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakholisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaxesha amaninzi.