Zingaphi kangangexesha esiziqhawula ngayo imini, apho, ngokwecebo, siya kuqala yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni? Sifuna ukuba ngcono kwaye, ngaphezu koko, siyazi ukuba sinakho konke okwenzayo oku. Kodwa yonke into ilahleka into, kwaye ngoko ingxaki iya kuba yinto yonke yobomi. Omnye "ulahlekelwa isisindo", umntu - "ufunda isiNgesi", umntu "ufunde ukudanisa." Ukususela kwizinto eziphathekayo uya kufumanisa ukuba kutheni kunjalo, kwaye unokunyusa njani ukuphumelela komntu, ufike ekupheleni.
Ukuphucula ukusebenza komntu
Mhlawumbi ungazange ukwazi ukuba ukuphucula ukuphumelela kwakho kukho uqeqesho olukhethekileyo olubizwa ngokuthi "coaching". Ukwahluke kwaso kwiintetho ezininzi kunye nokuqeqesha kukungabikho kweengcebiso ezinzima. Le ndlela isekelwe kwiphando lokubambisana kunye nomxhasi wezinto eziphambili kwizinto zokuphila (kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi), ukuveliswa kwamandla akhe, kunye nokuncedisa ekufezeni iinjongo.
Ukuqeqeshelwa ukusebenza komntu kwaba ngumgaqo-nkqubo ozimeleyo weengqondo emva kwee-80 zee-karti zokugqibela. Ukususela ngoko, ukulawulwa kobuqu obunceda abantu baninzi baqonda ukuba isikhubekiso ekufezekiseni iinjongo ezithile ngokubaluleka kwenzelwe ixabiso lokuphila kunye nokungazi kakuhle. Iinjongo eziphambili zokuqeqesha ngokwabo:
- kuchonga izinto eziphambili kunye neendima. Nanku kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba umqeqeshi uya kujonga idilesi yeendima kwiimfuno zangaphakathi, kwaye akuqinisekanga ukuba uluntu;
- yenze impumelelo yempumelelo. Uyakukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo indlela eya kumntwana, kokubili ngokubaluleka kunye nemigangatho efanelekileyo;
- ukuvavanya ingqinamba, kunye nemingcipheko (kubandakanywa nezakhe zokufakelwa) endleleni eya kwinjongo;
- ukuhlalutya izixhobo zawo kunye nokubonakalisa oko kwenzeka;
- ukuchonga iindlela eziphambili zokuphumeza injongo kunye / okanye ukuphunyezwa kwemisebenzi;
- ukhethe kwezi ndlela zona zisebenza ngokusemgangathweni;
- ukwenza isicwangciso-nyiweyo sokukhula komntu kunye nokunyuka kobuchule.
Iphuzu elibalulekileyo: umqeqeshi unikela kuphela izakhono ezisisiseko zokusebenza komntu, eyakhelwe kwintlalo yakho yoluntu kunye nekhono lakho.
Kubaphathi ababenjalo inkqubo bavumela ukubonakalisa ukulinganiselwa kwengqondo yokusebenza komntu, ngoko ke indlela ikhethwa ngokukhethekileyo phakathi kwabaphathi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqeqeshwa komntu siqu kunceda kunoma ubani oziva ehlala ephila.