Kukho iinkolelo ezininzi, kwaye ngokukodwa abaninzi babo banxulumene nabantwana, ngaphandle kokuba kungavunyelwe ukuphefumula umntwana, kwaye kungekudala. Kwaye ingozi iqala ukusuka ngexesha lokukhetha igama lomntwana. Abacebisi abaninzi baya kuchaza ngokukhawuleza ukuba kutheni ungazibiza ngamantombazana amagama amadoda, xelela ukuba unako ukunika igama lomhlobo osweleyo, kwaye uncome ukubhekisela kubangcwele ukuphefumlelwa. Kodwa isigqibo sokuthatha bonke abazali abafanayo, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukujongana nazo zonke iimpawu ngaphambili.
Kutheni ungazibiza ngokuba ngamantombazana amagama amadoda?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amagama anikezelwa ngempembelelo engummangaliso ebomini bomntu, kodwa ngokwenene, ukungafani kuqinisekisa ukuba imigaqo ikhona. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba iOthodoxi ngokungabikho kombala wemibala, ebonisa ukuba ukhumbule iTestamente Elidala, apho abantwana babizwa khona emva kweziganeko. Amaqhawe abo ayenziwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunamadoda, amaninzi amanina amabhinqa ayenziwe ngabantu okanye aphuma kuwo. Ngokomzekelo, uRimma no-Inna ngamagama abantu abafel 'ukholo, kwaye u-Olga oqhelekileyo ungumqulu wokulandelela kunye negama lendoda u-Oleg. Ngoko ke, intombazana ingabizwa ngomoya ozolile igama lomntu, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuhlambalaza. Ngoko ke iphi imiqondiso kule nqanaba iphuma, kwaye yintoni emele ifyelwe ngaba bantwana abanjalo?
Xa ebuzwa ukuba kutheni bangabizwa ngamagama omntu, bavame ukuphendula ukuba baya kubandezeleka kakhulu. Iingcambu zale nkolelo zivela kwelinye, zixela impembelelo yegama kwizenzo zomntu. Kwaye ukuba oko kungenzeki, ngoko akufanele ukwesaba. Enye into kukuba abantu abakujikeleziyo banokuqonda ukuba uAlexander noVictoria, njengobunzima kunye nokunyaniseka, nangona ukuba akunjalo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba le nkolelo ayikho yendalo, abaphandi baseMerika bakholelwa ukuba le ntombazana inokukwazi nokuba ibizwe ngokuba ngumntu, ngenxa yoko
Kuvela ukuba ungabiza intombazana egameni lomntu, kodwa ngaba kulungele ukunika umntwana igama lomntu oshonile? Akukho phando kulokhu, kodwa kukho ukucaca ngokucacileyo ukuba kwimeko enjalo umphumo womzali oshiya uya kunqoba phezu komntwana, ngakumbi ukuba ukufa kwakungekafiki. Kukho uluvo lokuba amandla angasetyenziswayo omfi uya kuphazamisa iintshukumo zomntwana, nangona le mpembelelo inokuba yinto enhle. Kodwa ukukholelwa okanye akunjalo, kufike kuwe.