Sonke sahluke: sinovuyo kwaye sibuhlungu, sihlakaniphile kwaye sisinokuba nethemba. Bathi oku kulula kulula ukuphila, kuba babona kwimibandela emihle kuphela. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo, kwaye ngubani onethemba elinjalo ngokwenene, kuyafaneleka ukuphanda. Ukuqonda iimpawu zomntu onje, kubalulekile ukubuyela kwixesha elithi "ithemba".
Injongo yegama elithi "ithemba"
Njengoko isichazamazwi se-etymological ithi, igama elithi "ithemba" livela kwisiLatini esiphezulu - "entle, eyona nto ibhetele". Ngaloo ndlela, intsingiselo yegama elithi "ithemba" ngumntu okholelwa kwisiphumo esona siphumo esithile.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abathembekileyo "abakho abantu bodwa" abanokumamatheka ngexesha lonke, banandiphe ubomi kwaye bangawuqwalasela iingxaki zobomi. Iingcali zengqondo zithi kukho iindidi ezimbini zethemba: ukuqiqa kunye nokunganangqiqo. Masiqale ngokugqibela.
Ithemba elingenangqiqo nelingqiqo
- Umntu ongenalucalulo ongenalucalulo ubonakala ngokunganakwa ukuhlalutya imeko ekhoyo: ukholelwa ukuba nangona akukho nto yenziwe, yonke into iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo, kwaye iingxaki ziya kuxazululwa ngokwazo.
- Ithemba elinengqiqo alinjalo. Uhlalutya ngenyameko nayiphi na, nokuba yimeko enzima kakhulu, oko kukuthi, usebenza njengomntu ongokoqobo, kwaye kwixesha elizayo ukhangele iindlela zokuphuma kuyo kwaye unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuyifumana kwaye uyisombulule ngokufanelekileyo ingxaki eye yavela. Akayi kukhononda ngokuphila, ukwesaba; uya kuxinezeleka, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uyakuthanda yonke into ebomini, kodwa kuba ulungele ukwenza okuthile.
Ngubani o nethemba?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ubani othembekileyo. Kubonakala ngendlela ethile yokuziphatha :
- Lo mntu uthembela okulungileyo kwaye ukholelwa kwimiphumo emihle yeziganeko;
- Unengqondo yokuhlalutya nokulingana kwengqondo;
- Njengomthetho, ithemba limelela abantu be- sanguine-abantu abanomdla, abakhutheleyo, abanengqondo;
- abayekanga izandla zabo nakwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ngelixa bengabakha "ukukhutshwa komoya" kwaye ababonisi ukunyamezela kwabo apho kungalunganga.
Ngaba kulungile ukuba nethemba?
Mhlawumbi, akukho mpendulo engaqinisekanga kulo mbuzo. Kodwa ukuba uhlalutya zonke izenzo kunye neengcamango zabantu bolu hlobo, unokufika kwisigqibo sokuba umntu othembekileyo ulungile. Emva koko, akalahlekelwa yinto ebomini ngayo iziglasi ze-rose, akalahlekelwa kukuba khona koomoya kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Akayena i-whiner, nangona engathandabuzekiyo. Musa ukucinga ukuba akaze afune uncedo, kodwa ukuba uyayifumana, uya kubulela, kwaye xa kukho ukungaphumeleli, akayi kunciphisa izandla zakhe kunye nokukhathazeka okanye umsindo, kodwa uzakufuna ezinye iindlela ezikuloo meko.
Khumbula idonki kwi-cartoon ngoWinnie the Pooh, owakhulayo: "Akunakwenzeka ...", ngokubhekiselele ekuvuyiseni nasekuthembekeni kwebhere cub? Ngoko, mhlawumbi, ithemba liyikhwalithi yangasese, okanye usenokufunda indlela yokuba nethemba lokusebenzisa iingcebiso ngeengcali.