Xa kuziwa kumandla, sibhala phantsi zonke izichazi ezihloniphekileyo, siqiniseke ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba akukho mfanelo enjalo kwindawo yethu yokugcina. Ekugqibeleni, umntu unomntu onomdla, kwaye akukho nto ekhethekileyo kukuba umntu unamandla kwaye unako ukuzinzisa abasebenzi bakhe njenge "itiye le-lime ngobushushu behlobo".
Kwaye ngenxa yobuthathaka bomlingani, ngoko ke banokungabikho nako konke, okanye uhlala ngaphandle kokuzibona. Kwaye enye indlela kunye neyona ndlela yinto efanelekileyo ebomini, kude kube yinto yokuqalisa kwakhona, apho kungenakwenzeka ukuba ubhale amabini amabhinqa kuwe, kwaye ungazifumani nakweyiphi na inye. Ngaphezu koko, ukungabikho kwale nto akuyi kuhlanganiswa, kodwa ukunciphisa, kunye nempendulo: "Ukuba ndineempazamo, ndiza kubakhokhawuleza" baya kukuxelela ngokungaqiniseki.
Sifuna izinto ezingonakalisiyo!
Kwaye amandla kunye nobuthathaka bomlingani kufuneka bakwazi ukufumana ngokwakho. Amandla angabonwa lula ngokuhlaziya iitalente zabo. Ukuba ithenda yakho kuphela ukuqokelela izitampu, ngoko unokubhala ngokuphepha malunga nengqondo yakho yokuziphatha, ukulungeleka, ukuthanda ubuhle, ukunyamezela kunye nomonde.
Xa sibhala okanye sithetha ngobuthathaka bomntu, xa uthetha ngokungahambi kakuhle, kufuneka ukhawuleze uxelele ukuba uyayichitha njani kwaye uhamba ngokukhawuleza, ubeke isithunzi kuyo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthe uthe wazibona njani umhlaba jikelele, kuyo yonke imibala kunye neengxolo, zithi ngenxa yezinga lehlabathi, ngamanye amaxesha awuboni iinkcukacha ezincinci. Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezilungileyo, uhlala wazi indlela yokuqokelela abasebenzi abaya kuzalisekisa le "ntsilelo".
Okanye, ukwazi indlela yokudala umoya onobubele kunye nokukhululeka kwinqela, iimpawu zakho zokulawula, ezinjengobuqili, ukunyamekela, ukukwazi ukuthetha ngemoya wokubaluleka, kusekho kwinkqubo yokuphucula. Khumbula: ubuthathaka bomlingani wakho akufanele luthethe nantoni malunga nokuba ungumntu oyiphutha. Ngokuchasene noko, kuya kuthetha ngesidima esikhulu - ukukwazi ukuzihlola ngokuchanekileyo.