Ukuze unqobe umntu oyithandayo, akudingeki ukuba ukhumbule kuphela imigaqo yendlela yokuziphatha, kodwa usebenzise amaqhinga amabhinqa. Iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcebiso malunga neendlela zokuziphatha nomntu othanda ukuthatha intliziyo yakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba ungadlala kwaye uziphathe ngendlela engokwemvelo, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi kukho konke ukungaqiniseki.
Intombazana nomfana kufuneka baziphathe njani?
Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi ezinokusebenza ngokubambisana kunye nobuhlobo bexesha elide. Nazi ezinye zazo:
- Musa ukulibala ngokudlala ngothando. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukukwazi ukudukisa isondo esahlukileyo kwigazi lentombazana. Wonke umntu unamaqhinga akhe, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, amantombazana asebenzisa i-look ye-languid, umnqweno wemilomo, ukuchukumisa ukukhanya kumzimba, njl njl.
- Isiluleko esibalulekileyo, indlela yokuziphatha ngayo ubudlelwane kunye nomfana - mamela kakuhle. Oku kubalulekile, kokubili kwinqanaba lokuseka uqhagamshelwano, kunye nolwalamano olude. Abafana abathanda ukuphulaphulwa, bengaphazanyiswa, baphendule ngexesha, kuba, lo luphawu lokuhlonipha kunye nomqondiso wenceba.
- Musa ukulibala ngokuhlekisa. Kucaciswa ukuba ukhetha phakathi kwentombazana ephilileyo neyolisayo, ngokuqinisekileyo umfana uya kukhetha okokugqibela. Kubalulekile ukuhleka kunye nokuhleka ngexesha, ukwenzela ukuba unxibelelwano aluguquleli.
- Iingcebiso ezithandwayo phakathi kweengqondo zengqondo indlela yokuziphatha ukuze ukholise umfana - mnike uncomelo. Oku kuphela kufanele kube yinyani kwaye ngexesha. Ngokwenene, bonke abantu bathanda xa beyanconywa baze baveze izinto ezintle
- Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kulungele "ukubetha" ngokujonga. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngezikhathi ezithile ukuphosa kwiimbono ezinomdla, oko kuya kuba ngumqondiso othile othi lixesha lokuthatha isenzo.
Ukuqhagamshelana noTactile kubalulekile, umzekelo, ukuthintela ngokungaqhelekanga, ukuthuthumela okungenacala, njl njl. Ukuba umfana ufuna ukuthatha isandla sakhe, akudingeki ukuba uyisuse, kuyimbonakalo ecacileyo yokuba uphethwe kuzo zonke iindlela.