Ubuntu bomntu ngamnye bubuninzi kwaye ngamnye wethu unempawu ezahlukileyo zeempawu, kwaye ngoko nantoni na, siya kuqwalasela ngokubanzi.
Ziziphi iimpawu zomntu?
Okokuqala, ukuze bafunde iimpawu zabo , kubalulekile ukuhlalutya isimo sengqondo somntu siqu (oku kuquka ukuzithemba, ukugxeka abanye) kunye nesimo sengqondo kwabanye (le nkohlakalo okanye inceba, ukungabi nandaba, ububele, inceba, ukuhlonipha njl njl.), ekufundiseni imisebenzi, kwishishini (ubuqili, ukuchaneka, ukukhuthaza okanye ukungazinzi).
Sekudlulileyo ekuzalweni, umntu ubonakalisa iimpawu eziphambili zobuntu bakhe kunye nobomi bomntu ngamnye wethu ogqithisiweyo. Kuxhomekeke kukuphi uhlobo lwesimo (i-choleric, sanguine, i-phlegmatic, i-melancholic) ilawula, iziganeko ezinjalo zibizwa. Ngoko ke, abantu abaxhamlileyo balula ukulungelelaniswa, abaxhamli kwingcamango yokuqeqesha, i-melancholic, ngokufanelekileyo-onobubele, onesihawu, nakwi-sanguine, i-choleric iya kuphuma umququzeleli obalaseleyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba nomoya, umntu unokuhlakulela iimpawu ezifunwayo zomlingiswa.
Ziziphi iimpawu ezilungileyo?
Ziziphi iimpawu ezilungileyo kunye ezimbi, azixhomekanga kuphela kwisimo sengqondo, iimpawu ezingenasiphelo, kodwa nakwiyangqa yomnxibelelwano womntu, ukukhuliswa kwakhe. Ngoko ke:
- bubele;
- mfesane;
- isombululo;
- nya mezela;
- ukuzithemba;
- nethemba;
- nya niseka;
- ngobuninzi;
- ukuzola;
- ukuthembeka;
- ukuphendula;
- nziswano;
- ukuzingca (kungekhona ukudideka).
Ziziphi iimpawu ezintle zomdlali?
Kwaye kumaxesha amandulo, iimpawu ezimbi zabizwa ngokuba yi "dragons ezihlala kuwo wonke umntu". Ngoko, baphathe:
- uthando lomandla;
- nekratshi;
- ukuzithemba;
- kuzingca;
- umona;
- nomona;
- ukucaphuka;
- nomsindo;
- inkunkuma;
- ukuqinisekiswa.