Izibalo zesehlukaniso zithi namhlanje ama-60% ukuya kuma-80% yawo yonke imitshato iyahlukana. Akumangalisi ukuba phantsi kwimeko enjalo intsapho engaphelelanga isele ibe yinto eqhelekileyo yesiqhelo. Kwaye nangona le ndlela inika inkululeko yokukhetha kumntu onokuthanda ukuba aphile ubomi, iingxaki zeentsapho ezingaphelelanga ziyabonakala kwaye zichaphazela phantse zonke iindawo zobomi.
Iingxaki zentsapho zomzali ongabodwa
Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukuba ichazwe ngesigama. Ngokwezibalo zeentsapho zomzali ongabodwa, ubuninzi beemeko kuba yinkampani yomama + yomntwana. Yiyo imeko esiza kuyiqwalasela.
Ngamhla iintsapho ezinjalo azifumani ukunyanzeliswa koluntu, kwaye ngale ndlela sele kube lula. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, iingxaki ezininzi zihlala zifanelekileyo ixesha elide.
Umzekelo, ingxaki yezemali. Umama omncinci uya kuhlala elambile ukufa ukuba kufuneka aphile ngaphandle kwenzuzo enye kuphela. Ngoko ke, njengomthetho, umfazi uya emsebenzini, kwaye ugogo ugxininise kumntwana, okuvelisa ubuninzi beengxaki kwiintsana kwaye unomuzwa wokuthi uyashiywe, kuba ngoku ufuna ukunakekelwa ngumama.
Iingxaki zeengqondo zentsapho engaphelelanga
Nangona udaba lwezemali olunzima, ingxaki enkulu yeentsapho ezingaphelelanga zisenokubizwa ngokuba yingqondo. Eli bhinqa, elishiye ngaphandle kwenkxaso yindoda, iyanyanzelekile ukuba ingaboni nje kuphela imodeli yabasetyhini, kodwa yindoda, engabi nzima, kodwa yinto embi kumntwana.
Akunakuphi na umntu oza kumelana nenyaniso yokuba yindlela yokuphila yabazali bakhe ephakamisa umntwana. Usana, obususela ebuntwaneni ubona umama ozimele, ufunda
Kule meko, umfazi kule meko kunzima ukubiza umnwaba. Ngenxa yesidingo sokwenza yonke imisebenzi, kaninzi akanayo ixesha elaneleyo lokulungiselela ubomi bomntu, obunemiphumo emibi kwinkqubo yeentlanzi kunye nenqanaba lokuwaneliseka ngobomi. Ukongezelela, umntwana ongaboni ulwalamano phakathi koomama noyise uya kunzima ukuhamba ngendlela yokwakha ubomi babo. Amantombazana, njengomthetho, akayiqondi kakuhle indlela yokuphatha ngayo isondo esahlukileyo, kwaye abafana abanakho ukuqonda ukuba njani - ukuziphatha njengomntu. Amazwi akanikanga umphumo wemfundo, unokwenza umzekelo wodwa. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba sele sele zikhulile ngokuqhelekileyo abo bakhule kwimindeni engumzali omnye bayahlukana.