Ubomi bethu buzele uxinzelelo, ubunzima beemeko zobomi, isisombululo esisoloko sidinga ukuguga, ukubala okulula kunye nokuzithiba. Akunjalo lula: njani ukuhlala uxolo kwaye ungakhathazeki, xa imeko ingaphumelela ekulawuleni, kwaye isiphumo sayo - singalindelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa kula maxesha ukuxinwa okugqithisileyo kuyadingeka. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo thina ngokwethu, ngokungafunekiyo, siba ngumthombo woxinzelelo okanye imbangela yesimo sengqondo esibi kithi: ukungahambi kakuhle kwengqondo kunye nokungahambisani nokuqhelekileyo kubanako ukubethelela kwi-reputation ephezulu kakhulu yomqeshwa. Ukuba iingxaki ezinjalo azizange zivuke, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuhlala uxolo kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo.
Iindlela zokuhlala ezolile
Unokufunda ukuzola. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka usebenzise izicwangciso ezilula, kodwa ezibalulekileyo:
- Musa ukunyanisela . Ukuziqhelanisa ukuba ungayithinteli ingxaki kwizikali ezingenakucingwa. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuxazulula oku kunzima, ngoko "musa ukupompa" kunye neentsholongwane zakho kunye nabanye.
- Musa ukuxelela wonke umntu ngengxaki yakho . Kule nto akuyi kuba lula, kwaye iingxaki ezongezelelweyo zingabonakala zininzi. Kungcono ngaphandle kwemvakalelo kunye nabacebisi bahlalutye imeko - uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma.
- Gwema imithombo yokucaphuka . Zama ukuqonda ukuba ngubani okanye oko kukukhuphayo kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, zama ukuphepha ezi zinto zikhunjulwa.
- Yiba nokuphumla . Funda ukufumana ixesha lokuphumla, ngoko umbuzo wokuhlala uzolile kuyo nayiphi na imeko iya kulungiswa ngokulula.
- Musa ukuzigxeka . Yeka ukwenza "samoyedstvo" kwaye ungazigxeka ngokungapheliyo kwiingxaki eziye zavela, kodwa ungahambi kwezinye izinto ezigqithiseleyo: uzitshitshise abanye ngenxa yento yonke, uzichukumise njengexhoba leemeko kunye nezicatshulwa zabantu abaziphethe kakuhle.
- Musa ukwesaba . Nangona imeko ibonakala isongela: hlala phantsi, ukuze kungabikho mntu ukuphazamisayo, uthathe ukuphefumla okuchukumisayo kunye nokuphefumula - oku kuya kukwanela ukuba uqaphele indlela yokuhlala uxolo kwaye uhlolisise ngokukhawuleza ubunzima beengxaki, kwaye ufumane iindlela zokusombulula.
Ubulumko baseTshayina uthi: "Ukuba ingxaki ixazululwa, umntu akufanele abe neentloni; ukuba ayixazululwa - ngakumbi. " Oku kuya kusikhokela.