Ukuzifumanisa ngokuzenzekelayo emehlweni abantu kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi kufakwa, kodwa kukho umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini. Ukuzifumanisa ngokuzifumanisa yindlela ewonakalisayo yokucinga malunga nawe, apho iingxaki zithathwa kwaye ziqondwa, kwaye iimpawu zobuntu kunye namandla abo awanakunyanzelwa.
Ukuzimela kwizengqondo
Ukuze uqonde ukuba usebenza ngokuzifumanisa, kunele ukuthobela ingqalelo impawu elandelayo:
- Unendawo engafanelekanga kwaye ugxininise kwiimpawu ezimbi.
- Uhlala ukhangeleka kunye neepasodes ezingathandekiyo nokungaphumeleli.
- Ngokusoloko uzisola ngezinto ongazange uyenze noko ungenzanga njengoko uthanda.
- Uloyiko into okanye uloyiko.
- Wena ngokunye ubeka icala, ngoko ulungisa, ngoko uxolo.
- Iingcamango zakho zihlala zidlulileyo (kufuneka ufune izisombululo kwaye ungabangeli).
- Uhlalutyo lwakho alunayo injongo ecacileyo okanye enomdla.
- Iingcamango zakho azijolise ekulungiseni iimpazamo - uziva nje ukuba unayo.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukuzithengisa oko kukusetyenziswe ukwenza, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nendlela yokulahla inzala yakho. Kuhlala kuphazamisa ubomi obonwabileyo, obukhululekile.
Ungayeka njani ukumba?
Okokuqala, ukusekwa kokucinga okuthe ngqo kukunceda ukuba unqobe ukutshabalalisa. Makhe siqwalasele, yintoni le nto enokwenzeka ukuba yenza:
- baphila ngoku kunye nekamva, kodwa kungekudala;
- ziqhele ukufumana izibonelelo kuyo nayiphi na imeko;
- Ungazigxeki ngeze, kodwa yenza iinjongo ezikuvumela ukuba utshintshe impawu engathandekiyo;
- ukwenza izinto eziphambili zobomi kunye nezicwangciso;
- ukwenza uhlalutyo olwakhayo, ucinga ngamacala akho amnandi, ugxininise impumelelo kunye nayo yonke into,
oko kukukholisa; - ukuphuhlisa ubuntu bakho - funda ulwazi olutsha, funda izakhono ezintsha;
- qi niseka ukuba ufumane ixesha lokuzibonakalisa kunye nezo zinto okholiswayo kwaye ulungile kuzo;
- Ungabambeleli kwinqanaba lamaphupha - yenza okokuqala, okwesibini kunye namanqanaba onke alandelayo endleleni eya kwinjongo yakho.
Ukufuna ukuzifunela kufuna abo bangakulungele ukutshintsha. Ngenxa yokuba nje ufumana iziphoso zakho okanye uziqhayisa, akukho nto iya kwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba uzinikezele ekuphuculeni, imeko iya kutshintsha ngexesha elifutshane kunokwenzeka, kuba iingcinga zakho ziya kuhanjelwa kuphela kwixesha elizayo.