Iqhinga lokuya kwintlanganiso libhekisela ekuthandeni umlingo, kuba kukuvumela ukuba ungene kumntu ukuya kumhla. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba iinkqubo ezinjalo aziyi kubangela imvakalelo, kodwa iya kuba yinto ekhuthazayo yokuqhagamshelana. Akukho miphumo emibi yolu qhinga, kwaye ungazifunda nawuphi na usuku, nangaliphi na imini. Ukufezekisa iziphumo ezifunwayo, kwimizila enjalo, ukubonakala kunye nokugxininisa kwiimvakalelo neemvakalelo zakho zibaluleke kakhulu.
Iqhinga lokuhlangana nomhlobo wakho
Ukuba kukho umnqweno wokudibana nomthandi, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile ayibonakali, kuthetha ukuba unokuqhuba isithethe esiya kumenza ube nomnqweno ongenakucacisa. Ngaphambi kokuqhubela kwisalathisi ngokwaso, kubalulekile ukudibanisa kumsinga ofunekayo. Yilungiselele kakuhle kwaye ucinge ngeso lengqondo indlela umhlobo othandekayo angena ngayo indlu, uvula umnyango, indlela ekhangeleka ngayo, njl. Kubaluleke kakhulu kukubaluleka kweenkcukacha. Xa kukho umfanekiso ocacileyo weentlanganiso phambi kwamehlo akho, kufuneka uvale izandla zakho kwisitshixo sakho kunye nokumemeza ngaphandle kokungabaza ukufunda icebo elinjalo:
"Mna, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), mbize umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kungekhona esithandweni somlilo, kungekhona emanzini olwandle, kungekhona kwilizwe elifileyo, kungekhona kwintambo yocingo, kungekhona kwicawa yegolide, kungekhona kwintango esontekile, kodwa ukusuka kwiplanga lam.
Iingcamango zomkhonzi kaThixo (igama), umbiza kuye kunoko, inyawo zakhe, uyithwala yona.
Iingelosi ezimbini ezilondolozayo ziya kuhamba naye endleleni, ukuba kumacala omabini, ikhoboka likaThixo (igama) liya kuhamba, baya kumkhokela emnyango wam.
Ngelizwi lendoda enhle ndiyindwendwe kum, ndivala umnqweno wam.
Ewe kuya kwenzeka, njengoko kuthethwa. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Phinda amagama amaxesha alithoba. Isithethe siqala ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza emva kokubhengezwa kwamagama okugqibela.
Isakhiwo esinamandla sentlanganiso
Ukufezekisa umphumo oyifunayo, kule nkqubo, ukulungiselela kwangaphambili kubalulekile - ukuhlanjululwa kwizinto ezimbi. Ngenxa yoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba uhambelane nokutya okuqinileyo iintsuku ezintathu kwaye udle kuphela ukutya kwemvelaphi yemifuno ubuncinane ubuncinane. Nangona kweli xesha, kufuneka ulahle yonke imikhwa emibi kwaye ungalalani ngesondo. Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukungquzulana kunye nokuxabana nabanye, ngokubanzi, zikhusele kuyo nayiphi na imvakalelo emibi.
Isithethe sidinga ukuqala emva kokushona kwelanga. Vala zonke iifestile, vala amakhethini uze ukhanyise ikhandlela lebandla. Ukujonga ilangatye, cinga intlanganiso kunye nendoda kwaye uthi icebo elinjalo:
"UThixo uya kuhlanganisana nam endleleni. Uya kundinika insikelelo ebubudlelwaneni, ukudibana nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama), ndiqiniseke, undiphe ithuba, anike amandla akhe. INkosi uThixo iya kundisindisa ekungcoleni inkunkuma, kwiintlanganiso ezingabonakaliyo, kwiintliziyo ezimbi, intliziyo yam ayiyi kuxhalabisa, ayiyi kuba nokwamoyika kwimiba yam, kuya kubakho ukudibanisa uthando kunye nam, amakhoboka kaThixo (igama) kunye nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama) kwaye uya kukhula , ewe wande. Ndiza kuthandaza kuThixo, ewe, intlanganiso iyimfuneko. Yiba njalo. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Isalathiso sokudibana nendoda ngesepha
Lo mboniso ufanelekile kwiimeko xa kubalulekile ukudibana nomntu. Umzekelo, ukuba intlanganiso iyadingeka ukunquma ukuba yintoni na umbandela, ke le nceba iya kunceda ukuqonda oku. Ngenxa yesithethe sakho ngesandla sakho sokunene, cima iqela elincinci lensipho uze uhlume igama lomntu ofuna ukudibanisa naye. Kuhlamba elingenanto, faka le ngqungquthela, uncike phezu kwayo uthi:
"Ukulala ngaphandle, kungekho moya kunye nemvula. Akukho ndudumo, akukho siphepho, kuphela ukuzola. Yonke iya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza, ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ingenanto. "
Inxalenye yesepha kufuneka igcinwe kwisikhwama, kude kube khona intlanganiso.
