Mhlawumbi, akuyi kuba namnye umntu ehlabathini ongakhange abone ukwesaba okungenani kanye ebomini bakhe. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuvakalelwa kwaye uve neentloni zaloo mvakalelo, kuba le mpendulo iyasisindisa kwiingozi ezahlukahlukeneyo kwaye inzuzo yoloyiko sele ibe yinyaniso eqinisekisiweyo.
Imizekelo yeenzuzo zokwesaba
Okokuqala, makhe sithethe encinci malunga nokuveliswa kophuhliso lwabantu kunye ne-anthropology. Iingcali zenzululwazi ezisebenza kule mimandla yenzululwazi ziye zabonisa ixesha elide ukuba kwakukho ukwesaba okwavumela abantu ukuba baphile kwaye baphuhlise. Okhokho bethu obude, xa bevela ingozi, bazama ukubalekela kwimvelaphi yeengxaki ezinokwenzeka kunokwenzeka, yingakho asizange sinyamalale njengezilwanyana; ngaphandle koko, abantu basendulo babeza kutshabalalisa kwizinto eziqhelekileyo zendalo, ngokomzekelo, ukusuka kwisiteleka esifanayo sombane. Uvakalelwa ngethuba ngexesha lokuduma kweendudumo, ookhokho bethu bafuna ukuphepha, ngaloo ndlela balondoloza ubomi babo. Yiyo le zifundo zenzululwazi eziyintloko kunye nenkulu ingxabano ekuxhaseni, kodwa makhe sixoxe ngemizekelo ekhoyo kunye nobungqina bolu xwebhu.
Abantu abaninzi banokuvakalelwa xa bengekho ebumnyameni, kwaye oku kukuvimbela ukuba benze izenzo ezinobungozi, umzekelo, ukuhamba kwizitrato zobusuku, okanye ukujikeleza kwindlu yokuhlala. Kwimeko yokuqala, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba lixhoba labalwaphuli-mthetho, okwesibini, ukufumana ingxaki yomzimba. Kodwa, lo ngumzekelo omnye wokusetyenziswa koyiko lobumnyama okanye nayiphi na into eyenza ukuthuthumela emadolweni, kungabalulekanga ukuba xa kuvela ingozi emzimbeni, i-adrenaline iqala ukuphuhlisa, edibanisa yonke imikhosi, nto leyo ithetha ukuba umntu ufumana amandla angaphezu kwamandla akhe . Ukuyithintela phantsi kwefuthe le-adrenaline, sinokuziva ngamathuba ethu, qalisa ukuzithobela size sithole iindiza ezintsha.
Umzekelo omhle wokusetyenziswa kokwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo yimiba engabonakaliyo malunga nendlela umntu, emva kokugqiba ekubeni anqobe kwaye alahlekise i-phobia yakhe, uqala ukubandakanyeka nomfundisi we-parachute. Ukuzithela ngokwabo, abantu abanjalo baqala ukuphumelela kwezinye izinto, njengoko bakholelwa kwamandla abo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kufuneka ulahlekelwe ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo kunye nomqeqeshi onolwazi, kwaye, kungekhona ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo phezu kwephahla, kungenjalo, ityala lingagqitywa kwintlekele, kungeyikuphumelela.
Enye inyaniso yesidingo somntu wale ntliziyo inokuboniswa kakuhle ngumzekelo weenzuzo zokwesaba kwamanzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo ingqondo yengozi yenza umntu enze ngokusesikweni, kwaye, engathembeki kwisimo sengqondo, umzekelo, sisoloko sibalekela ezifanayo. Ngako oko, cinga ukuba umntu ongazi ukuba angashukumi ngokukhawuleza awele emlanjeni okanye echibini elingaphantsi, kubonakala ukuba kufuneka agxobye kwaye akukho namathuba okusindiswa. Kodwa i- adrenaline ephuhlisiwe ingaba nomthelela emzimbeni, obizwa ngokuthiwa "ubuchopho bunqatshulwa," kwaye indoda egxobhozayo iya kushukuma izandla kunye neenyawo ukuze zihlale zihamba.
Ngokufutshane sifutshane, sinokuqaphela oku kulandelayo:
- Uloyiko lwanceda abantu baphile.
- Ikhusela ukuba singabhubhisi iimeko ezinobungozi.
- Ngokukhululwa kwemali eninzi ye-adrenaline egazini, umntu unokuqalisa ukwenza ngokuzenzekelayo, ngoko ke ukuzisindisa.
- Ukwesaba kusinceda siphucule ngokwabo, kuba, xa sinqoba, siyaqala ukuzihlonela kwaye sikholwe.
Ungabi neentloni malunga nokwesaba kwakho, ukuba akukuvumi ukuba uphile, awukwazi ukuwushiya konke, kuba lo luhlobo lwenkqubo yokukhusela efunwa ngumntu wonke.