Iingxoxo kunye neengxabano malunga neengqondo zezo zesondo zigcinwe ukususela ngexesha lokudalwa kwehlabathi kwaye, ngokucacileyo, ziya kuqhubeka ngokude nomhla we-apocalypse. Kutheni, ngoko ke, kubonakala kungenakunzima ukusuka kwimbono yenyama, isenzo, esiyinto engokwemvelo kwizinto ezininzi eziphilayo emhlabeni, kubammeli bohlanga loluntu kubangela ukuqonda okungahambi kakuhle kokugqithiseleyo nje ukuveliswa kwezinto? Impendulo ilula: sinengqiqo kwaye ngenxa yoko sizama ukuqonda inyaniso efihliweyo emva komthombo wokuzonwabisa.
Big Bang
Ekubonweni kokuqala, iingqondo kunye nobulili ziinkalo ezibini ezichasene ngokubanzi kunye nobuntu bomntu. Emva kwakho konke, owokuqala ngowama-100% axhunyiwe kunye nolwazi lwethu lwangaphakathi "I", kunye neyesibili yendalo yendalo yamanzi yezinto eziphilayo. Enyanisweni, yonke into ayilula. Oku kungabonakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa i-orgasm yokuqala yezinto zonke ivela entloko, kwaye emva kokuba umva wethu uqhathanise onke amacandelo afunekayo ukuze athole ukuzonwabisa kwaye aqinisekise ubungqina bezinto ezikhuthazayo (umzekelo, ukubonakala kunye nendlela yokuziphatha komlingane, ukuseta okanye icandelo lomongo), ingqondo iya kunika phambili "i-Big Bang", apho indawo entsha iyakwazi ukuzalwa.
Uthando - aluthandi
I-psychology yamadoda ngesondo iyahluke kakhulu nakweyabasetyhini, okufunekayo, okokuqala, ukuhanjiswa kwemvelo kwendima yokuzala. Zonke izenzo kule "nkqubo ekhangayo" yabameli bezesondo eziqinileyo zithotyelwe kwimisebenzi emibini kuphela: ukuzonwabisa kunye nokufumana ubungqina obucacileyo bokubaluleka kwabo, oko kukuthi, ubona i- female orgasm kuphela, njengobungqina bendawo yakhe yesilisa kunye nento engaphezulu.
Ubulili obuhle bubona yonke into eyenzeka kwincinane kwindlela yokujonga eyahlukileyo: i-subconscious ibhinqa ibheka ubulili njengobungqina obungenakuphikiswa bothando kunye nesibambiso sokuba iqabane elikhethiweyo liyakunyamekela yena kunye nenzala yakhe. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo i-psychology yabasetyhini ngesondo iyancitshiswa ngokugqithiseleyo into yokuba: ukulala nam kuthetha uluthando, oluhluke ngokupheleleyo kumbono womntu wale meko. Iimpawu zengqondo kunye namaxesha athile ezinengqiqo zobundlobongela kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba nje kuthokoze kwaye oku kuchaza iifomati ezingama-65% zamantombazana amahle alungele ukuhlawulela i-orgasm okanye nje ukuxelisa, ukwenzela ukuba umntu obathandayo aziva 'njengothixo' okanye , kwimeko yokunxibelelana ngokubalwa, oko kungamzisa ibhonasi ethile yobomi. Ngaloo ndlela, isondo kwi-psychology yowesifazane ayikho into engenasimo, ukubeka ukuzonwabisa kwizinto eziphambili, nangona kungenakuqinisekiswa ukuba kubalulekile, kokubili kwintombi kunye naye.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo?
I-psychology yothando kunye nezo zesini zimelele emacaleni amabini ekhoneni: isiseko sokuvelisa kunye nokwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo, unako ukuphazamisa. Kwaye ukuba abantu ababini bayazi indlela yokuvalelana, ngoko-mgaqo kuya kuba nzima ukuba bafike "kwisivumelwano" ngokubhekiselele kwinto enye ekulindelayo kwenye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isondo sokuqala, isqondo sobaluleke kakhulu (emva kwayo yonke into iya kuveliswa kuye iimbono ezongezelelekileyo malunga neqabane elifanelekileyo kunye nendlela yokwenza ulwalamano olusondeleyo) ligxininisa kwizinto eziphambili kunye nokukhethwa kwezesondo zomntu. Ngethuba lokuqala, wonke umntu ukhumbula yonke into, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iimvakalelo, ezimbi okanye ezilungileyo, washiya emva. Ngokuqinisekileyo okanye akunjalo,
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ubulili bubonakala ngokuyinhloko njengomthombo wokuzonwabisa (kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na eyenzekayo), kwaye kuphela, njengendlela yokukhulelwa umntwana. Indlela echanekileyo ngayo le ngcamango yemoya yoluntu ezayo, apho kuya kufuneka ukuba baphile abo bangenakufundiswa ukuba bathande, kodwa kuphela ukubandakanya kulo thando, ukugatya ngokupheleleyo izinto ezinjengokuthandana, ukuziphatha, kunye nokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzinza kobudlelwane beentsapho. Imbali ibonisa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokuba zonke iindlela ezifumanekayo zokufumana ukuzonwabisa zifumaneke ngokubanzi kwaye ziyeke ukukhawulelana, kwanokuba ubukhosi obuninzi buwela kunye nemvelo iyazama ukukhokela uluntu kwindlela entsha yophuhliso. Kodwa ngubani ofunda kwiimpazamo zakhe? Kukho into yokucinga ngayo, akunjalo?