Ngokuqhelekileyo inkqubo yokuseka umtshato injalo ukuba ngaba abazali babhaliswe emtshatweni, isicelo sabo sokubambisana kwiofisi yokubhalisa sinelisekile, kwaye inzala iya kubhalwa.
Kodwa kukho imeko xa abazali bengatshatanga ngokusemthethweni, okanye umfazi otshatileyo akabelethi umntwana wakhe kumyeni wakhe. Kwaye ukuba ubaba ophilayo uyala ukuqonda inzala, kunokwenzeka ukufezekisa ukusekwa kobuntwaba ngokubuya kwenkundla. Kodwa ukufezekisa oku, kufuneka ulungiselele.
Yintoni oyifunayo ukusekela ubume?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, unina womntwana usebenza kwinkundla. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu banokufaka isicelo. Kungaba ngubawo ukuba loo mfazi wayenqaba ukufakela isitatimende esibandakanyekayo kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa. Amadoda aya enkundleni xa umfazi eswelekile, uyabonakala engenakulungelelanisa, okanye afunyanwa ngamalungelo omzali. Ilungelo kunye nomgcini womntwana unelungelo lokufakela isigwebo (ezi zivame ukuba zilamane - ootatomkhulu, oogogo okanye oomama). Abantwana abadala banokuya enkundleni ukuseka ubume (umzekelo, ukuze bafumane ilifa).
Ngoko, ukuba unqwenela ukuya enkundleni, kufuneka ugcwalise ibango lobazali. Ukuba ungumama womntwana, kufuneka ugcwalise ibango lokubambisana kunye nokubuyiselwa kwe-alimony ebonisa idatha yommangali, ummangalelwa, igama kunye nomhla wokuzalwa komntwana, uchaza uhlobo lolwalamano noyise womntwana (umtshato okanye umtshato obhalisiweyo), ubhala ubungqina bokuba ngumntwana womntu. Ingeniswe kwinkundla yesithili kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo ummangali okanye ummangalelwa. Isicelo kufuneka siqhotyoshelwe njengekopi zobungqina bentando. Ba no:
- ubungqina obhaliweyo;
- maxwebhu;
- ukurekhoda kweevidiyo kunye nevidiyo;
- ubungqina bezinto;
- ubungqina bamaqela, kunye namaNgqina angqina;
- ngcamango.
Ukongeza, isicelo kufuneka siqhotyoshelweyo:
- isatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana;
- ikopi yesibango sommangalelwa;
- fumana irhafu yentlawulo yelizwe.
Inkqubo yokuseka ubabini
Emva kokuba inkundla iqwalasele onke amaxwebhu angeniswe ngumama okanye omnye ummangalelwa, uya kumisela ityala lokuqala, eliza kuqwalasela imfuneko yobungqina obutsha okanye ukuhlolwa kobuntwaba. Indlela ethembekileyo yindlela yokuhlaziywa kwe-DNA yokusekwa kobunikazi. Ukuba inkundla ibona kuyimfuneko ukuyigcina, ngoko bobabini umntwana kunye nootata onokuthi baya kufuneka bafike kwiziko lezonyango ezizodwa apho baya kuthatha iisampula zegazi okanye i-epithelium yophando. Ngendlela, le ndlela ingasetyenziselwa ukuba ifake umtshato ngaphambi kokuba kuhanjiswe, ngoko kule mzekelo iisampuli zithathwe kumfazi okhulelweyo ngokubethelela umlenze we-amniotic we-fetus (sebenzisa i-biopsy ye-chorionic villi, i-amniotic fluid okanye i-fetal blood).
Emva koko, umhla wokuhlawula ityala ngokufanelekileyo utyunjwe. Uhlalutyo lwe-DNA alukho ubungqina obubalulekileyo. Inkundla ihlola iziphumo zophando kunye nobungqina bonke. Ngendlela, ukuba ummangalelwa wenqaba ukuthatha inxaxheba kulo mviwo, le nkcazo ikwaqwalaselwa kwakhona.
Inkundla iya kuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo ubungqina obhaliweyo. Ummangalelwa kufuneka aqokelele amanqaku amaninzi kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka ngokunxulumene nokuphila kunye nosuku lwemihla ngemihla. Oku kungabakho iileta, ii-postcards, i-oda zeemali, iirisithi, izitshixo ezivela kwiiofisi zezindlu, ii-biographies, iifoto, njl. Ukongezelela, ubungqina bamangqina abanokuqinisekisa ukulawulwa ngokuhlangeneyo koqoqosho kunye nobudlelwane kubalulekile.
Ukuba inkundla igqiba ukuseka umtshato, iqela eliphumelelayo liya kuba nelungelo lokufumana isatifikethi sokuzalwa kunye nesalathisi sobabini bobazali, ukuba bafune ukuhlawulwa kwe-alimony nguyise, ukuba bafune ifa egameni lomntwana.