Ikhulu leminyaka yophuhliso lwezobuchwepheshe lenze utshintsho oluninzi endleleni yokuphila yabantu. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ukungathandabuzeki kokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ezicetywayo kuya kufumaneka. Ngoko, umzekelo, abazali abaninzi banamhlanje bayazibuza ukuba umntwana ufuna i-arna. Njengoko uqeqesho lubonisa, phantse bonke abantwana baqonda ukuba "ukulungiswa kwesikhashana" kakubi. Masizame ukulinganisela zonke iingxaki kunye neqhinga le fowuni.
Ukuxhamla - ucingo lwabantwana nolonwabo kubazali?
Iimpawu ze-Inflatable zezingane ezininzi, umgangatho omkhulu womntwana omnye kunye nezinye izinto ezahlukeneyo zabazalwana babo. Yintoni ongenakuyibona namhlanje kwiintengiso zezingane. Kodwa into enye ukucinga ngale fowuni kwindawo yokuthengiswa, kwaye enye into-kwindawo yayo kunye nokuzaliswa kwindlela yomntwana. Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngaye, abantwana baqonda ukukhuselwa kwentlawulelo yabo ngokuthe ngqo. Kwaye baxhaswa ngokunyanisekileyo ngabaninzi bezingane kunye neengqondo zengqondo. Ezi nkcukacha zilandelayo zingasebenza njengeengxoxo:
- ukungabikho kwenkululeko ayivumeli umntwana ukuba afunde indawo ejikelezileyo kwaye aqonde ihlabathi;
- Ukuhlala ixesha elide kummandla wezemidlalo kungabangela ukuphungula kwintuthuko yomzimba;
- Indawo engalinganiswanga ingakhokelela ekutheni ingqondo yengqondo yengqondo yengqondo yomntwana.
Ngamanye amagama, kuyimfuneko ukubeka umbuzo omncinane kwinqanaba elithile - ngaba ufuna i-arna yomntu omdala? Kukulungeleka kwabo ukuba le divayisi yadalwa. Ukuze wenze okulungileyo, kufuneka uhlale ukhumbule umgaqo "musa ukulimaza". UManezh ulungelelanisa injongo yakhe kwimeko apho umntwana engabikho kwizandla kunye nomama okhatheleyo kufuneka eminye imizuzu embalwa yokuphumla angadli. Enye inketho, ukuba umntu omdala kufuneka abe kude nemizuzu embalwa. Emva koko i-arna iyakwazi ukuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuphila kubantu abadala. Kodwa ke omnye umbuzo uvela - indlela yokufundisa umntwana kwibala lezemidlalo?
Ukwenza oku, landela imithetho emininzi:
- Qala ukubeka umntwana kwibala elikufunayo malunga neenyanga ezintathu.
- I-arna kufuneka ingabi nalutho. Kubalulekile ukugqiba izinto ezininzi ezinjengomntwana, kwaye uzibeke apho.
- Ungayisebenzisi ityhu yobhedu njengombutho. Kufuneka idibene nomntwana ngokulala, kungekhona kunye nemidlalo.
- Xa ukhetha indawo yokukhwela, khumbula ukhuseleko lomntwana: ifowuni imele ibe yomelele, ububanzi beeseli zegridi akufanele kube ngaphezu kwehafu yesentimitha, umgama phakathi kwemivalo akumele ibe ngaphezu kwe-7 cm.
- Ungafaki kwiimidlalo ezinkulu zokudlala, onokuphuma kuwo uze uwele.
- Xa usukhulile, qaphela ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kuguqula kwibala.
Isixa esiphezulu umntwana angasichitha kwi-arna akufanele sidlule iyure enye. Khumbula ukuba abantwana bahluke. Abanye banokuhlala bekhulile ngaphandle kocingo kunye nokudlala ngokuzimela, abanye, ngokungafuneki ukuba bahlale phantsi kwibala. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungowesigaba sesibini - ungakhathazeki. Inqwenela yendalo kunye nothando lwenkululeko kuya ekugqibeleni ibe ngumgangatho wobuntu obuhle.