Iqonga kwintlanganiso yokuqala kunye nesiqingatha
Olu rhile luya kunceda abantu abanomdla ukuba bahlangabezane nomntu ofanelekileyo onokumakhela naye ubudlelwane obonwabileyo obuhlala njalo. Ngenxa yokuziphatha kwayo, kufuneka uthenge amakhanda amathathu ecawa, kunye nomnye uphawu lwe-Most Holy Theotokos kunye ne-Guardian Angel. Zivale egumbini, ukhanyisa ikhandlela kunye nendawo elandelayo iimpawu ezilungiselelwe. Emva koko, funda le ngqungquthela kathathu:
"Isithunywa sam sothando, ndikubongoza,
Ukususela ekuzalweni uye wahlala kum.
Ukukhawulezisa intlanganiso yam kumendo onzima,
Ulonwabo olungalindelekanga kumaphiko.
Mhlawumbi kwindawo efihlwe kuyo,
Ndithumelele zonke iinjongo ezenzelwe.
Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Kubalulekile ukufunda amagama ngokuzithemba ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukubeka iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo kuzo. Amakhandlela kufuneka atshise ngokupheleleyo, kwaye i-cinder ingaphoswa.
Iqonga elifanelekileyo kwintlanganiso ekhawulezayo
Isithethe esilula siya kunceda ngoncedo lwakho lwangaphakathi "ukunyusa" wakho umthandayo kwiintlanganiso. Ukuqala ukuphunyezwa kwayo kulungele ngqo phakathi kobusuku. Ngaphambi koko kufuneka uthenge amakhandlela angama-13. Xa ixesha lifika, likhanyise kwaye, lijonge ilangatye, cinga iintlanganiso ezizayo kwizinto ezincinci kwaye uthi icebo:
"Ndikulungiselela ikhandlela kwintlanganiso, ngenxa yomhla wokugqibela. Nangona intanda yam ide, makabe kufuphi nam. Ndiprofeta ukuba ndikubone ngokukhawuleza, ukubiza iminwe yomlilo obi. Njengoko umchasi-Kristu udla imiphefumlo yethu, uthando aluyi kusuka kum ngoku. Njani zonke ikhandlela ziya kutshisa zize zife, ziza kutshisa umlilo kum amazwi ambo ebusuku. Makhe ndenze icebo elingenanto, zonke izithintelo zivulekile. Yiba njalo. Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Funda kude kube ikhandlela
Iqonga ukuya kwintlanganiso kwisithombe
Isithethe esingenakunzima kufuneka senziwe ekuphumeni kwelanga kunye nokushona kwelanga ezimbini iintsuku ezilandelanayo. Kuye, ikhandlela ezimbini ze-wax kunye nomfanekiso womntu othandekayo kufuneka zilungiswe. Kule tafile ufake ifoto, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ukhanyise ikhandlela. Ukubukela ngelangatye emehlweni omntu othandekayo, khankanya icebo elilandelayo: "Usuku lwadlula kwaye ubusuku busasa. Ndalindela usuku kwaye ndalinda ubusuku. Ngoku ndikulindele, (igama lomntu ukuba libizwe). "
Funda uze uzive ukuba kwanele. Emva koko, khanyisa ikhandlela ngeminwe yakho, kuba awukwazi ukuyivuthela. Ngokuhlwa, phinda isithethe kwaye ushiye ikhandlela elitshise ngokupheleleyo. Ngomso olandelayo, umkhosi ubanjwe ngenye ikhandlela. Enye into ebalulekileyo - kusasa ukufunda isalathisi, kufuneka ubhekane nojongene nempuma, kwaye ngokuhlwa - ukuya entshona.