Ngelishwa, namhlanje alukho nje ulutsha nje, kodwa nolutsha alufuni nje kuphela ukwazi yonke into ngocansi, kodwa nokuzama ukuzama amava. Oku kubangela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili , ukubeletha, ukukhupha isisu, abantwana abashiyiweyo kunye nobomi obuphukile.
Ewe, indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuphuma kule meko iya kuba yinkcazelo ngabantu abatsha ukuba isondo isisombululo somtshato. Kuphela emva kokuba uqaphele ukuqala kwindlela yobomi bentsapho, unokulala ngesondo kwaye uceba ukukhulelwa.
Abaselula abaninzi bacinga ukuba isondo sokuqala kufuneka sibe ngaphandle kwekhondom kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba ube njengomntu wonke. Kodwa ngale nto awuyi kuba njengomntu wonke. Utshabalalisa ubomi bakho kwaye kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukwakha ubudlelwane bokwenene, obuphilayo obuya kusekelwe kubuhlobo, ukuthembela nothando oluqotho.
Kodwa nangobomi obatshatileyo, ukungaqondani kuvame ukuvela ngenxa yemibono eyahlukeneyo yokukhusela. Emva koko, isondo ngaphandle kokuba ikhondom ibhetele, kwaye oku, ngokubaninzi, kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo.
Isondo elikhuselekileyo ngaphandle kwekhondom
Kuza kubekho, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhulelwa . Zikhethwe, zinikwe iminyaka kunye nemeko yempilo. Ulwaphulo-mthetho malunga nesondo ngaphandle kokuba ikhondom kufuneka ihlangabezane neemfuno ezilandelayo:
- khusela ekukhulelweni;
- kubangela umonakalo omkhulu kumzimba.
Iindlela ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kwaye zingabizi nto ikhondom. Kodwa, njengoko kushiwo ngaphambili, akuyena wonke umntu othandayo kwaye bambalwa bayazi indlela yokulala ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom.
Phakathi kweendlela zokukhawulela, ukusetyenziswa kwee-caps, i-diaphragms kunye ne-spermicides iyahlukana: ikhandlela kunye nama-gel. Naliphi na le migaqo yokukhulelwa ifakwe kwisini ngaphambi kokulala ngesondo. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nomntwana wezilwanyana ngendlela yokuwasebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo.
Enye indlela eqhelekileyo yindlela yokusebenzisa iipilisi zokulawula i-hormonal. Iphethe izinto ezithile kunye nezinto eziphazamisayo. Amacwecwe kufuneka atywe imihla ngemihla ngexesha elithile. Ukuba usela ipilisi ephosakeleyo, kunokukhokelela ekukhulelweni kuphela, kodwa kunye nokuphulwa komzimba. Kodwa, nakunoma kunjalo, izidakamizwa ze-hormonal ziwonakalisa isibindi kunye neentso, nangona zincinci. Iipilisi zokukhusela zingakhuthazelwanga kubafazi abaneemvini ze-varicose, izifo zengqondo, isibindi, ama-buc, i-coagulability yegazi, njl njl. Ngokubanzi, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe nawaphi na amayeza, qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho.
Enye indlela, indlela onokulala ngayo ngaphandle kwekhondom, ukuphazamisana ngokwesondo. Abanye bathi le yindlela engathembekiyo, ngelixa abanye baqinisekile ukuba kusebenza kakuhle. Kodwa, sincoma le ndlela kulezo zibini ezingabandakanyekanga kunye nabantwana, kodwa abayi kucinga ukuba ziyavela.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ixesha elihle lokulala ngokwesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom ngexesha okanye emva kokuya esikhathini. Kodwa le ndlela ayiyiyo yonke into eya kuthanda. Unako ukubala ngekhalenda xa umjikelezo wendawo uza kuba kwaye ngeli xesha liyekile okanye likhuselwe.
Kwiimeko ezizodwa, kukho enye indlela efanelekileyo eyamkelekileyo - i-intrauterine device. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ibhinqa inomdla we-latex, apho iikhondom zenziwe khona. Kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ingqalelo ukuba ukuvuthwa kuthwala imiphumo emibini.
Kodwa, ukuba kwenzeka ukuba emva kwesiganeko esinesiqhwenga ulala ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom, kwaye ungazicwangcisi ukukhulelwa, unokufuna uncedo kumgqirha oza kukucebisa iipilisi ezizodwa onokuzithatha iintsuku ezimbalwa emva kwesondo.
Kwaye siyakhumbula kwakhona. Kungcono ukulala ngesondo xa uthembele kumlingane wakho kwaye ungene emtshatweni womthetho kunye naye.