Ngamanye amaxesha ebomini kufika ixesha elilukhuni xa usuke ucinezelekile kwaye uqale ukutyelela iingcamango ezahlukeneyo, uze ucinge ngokuzibulala. Indlela yokuphuma kweli shondo kwaye ufumane inkuthazo ekufunekayo kwaye kufuneka uphile - funda.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukuhlala?
Cinga nje: ukuba awukwazi, ihlabathi liya kulahleka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unabantu abasondeleyo nabathandayo - abahlobo, intsapho, abantwana, ngubani oya kuba nzima ukuhlala elahlekelwa. Cinga ngeentlungu abaya kuba nazo ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumthandayo. Ngoko ke, uthando lufanelekile ukuhlala.
Ngexesha lokuphila lobomi eMhlabeni, ubuntwini bunzima nombuzo, yintoni intsingiselo yobomi emva kwayo yonke into? Sihamba, sicinga, sifunda kwaye sifumana izakhono ezithile, siyavuya, sakha intsapho, senza izinto zokwakha, siyavuya yaye sizama ukuphumelela ezintsha.
Akukho mfuneko ukuba uphile kwixesha elidlulileyo, nokuba ngaba ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile apho. Funda ukuyeka abantu kunye neemeko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani. Ixesha liza kunceda ukuphinda uphilise amanxeba emphefumlweni. Zama ukwenza uphuhliso lwakho kwaye uzame ukugqwesa. Fumana isifundo esinomdla wokuchitha ixesha kunye nomdla kunye nenjabulo: imilenze yokudlala, ukudansa, ilizwi, imidlalo ekhutheleyo, ukuhamba nokuya kwiindawo ezinomdla. Ngendlela, kukholelwa ukuba ngethuba lomculo umntu uphawula imvakalelo yakhe. Ukuba unamahloni ukuhlabelela nabantu abangaziwayo, yenza uluhlu lwadlalwayo lweengoma zakho ozithandayo okanye uvule i-karaoke - kwaye ucule ngokukhawuleza nangenhliziyo yonke ngangokunokwenzeka. Qala ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle, ubhalisele izifundo zokupheka okanye ukusika nokuthunga. Qalisa ekuseni, yenza izinto zokuzilolonga, uthenge umrhumo kwi- gym - konke oku kuvelisa i-hormone yolonwabo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unabangane abasondeleyo abaya kuhlala bephulaphula kwaye bexhasa, bancedise ukuphazamisa iingcamango ezibuhlungu nezimbi. Ukudibanisa nabo, gqoke kakuhle kwaye uye kuwo
Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ukuba awuyidingi abantu, yenza uncedo okanye uvolontiya. Yiya kwikhaya lezintandane okanye kwikhaya lononophelo, kwizibhedlele apho i-resuseniks esanda kuzalwa ikhona, indawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana - apho uya kuqonda ukuba abantu kunye nezilwanyana zifuna uncedo lwakho, kungekhona kwimeko yokunceda. Ngenxa yoko kuyafaneleka ukuba uphile, kuba unako ukunika umntu uvuyo kunye nokufudumala. Unokunyamekela, ukunyamekela nokuqwalasela abo abayidingayo. Zama ukulandela ezi ngcebiso, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana isikhuthazo sokuhlala.