Ubomi bunjengemidlalo: abanye baza kukhuphisana, abanye bazokurhweba, kwaye banonwaba kakhulu ukubukela, "kusho uLev Tolstoy, ngokubhekiselele kwindawo yokuphila komntu. Wayekunene okanye engalunganga, uyazichaza ngokwakhe. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ngamazwi akhe akukho ziqhamo zengqiqo, kuya kuba, ubuncinci, ngokungenangqiqo. Okwangoku, ukuze ungathathi kakuhle amagama omlobi, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba yintoni indawo yokuphila esebenzayo njengento yonke, kwaye ngoko-ukuqonda ukuba kuthetha ukuthini kuphela umntu ngamnye.
Inkcazo yombono "wokuphila ngokusebenzayo"
Isikhundla sokuphila esichengileyo somntu akusona nje isimo sengqondo kwilizwe elijikelezile, elibonakaliswa kwizenzo kunye neengcamango zomntu ngokwakhe. Into yokuqala abantu abaninzi bayayiqwalasela xa ukuthetha nomfokazi kwindawo yakhe yokuphila. Nguye osihlukisayo phakathi komnye nomnye ngokwengqondo. Esi sikhundla ebomini sivumela okanye asivumeli umntu ngamnye ukuba anqobe ubunzima. Ngamanye amaxesha yimbangela yokuphumelela kwethu okanye ukungaphumeleli. Ukongezelela, kwiindawo ezininzi iindawo ezibalulekileyo ziqikelela isithuba somntu.
Indawo yokuphila inebonakaliso kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, ezichaphazela izikhundla zokuziphatha nezomoya, umsebenzi wezopolitiko kunye nomsebenzi. Isikhundla esisebenzayo sibonakala ngokuphendula ngokukhawuleza komntu othile kwiimeko zobomi kunye nokulungelelanisa okwenziwe kwizenzo zekhonkrithi.
Akuyi kubakho ukuqaphela ukuba indawo yokuphila iquka ngokubanzi:
- iipolitiki;
- Umbono wehlabathi womntu;
- yayo imigaqo, njl
Ukubunjwa kwesimo sokuphila esisebenzayo
Yakhiwe ukususela ekuzalweni komntu. Isiseko sokuvela kwayo kubonxibelelwano nabanye, impembelelo yabo ekuphuhlisweni komntu ngamnye wethu.
Yisistim egcina ngokwayo imfihlelo yokwenyaniso yokuphuhliswa kwesimo sokuphila esisebenzayo. Kodwa ukukhula kwayo, njengawo onke into kwindalo yonke, kufuna uhlobo "lwebhetri" oluya kunika amandla kulo phuculo. "Ibhetri" yakho ngumnqweno. Emva koko, ngaba kuphela abakwazi ukubenza balwe nobunzima, bancede ukufezekisa iinjongo ezifunwayo.
Sonke siye sabonana nabantu abanobudlelwane obusebenzayo ebomini babo. Bavelele phakathi kwabanye. Kwiinkampani, ngokuqhelekileyo, zikhokeli. Abantu abanjalo banako ukukhokela uluntu, kuba imbono yabo nembono yangaphakathi yenza ukuba nomnqweno wokuzilandela.
Iintlobo zobume bokuphila obunobuntu
Isikhundla "esihle" sisetyenziselwa ukugcina imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye nokunyaniseka kokulungileyo ngaphezu kobubi.
Isikhundla "asibi". Musa ukucinga ukuba abantu abakhutheleyo ngaba abo benza "kakuhle," ngokuchaseneyo, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba izenzo zawo zingabangela ingozi emphakathini nakwabo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba zonke iintlobo zamaqela ezigqeba kunye namaqela amabhande adibanwe ngubani? Ngokuchanekileyo, abantu abakhutheleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, bachaze ngokucacileyo iinkolelo kunye neenjongo ezithile eziyingozi kuluntu.
Ubomi bethu akuyinto into eqinile kwaye ingaguquki. Iguquka ngokungazenzisiyo, ukuphuhliswa kobuchwepheshe obutsha kunye nempembelelo yabantu kwihlabathi lethu eliphakathi. Kubalulekile kuphela ukuba unomdla wokuphucula umhlaba ojikelezayo.
Kubantu bohlobo lokuqala, into ephambili ayiyikuzibophelela ngokwabo kunye namava ethu kuphela, kodwa nakwiimeko zehlabathi emhlabeni jikelele. Enyanisweni, akusiwo wonke umntu oza kukwazi ukuphakamisa iimpawu zakhe ukuze azuze uluntu, kunye nemigaqo, iinkolelo, iimbono zehlabathi ziza kutshintshwa ukuze ziphumelele. Kodwa yintoni isimo sobomi esiya kuxhomekeka kuphela kumntu ngokwakhe.