Abantu abaninzi bayazi ukuba iintsuku ezili-9 emva kokufa kubalulekile, kodwa akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba bathetha ntoni. Mhlawumbi, abaninzi abantu babezibuza ukuba kutheni umyalelo wenkonzo ebandleni kwaye ulungiselele uvuko.
Ngoko, kufuneka ukhumbule okokuphela kweentsuku ezili-9 emva kokufa kuthiwa "angamkelwa", kuba iindwendwe azimenywanga kuso. Izihlobo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo bomfi bangafika ekuvukeleni imemori yakhe ecacileyo.
Kwenzeka ntoni iintsuku ezili-9 emva kokufa?
Emva kokubuthela kwisikhumbuzo sesikhumbuzo, kufuneka ufunde umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu", emva koko kufuneka udle i-spoon ye-fear (ngokukhethekileyo ibekelwe ecaleni).
Nangona ukuba emva kokufa kudlulileyo iintsuku ezili-9 kwitheyibhile akufanele kubekho utywala , kwaye emva kwakhe - kumnandi, ukuhleka, iingoma ezivuya kunye nehlazo. Kwakhona kuvunyelwe ukukhumbula iimpawu "ezimbi" zomntu ofileyo.
Iphosakeleyo cinga abo baqinisekile ukuba ukutya etafileni kudlala indima enkulu kweso sikhumbuzo. Oku kubi. Kukulungele ukulungiselela isidlo esifanelekileyo ngaphandle kokutya. Emva koko, akunandaba nokuba yeyiphi iitya etafileni namhlanje, kwaye ngokubaluleke ngakumbi, ukuba abantu abahloniphekileyo nabalangazelela ukuhamba baye bafika, kwaye balungele nanoma yimuphi umzuzu ukunika uncedo kwizihlobo zakhe.
Kuthetha ukuthini iintsuku ezili-9 emva kokufa?
Kwenzeka ntoni kumphefumlo ngomhla we-9 emva kokufa, ezininzi iinkxalabo. Njengoko bethetha kwimibhalo yama-Orthodox, umphefumlo emva kokufa ushiya umzimba womntu kwaye awushiyi ihlabathi lezinto eziphilayo kungekhona iintsuku ezili-9, kodwa de kube iintsuku ezingama-40. Kodwa iintsuku ezingama-40 umphefumlo ulapho, ngaphambi kokuba aphile emzimbeni. Abanye bathi emva kokungcwaba, izalamane ziva ukuba khona komntu ngaphakathi kwindlu.
Ngomhla wokuqala emva kokufa komntu, umphefumlo wakhe uyatshitshiswa, kuba akanakuqonda ukuba unokuphila njani ngaphandle komzimba. Kuvela kule ngqalelo e-Indiya ukuba kuyisiko lokutshabalalisa umzimba. Ukuba umzimba womzimba uswele ixesha elide, ngoko umphefumlo uya kuhlala usondele. Ukuba umzimba unikezelwa emhlabeni, umphefumlo uya kubona ukubola kwawo.
Ngomhla wesithathu umphefumlo uqala ukuhlaziya, usebenzise ukungahlali ngaphandle komzimba, ujikeleze ummelwane, uze ubuyele endlwini. Izihlobo akufanele zihlupheke ngokunyanisekileyo ngenxa yomntu oshonile kunye nebhedi ngokukhawuleza, njengoko umphefumlo uva yonke into, kwaye uhlangabezana nazo zonke iintlungu zezizalwane. Ngeli xesha kubalulekile ukuthandaza lonke ixesha ngomphefumlo womfi, uzama ukumthumela ngaphandle kweli hlabathi. Kulo mzuzwana, ufumana intlungu yengqondo, uziva kwaye akaqondi indlela yokuqhubeka. Ngenxa yoko, ngeemithandazo zam lamane, ndimnceda ukuba azinciphe.
Ngoko kwenzeka ntoni kumphefumlo ngosuku lweshumi elinesibini emva kokufa kwaye zithini iinkcubeko ezinxulumene nalo mhla? Umngcwabo womntu oshonile unobungqina bezithunywa zangelosi ezithoba ezisebenzela oPhezukonke kwaye umcele ukuba abe nesihe kumfi. Emva kwemihla emithathu umphefumlo uhamba kunye nengelosi engena emasangweni eparadesi kwaye ibonisa ubuhle obuhle bendawo yokuhlala. Kule meko umphefumlo unentsuku ezintandathu, ukulibala ngosizi obuvelelwe ngethuba lexesha
Kodwa isiphephelo somphefumlo sinqunywa kuphela ngomhla wesine, xa unqulo loPhezukonke luya kunyuka okwesithathu. Emva koko uThixo uya kugqiba isigqibo sakhe, esilinganisa izenzo zakhe ezilungileyo nezimbi kwizinga.
Izihlobo kufuneka zi thandaze lonke eli xesha, ngaleyo ndlela zihlanjululwe izono zomntu ofileyo - oku kuza kubaluleke kakhulu kuye.