Amagama athi "indoda ifuna ukutshata" ezininzi iingcamango ezingenangqondo, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo isimo sengqondo sesini esomeleleyo somtshato sibi. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo, ngelinye ilanga lixesha lokuba indoda ishade, kwaye ihambelana nje nexesha xa eqonda ukuba ufumene odlala kwimida yomphefumlo wakhe ingoma enhle ebizwa ngokuthi "uthando."
Kutheni amadoda atshate?
Kutheni amadoda adinga ukutshata ngokuziwayo kuphela, kodwa thina bafazi siqiqa ukuba batshadile ukuze baphile kunye nentanda yakho yonke ubomi bakho, kwaye ukhulise abantwana kunye kunye nabazukulwana. Nangona uFeet Nietzsche wade wathi umgqwenkwe wamfazi kumntu ukhulelwe.
Batshata njani amadoda?
Okokuqala kwaye phambili, amadoda akhetha amantombazana abo abathandayo njengabafazi, kwaye "i-pluses" zabo ziimpawu:
- ukukwazi ukupheka ngokumnandi;
- impilo entle;
- umhlobo omnandi;
- nya mekela no bubele.
Ungaqonda njani ukuba umntu ufuna ukutshata?
Xa umntu eqala ukubuza umthandi ngomtshato wamaphupha akhe, ukufumanisa inani elifunayo labantwana kunye nokuba uyayithanda umama, ngoko, mhlawumbi, "uvuthiwe".
Kutheni amadoda atshada nabanye aze athande abanye?
Oku kwenzeka, ngelanga, kungekhona kuphela kumadoda. Konke oku, kuba ulwalamano kunye nomvakalelo wothando luyinto ehlukileyo, kwaye iimfuno zomlingane azifanelanga ukuba zithandekayo. Iqabane lifanele lipheke kakuhle, ligcine ucoceke endlwini kwaye livelise abantwana, kwaye konke okufunekayo kwintando yinto nje. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwanela ukuthanda. Ngako oko, bayatshata neenaliti, kodwa bathanda abo bathanda, kuba awukwazi ukuyalela intliziyo yakho.
Kutheni amadoda atshada iintombi?
Yiba ngowokuqala kuyo yonke indawo - isiqubulo esikhulu samadoda. Ngokuqinisekileyo wonk 'ubani unomvakalelo ongathandekiyo xa umntu enomntu othile, kwaye ngoko ke, nayiphi indoda iyavuya ukuba nguye kuphela "umnini" kunye "nomnqobi" womfazi wakhe. Kodwa ngoku imitshato enjalo inqabile,
Kutheni amadoda atshada i-bitch?
Amagciwane mhlawumbi ashade nala madoda afuna ukubukela ama-movie amahlaseli: aba, njengolu hlobo lwabasetyhini, bayazi "ukukhahlela" amathambo. Enyanisweni, ngomfazi onelisekile kwaye onqwenela ukungafuni ukukrakra: unento enokuthetha ngayo, unendawo yakhe kunye nomdla othakazelisayo, obangela "i-peppercorns" kulwalamano.