Imbali yendlela yokwenza umbala ibuyele kumaxesha amandulo. Kukho ukusebenzisana kombala kunye nexesha: ngoko, i-post-war yaseBritani yakhetha i-grey, iRoma yasendulo-imfusa, njl. Umbala unokuba nempembelelo engqondweni nangokwenyama, kwaye yiyiphi umthunzi othandwa ngumntu, unokwazi ukuxelela ezininzi malunga nomlingiswa wakhe.
Yithini imibala kwiingqondo?
Ingqondo yeengcamango yokujonga umbala iguquke ngaphezu kweenkulungwane, abantu abahlukeneyo banokungafani phakathi kokuhlolwa kwamandla ngamnye athatha. Kodwa ngokubanzi, kwakukho umfanekiso onjalo:
- obomvu - igazi nomlilo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ludibaniswa novuyo, ubuhle nothando, kwaye olunye lufanekisela ubutha, ukuphindezela nokulwa;
- umhlophe - ubungcwele, ubungcwele, ubuhle;
- umnyama omnyama, intlungu, ukufa nokulila;
- ophuzi - umbala welanga, kodwa kunye nombala wokushona kwelanga, ekwindla nokubuna;
- ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka. Umthunzi wokuhlala kunye nesimo, udumo oluhle;
- oluhlaza - imvuselelo nolutsha, umthunzi weentwasahlobo.
Ukuzimisela komlingiswa womntu kwingqondo yengqondo ngombala
Umntu ngamnye unemibala ayithandayo, eyazibhinqa kwiingubo, ngaphakathi, imbala yembala, njl. Izintando zingashintsha ngexesha elixhomekeke kwiziganeko zobomi, ubudala kunye neminye imiba, kodwa ngoku ngoku kubonisa isitorethi sogqithiso kunye nesimo sengqondo. Kukho neendlela ezikhethekileyo ukuchonga uxhulumaniso olunzulu, kodwa ukuba ungagqabi kakhulu, unokongeza uluvo lwakho okanye umntu onomdla ngohlobo lombala kwizengqondo.
Iimpawu zemibala engundoqo:
- Abantu abamnyama bakhetha ukungaqiniseki ngokwabo, bebona ihlabathi ngokukhanya okukhulu. Ukuba umntu uhlala ejikeleza ngezinto kunye nezinto ezinjalo zombala, ngoko ingxaki ebomini yakhe ihlala ixesha elide, kwaye iinjongo zijongwa zingenakufumaneka. Abantwana ukudweba imifanekiso ebomnyama, kwiimfuno ezidinga ukunakekelwa kunye nothando;
- Umhlophe ngumbala oyintloko kunye nombala wesiseko. Akunabantu abangawuthandi umbala, ngoko awukwazi ukuthetha nantoni ngqo malunga nomdlali apha;
- Ukuba igrey ngumbala oyintandokazi, ngoko kwi-psychology lo mntu uya kuthiwa ucebise kwaye akathembeki: akayi kuthatha izigqibo ezikhawulezayo. Ngalo mthunzi, umntu uzama ukuzikhusela ekuhlaseleni ihlabathi lakhe langaphakathi ngaphandle;
- obomvu bakhetha amandla, abantu abanamandla abanqwenela, abanokukhawuleza nabaphumayo. Olubomvu kukuzibonakalisa, ukuthanda, amandla;
- Umdaka kwi-psychology yombala uhlonishwa ngabantu bezithethe ezingatshintshiyo kunye neempawu zentsapho. Lo mthunzi ubonakalisa uvuyo oluqhelekileyo;
- Ubuluhlaza lukhethwa ngabantu abalulekayo ukuzithemba nokuthembela kwabanye. Umntu uvakalelwa imfuneko enkulu yokuphumla nokuphumla, kwaye ngulo mthunzi ozungezile ngexesha lokugula;
- oluhlaza kwi-psychology yokukhetha umbala kukubonakalisa amandla angasemva, umlinganiselo wokutshatyalaliswa kwemimoya. Uthenda abantu abangena emikhondweni edibeneyo baze bafezekise yonke into ebomini ngokwamandla abo nokuthanda kwabo.
Namhlanje, impembelelo yombala kwimeko yomntu isetyenziswe kokubili kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla kunye nezoshishino. Abaqambi beengubo kunye nokufunda kwangaphakathi kwezi zixhobo kunye nesiseko seenkcukacha ezifunyenweyo banikela uluntu iziphumo zomsebenzi wabo. Abakhangisi bazama ukuphazamisa umthengi ngokusebenzisa umthunzi othile. Ngokwakhe konke oku ngasentla, kunokugqitywa ukuba inzululwazi yokufunda impembelelo yombala kumntu iya kuphuhlisa phambili, ihlolisise iindlela ezintsha zokulungisa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zabantu.