Ngamnye wethu kwinqanaba lobomi bomphefumlo wethu uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukuvuyiswa nokuqonda ebomini. Sineenjongo zethu zokonwaba kwaye siqonde ukuba sifuna ukuvuya! Kodwa siphila kwihlabathi apho kuyimfuneko ukuma ngokukhawuleza kwiinyawo zethu nokwenza into yemihla ngemihla ... Usuku nosuku ... Kubalulekile kungekhona nje ukwenza umsebenzi wesiqhelo, kodwa ukwazi oko senzayo, yintoni umphumo sifuna ukufumana! Sidinga ukuqonda ngokucacileyo oko kanye sifuna ukufezekisa; kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - indlela yokwenza ngayo. Ngelishwa, ngamanye amaxesha sisetyenziselwa ukwenza umsebenzi osisigxina, ukuze sikhohlwe ukuba kutheni sikwenza oku. Asinalo ixesha lokuyeka kwaye sijonge ngapha nangapha-singakhathazeki ngokuzonwabisa!
Kuchaneka njani ukubeka phambili?
Siphila kwihlabathi lezilingo. Sonke sibini senza ukhetho. Ukuze ungadideki, kufuneka ubeke phambili ngokuchanekileyo. Ngexesha lokugqiba oko kubaluleke ngokwenene, yintoni efunekayo ukuba ifakwe ngaphambili, kwaye yintoni eyesibili. Kwaye kwaye into ethile kunye nayo yonke into ibangele ebomini bayo, njengoko ingenzi nto ingqiqo? Ezi zixabiso ezibalulekileyo. Senza isakhiwo. Kwaye xa sibona umfanekiso ocacileyo wenyaniso, ikusasa lethu, ihlabathi lethu elifanelekileyo, siqala ukusebenza, silwela ubomi obulungileyo, ukuba ngcono thina ... Kodwa imizamo yethu iya kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba asiyazi ukuba sinokumisela njani iimpawu ezibalulekileyo. Zivume kuwe kwaye uqonde oko kubaluleke kakhulu. Siyabulela kubazali nakubantu abaye basondela kuthi ukususela ebuntwaneni, sinengcamango malunga nale. Ukuhamba ebomini ngokuzithemba - ukuzimisela nokuqonda oko kubaluleke kakhulu kuye, wenza uluhlu lwezinto zokuphila ezixabisekileyo. Yaye enye, mhlawumbi, isisombululo, ayikwazi ukuba yintoni eyokukhetha.
Okulungileyo
Kubuhlungu ukuba namhlanje ekukhetheni phakathi kwendlela yokuphila enempilo kunye noonwabo lwexesha elifutshane, ukhetho lunikezelwa kwizilingo. Sisebenzise imali kuqala ukunyusa impilo yethu, size siyivuselele kwakhona! Kuhleka, akunjalo?
Inentsingiselo enye
Ngamnye wethu uyazi into awafanele ayenze kwaye yintoni anokukhethayo. Sonke sahluke, kodwa sinentsingiselo enye, umzekelo, ukwenza okuhle kwabanye! Yaye yintoni ixabiso lobomi elenza sibe nolonwabo ngakumbi? Mhlawumbi yonke into.
Ngokwenza abanye abantu babe nolonwabo, thina ngokwenu siyavuya! Sifumana uxolo noxolo, xa singakhathaleli thina kodwa ngenhlalakahle yabanye. Ngendlela, eli libuye lilungise kakuhle lokudandatheka! Qala ukwenza izinto ezilungileyo ngoku. Musa ukulinda kude kufike intlungu, kunye nentlungu, ngenxa yokungahambi kwethu, siya kwenza isono. Kungabonakala ukuba le nto yodwa esele yenziwe, kuba akukho nto enye iya kukhishwa kwidokodo, umgodi apho, ngokwawo, bahamba ngokuthe ngcembe nangokuzithemba. Kancinci, njengebhola leqhwa, izenzo ezenziwe nguwe, ezingazange zenze uvuyo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ingqiqo, ixhomekeke ngokungazeleleki esifubeni. Bawuthabathe amandla abo, ngaphandle kokuba bangakwazi ukuvuka! Kwaye, kubonakala ngathi kunokwenzeka, nokuba kuyimfuneko, ukwenza nantoni na, ukuze ngandlela-thile utshintshe imeko. Umphefumlo awunanto, kwaye ndigula ngenxa yam ...
Ukuhlaziya iindleko zobomi
Umlenze emlenzeni uyisiphene kunye nesono. Ngokuyimfuneko, ukunakekelwa kunye nokufuna kuya kulandela. Ngoku asikwazi ukukholisa ubomi obuzolile kunye nobunzima. Khawucinge nje, ukuba asizange sinyamekele ixabiso lethu elibalulekileyo, senza umgudu omkhulu kwizinto ezilungileyo ... Kulungile ukhethe okuhle, ngesazela - ezininzi iingxaki azizange zenzeke, ubunzima obungakaze bufike!
Ukuhlaziywa kwexabiso lobomi
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungalindelanga, xa uqaphela ukuba wenze konke okungahambi kakuhle komsebenzi wakho, awuzange usebenze, umzekelo. Okanye wayebandakanyekile okokuqala ekungenangqiqo kunye nenjongo.
Mhlawumbi wenza iphutha kwaye wabeka injongo engafanelekanga? Musa ukukhathazeka, wabeka abanye - 10, 100 !!! Into ephambili kukuba nje ube nexesha elaneleyo ... Yenza into ecinga ngayo, ukuba yintoni intliziyo evuthayo efuna, malunga nomphefumlo ongenakuphikiswa ngokungafunekiyo ... Ngoko ukuba ungayichitha ixesha elingenasidingo engenzi nto yolonwabo, uvuyo. Into ongayikuzihlonela yona. Ingxaki yobomi bexabiso kukuba bathambe ukutshintsha ixesha.
Kuphela xa iinjongo zethu ukuhlala kwabanye, ngokunyanisekileyo ukwenza injabulo kunabantu abasondeleyo, uze uphefumlelwe ngokuphefumlelweyo ngokupheleleyo ... Uphefumlelwe ngobomi. Ngokuqinisekileyo wonk 'ubani uya kuqonda oku kanye. Kodwa ukwenzela ukuba wamkele inyaniso, umntu unokufuna impilo yonke ... Kwaye umntu umcimbi nje wokwenza iphutha, ukwenza ukhetho olungalunganga - kungekhona kwindlela efanelekileyo.
Uluhlu lobomi bexabiso
Uluhlu lwemilinganiselo yobomi ngamnye. Akukho zixhobo. Amaphupha ayinasiphelo ... njengothando! Into ephambili kukuqonda oko
Ubomi bokuba sisiseko
Abazali, intsapho, abantwana; abahlobo, ukuzinza, umsebenzi; uziva unyanzelekile kunye nenkululeko ... Ezi zixabiso eziphambili zobomi, kwaye akuwona wonke uluhlu lwamaxabiso omntu oqulunqwe.
Ukuziphucula. Oku akunakukutyeshwa! Nsuku zonke, nganye yesibini kufuneka sizisebenzele, sizame ukuba ngcono, phuhlise! Kule ndlela kuphela kunokwenzeka ukuhlakulela umoya oqinileyo, uya kuba namandla kunye nomntu oqhubekayo. Apha, phantsi kweemeko ezinjalo, siya kukhula! Ukuphelela, njengoko kuyaziwa, akukho mda!