Izinto ezisisiseko zokuzimela zibekwa ebuntwaneni, kodwa ukuba oko akuzange kwenzeke, kwimeko yokuba intombazana emele, iingcebiso zethu ziya kunceda.
Ukuzimela
Ukuba uzimisele ngokuzikhethela ukuba ufumane ukuzimela, qala:
- Ukuba kwenzeka ukuba unina okanye ugogo akufundise ukupheka, zifunde wena. Ngendlela, abafazi bayabelana ngokuzithandela ngamava abo okupheka, ngoko ke isicelo sokunika iresiphi yesitya esithile asiyi kubangela ukuphendula okungaqhelekanga, kwaye kwi-intanethi namhlanje unokufumana iiklasi eziphambili apho inkqubo yeso silo okanye ivenkile iboniswa kwizigaba. Kakade, ukukwazi ukufumana kungekudala, kodwa ukunqoba kuya kuza.
- Ungazicingi ixesha elide ukuba ungazimela njani, kodwa kunoko ubhalisele izifundo ze-needlework, ufunde ulwimi lwangaphandle kwi-intanethi okanye nakwezinye.
- Funda indlela yokulawula imali yakho, ngokungabonakali kangangoko kunokwenzeka, xa kwenzeka iingxaki, ukunceda izihlobo. Ukuba imali iphelile, kungcono ukubolekela kubahlobo, abasebenzisana nabo, iintombi zamantombazana kunye nokuzinikela ngokwakho-oku kuya kukunceda ufunde indlela yokuphatha imali kwaye kuya kunceda uqonde indlela yokuzimelela ngakumbi.
- Fumana izityalo zangaphakathi uze uzikhathalele. Awunayo izakhono - funda: kwiincwadi zakho zenkonzo, abamelwane kunye neentsapho, abalimi beentyatyambo, i- intanethi .
- Thatha utyando phezu kwezilwanyana ezifuywayo: zondla, zinyamekele.
Kwaye, ke, kufuneka uqonde indlela yokuzimelela ngakumbi xa uhlala kunye okanye ngabazali abasetyenziselwa ukukukhathalela, ukulibala ukuba usuvele uvela ebuntwaneni.
Zama ukungavumelani neziphi izihlobo ezinikelayo, ukuba ngaba malunga nobomi bakho. Iyokuqala "iminyana emkhunjini" kuya kuthiwa iphelile kwiziqhamo kunye neenyembezi zabazali, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuzimela, ungesabi iingxabano: abazali bayakuthanda, ekugqibeleni baya kuqonda yonke into.