Nangona kubonakala kungenakunceda kunye nobuthathaka, umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa unayo yonke impawu neemfuneko ezinika ithuba lokugcina ubomi kunye nokukhula. Indima ephambili kule nto idlaliswa ngongcamango olungenamthetho owenziwe ngumsebenzi wesimiso senzwa kunye nokukhonza nje kuphela ukukhusela, ukudibanisa nezinto ezizungezile kunye nesondlo, kodwa nokuba ube sisiseko sokwakheka kweentlobo ezinzima kunye neendlela ze-neuropsychic.
Eli nqaku lizinikezelwe kwimithetho kunye nemibandela yentuthuko yengqondo yomntwana, apho siza kuthetha ngeengxaki kunye nokuphambukiswa kwengqondo yengqondo yomntwana, siza kuqwalasela izinto ezizimeleyo zentuthuko yengqondo yomntwana.
Izinto eziphambili kunye nomzekelo wokuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwengane
Isantya sokuphuhliswa kwenkqubo ye-nervous man is inversely proportional to age. Oku kuthetha ukuba omncinci umntwana, ngokukhawuleza iinkqubo zophuhliso ziyahamba.
Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, i-crumb ifumana ezininzi iingcamango ezixhomekeke kwimimiselo ecacisa iindlela zokuziphatha kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Izakhono ezifunyenweyo kunye nemikhwa kwixesha elizayo lidlala indima ebalulekileyo, ngokubanzi ekuqaliseni indlela yokuziphatha kunye nezindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuba umntwana aphendule. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukususela kwiminyaka yobuntwana ukulawula okungengokwenyama kuphela, kodwa kunye nophuhliso lwengqondo lomntwana, umbonise umzekelo ofanelekileyo kwaye ufundise iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuziphatha. Emva koko, imikhuba efunyenwe ebuntwaneni ihlala ihlala ixesha elide.
Intetho idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana. Ukwakhiwa kwamandla okuthetha kuyenzeka ngenxa yokuphuculwa kokuqhubeka komhlalutyi kunye nomsebenzi wokuqonda wengqondo. Kodwa ngokulinganayo kwintetho efanayo inomphumo wemisebenzi yemfundo, ukunxibelelana kweemvuthu kunye nabantu abadala. Ngaphandle kokuqhagamshelana nabantu abadala, ukubunjwa kwentetho yomntwana akunakwenzeka.
Ngokwezinzululwazi, kwiminyaka yakutshanje ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo yabantwana ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- ukunyuka kwe-asthenisation (ukwandisa kwinani labantwana abane-asthenic physique);
- kunye ne-androgyny (ukutshatyalaliswa kweentlukwano zesini);
- ukunciphisa ukunyuswa kokuphuhliswa nokukhula kwabantwana;
- ukwanda kwimiba yokulahla kwenyama, ukunciphisa umzimba kunye nokukhula;
- i-gracilisation (ukunciphisa ubunzima bemisipha);
- ukunyuswa kwentsha (ukwandiswa kwinani labantwana abanamaqondo aphakamileyo aphakamileyo neengqondo).
Ukucima imida yeminyaka kunye nemigangatho yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo ayikho. Inkqubo yesantya yomntu yindlela engaqhelekanga. Ngokwenene ngamnye umntwana unempawu eziphuhlisayo zodwa ezingahambelani nesakhelo esiqinileyo, kodwa iipatheni eziqhelekileyo, ukulandelelana kunye nomda "ophantsi" kunye "nemigangatho" yeminyaka yazo zonke izigaba zophuhliso zichazwe.
Iingxaki zentuthuko yengqondo yengane
Kukho ezininzi "zenguqu", ixesha elibuhlungu lokuphuhliswa kwabantwana. Ubunzima babo buninzi kwixesha elinjalo ukuziphatha komntwana kutshintsho, kuya kuba lula ukuqikelela kwaye kulawulwa. Abazali abangayazi malunga nobukho beengxaki zidla ngokujamelana neengxaki ezininzi, kuquka ukulahleka kwamandla okulawula umntwana wabo kunye nokufumana ulwimi olufanayo naye.
Iingxaki zokuphuhliswa kwengqondo:
- Ingxaki yonyaka . Inxulumene nokwandiswa kokuzimela komntwana. Umntwana akasayi kuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kumama, unokutya, ukuhamba, ukuthatha izinto aze adlale nabo. Kodwa intetho ayilunganga kakuhle kakuhle, kwaye ekuphenduleni ukungaqondani kwabanye, ukukhanya komsindo, ukugonywa, ukukhathazeka kudla rhoqo.
- Inkathazo yeminyaka emithathu . Le ngxaki yokuhlukana. Iingxaki eziphambili zeli xesha zibonakaliswe kwiindlela zokuziphatha zomntwana: ukuzithanda, ukunyaniseka, ukungabi nantoni, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukukhwabanisa, ukukhwabanisa.
- Inkathazo yeminyaka esixhenxe . Ixesha apho umntwana elahlekelwa ngumntwana kunye nokufumana "intlalo". Ukubonakala kweendlela, ukucima, ukuzithela, ukucima, ukuziphatha kungabonakaliyo, kunzima, njl njl. Igunya labazali liyinxalenye engaqinisekiyo, ukunikezela kwigunya lomntu omdala ebomini komntwana - utitshala.
- Ubuntwabuntlalo budla ngokuba yi- "inkathazo ekhulileyo" . Enyanisweni, kwimfundo yabaselula, kukho "imingxuma" kunye nobuqili. Into ebalulekileyo abazali abafuneka bayikhumbule kukuba umntwana ungumntu opheleleyo
ufanele ukuthanda nokuhlonela, kwaye unelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuphuculwa kwengqondo yengqondo yabantwana kunanoma yiphi ubudala, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabazali, ukudibanisa nabantu abadala, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwintsapho kunye nethuba lokuziva ukhululekileyo, umntu ozele ngokubalulekayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Abazali bafanele bafunde iimpawu zokuphuhliswa kwabantwana beeminyaka ezahlukileyo, bathathe umdla kwimicimbi yecandelo lokukhuliselwa, babone abantwana babo, kwaye xa kukho iimpawu zophuhliso olungavumelekanga okanye ezinye iimpawu ezixhalabileyo, ungakhathazeki uze udibane nogqirha ngokukhawuleza.