Ngaba i-polyamory isimilo esitsha solwalamano okanye isono?

Ipolyamory (i-polyamory) lixesha elitsha apho abantu abanganelisekanga ngemibutho yemveli yesakhiwo "somfazi wesilisa" babonisa ubudlelwane babo. Ngokwamaninzi amaninzi e-polyamory, ulwalamano olunjalo oluvulekileyo lubangela ukukhula kokwaneliseka kobomi, okwenza kube luhluke ngakumbi kwaye lube mnandi.

Polyamory - yintoni na?

Ngokutsho kukaBrandon Wade, umdali wesayithi "ukucinga ngokucacileyo", i-polyamory ifomu "lokungathembeki kokuziphatha" kubantu abangaboni umzekelo wobuhlobo. Iimeko eziphambili ze-polyamory zithembekileyo, ukuqonda nokuvuleka. Umlingani akafanele ahlupheke ebusweni babanye abandakanyekayo kwintsebenziswano yesibini, abantu. Ulwahlulo lwentsebenziswano yepolyamorous lukhulu kakhulu, kwaye kuphela inani labathathi-nxaxheba ababandakanyekayo, iintlobo zobudlelwane babo, indlela yokuphila ixhomekeke kubathathi-nxaxheba.

I-polyamory kufuneka ihlukaniswe kunye neengcinga ezifana nokukhohlisa, ukunyeliswa. Ngokukrexeza komnye wabalingani, okwesibini kungabandezeleka, okungahambisani nomgaqo ophambili we-polyamory. Ixesha elisondeleyo isithembu, oku kuthetha uhlobo oluthile lomtshato apho elinye iqabane lingaba neqabane elithile lesini esahlukileyo (isithembu kunye ne-polyandry). I-polyamory ayinakuyithintela le nto - kwiqela labantu ababandakanyekayo, kunokubakho ubudlelwane obufanayo kunye nobundlobano zesini.

I-Poly-union - yintoni na?

I-polyamori yoManyano (inxaxheba) ingaba iqela okanye ikhululekile, ivule okanye ivalwe, ixutywe.

1. Idibaniso yeqela luhlobo lweentlobo zentsapho-zentsapho apho, kunye nokuthambekela ngokwesini, ulwalamano lwabantu bonke lunokwenzeka. Iintsapho ezinjalo zentsapho-zintsapho ngamanye amaxesha zibizwa ngokuthi "isiSweden".
2. Umanyano okhululekile liqela leepolyamori eziliqela ezingenxulumene nomnye.
3. Abo babandakanyekayo kwimanyano evulekile ye-polyamory banakho ukufumana nayiphi na inani lezonxibelelwano, ixesha elide okanye elifutshane.
4. Kwindawo yoluntu evaliweyo ye-polyamore, bahlala belamano kunye neqela elihlala lililo labantu ababandakanyekayo, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngokudibanisa.
5. Kwimanyano edibeneyo, enye yeepolyamori inokuvulelwa ukudibanisa ngokukhawuleza, kunye nomnye-ukuhambelana namaqabane aqhelekileyo.

Polyamory - ingqondo

Ukususela kwindlela yokujonga i-psychology, ubudlelwane bepolyamorous buyinyanisekile kunokuba isithembu okanye umanyano apho elinye iqabane liguqula iqabane. Enyanisweni, ukunyaniseka kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka kwemiba xa omnye wabachaphazelekayo evuma ukuya kumanyano wesini ehlawulelwayo ukuze ahlale enobudlelwane naye. Ukongezelela, i-polyamory ifanelekileyo kuphela kubantu abangabakhululekileyo kwimbono yoluntu, tk. Uninzi lwabantu aluvumelani nalo.

Kwezinye iimeko, i-polyamory ingaba usindiso lomntu. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu akanako ukuxhomekeka komntu kunye nokuba akukho mvume, indoda iya kuguqula rhoqo. I-Sami polyamory idla ngokucacisa iminqweno yabo yokungafaniyo kuloo mntu akanakuyifunayo kumlingane omnye konke ukuhlukahluka kobudlelwane kunye nobomi bezesondo.

Ndiyakunikela i-polyamory?

Umntu ongathandanga ipolyamori ebubudlelwaneni, akayi kukhanyela nje kuphela, kodwa kufuneka axelele ngokucacileyo oku kumlingane wakhe. I-Polyamory ayamkeli ubuxoki nokufihla inyaniso, wonke umntu onjalo manyano kufuneka aqonde kwaye avume. Umntu ohlala enkululeko yecala kufuneka afumane izihlobo kwihlabathi , okanye ayeke ipolyamory ngenxa yomntu othandekayo.

Polyamory - iincwadi

Abantu bepolyamorous ngokuya kuba ngamaqhawe ezincwadi, beqala "ngabaphuphi" beBertolucci.

1. K.A. Uludwe, D. I-Easton "Iimfundiso zokuhlambalaza . " Le ncwadi inokuthetha ngecala lomzimba lobuhlobo obuthandanayo. Injongo ephambili yabalobi bomsebenzi kukubonakalisa ukuba ubudlelwane be-mahala abuhambi ngaphaya kobuhle boluntu.
2. D. Ebershof "umfazi we-19" . Le ncwadi, ebhaliwe ngohlobo lwe-detective, ichaza malunga nobudlelwane obungenakunyakalala phakathi kweentsapho kunye neentsapho ezinkulu zeMormon.
3. R. Merle "Malvil" . Ulwalamano lwamahhala kulo msebenzi obonakalayo kwimvelaphi ye post-apocalypse.
4. UMnu Kundera "Ukukhanya Okungapheliyo Kokuba" . Lo msebenzi wesayensi kunye nefilosofi uya kumthabatha umfundi ngokufudumala komnqweno kunye nesiqhinga esonakele. Amaqhawe encwadi aphila ubomi bawo, ejikeleza kwi-labyrinth yeembono kunye nokufunda ubumbano lwemizimba yabo nemiphefumlo.