Ngamanye amaxesha ngamnye wethu uvakalelwa ngathi unyanzelekile kumntu othile. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu okwazi ukucacisa izizathu zezi.
Umntu ohlala evakalelwa ngolu hlobo lomsebenzi, unciphisa ukuzithemba nokuzixabisa. Umntu onjalo uqala ukucinga ukuba ayithethi nantoni na, kwaye abazali, abahlobo, inkampani, uluntu, njl. Kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa umntu ngamnye kufuneka aphile ubomi bakhe ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uhlala uchitha amandla akho, ixesha kunye namandla kwabanye abantu abanengqondo yokufezekisa, kuya kuba nzima.
Kwengqondo, uvakalelo lomsebenzi kuthiwa uyamkela imisebenzi umntu ayenayo xa engena ebuhlotsheni nabanye abantu. Oko kungekuphela ukuba kudideke ngomsindo oqhelekileyo wokubulela ngomvakalelo wecala okanye ukwenza imisebenzi kwabanye .
Kukho ukungquzulana kokuvakalelwa kunye nomsebenzi, xa umntu ekholelwa ukuba ukuba unxulumano oluthile nabantu, ngoko unento kubo. Enyanisweni, zonke iingxaki zivela ebuntwaneni. Abazali abaninzi banikela kwiimfuno ezingaphezu komntwana, qaphelisisa inkqubela phambili, abahlobo befayili, bafune into enokuyenza. Ngegama - ukulawula rhoqo. Usuku lomntwana lupakishwe ngokoqobo ngeyure, kwaye akukho nxalenye ekhohloweyo yokudlala okanye ukuphumla okuphumlileyo. Umntwana onje uya kuba seburhulumenteni. Kuya kusoloko ukwesaba ukwenza into engalunganga, ukuze ungabadumazi abazali bakho. Ngenxa yoko, umntu ukhula, akwazi ukuzenza zakhe izigqibo.
Ungayikhupha njani indlela yokusebenza?
Okokuqala, kufuneka unqume into ethile. Ukuba kukho abantu oza kubeka ityala kubo, xolisa uxolo kwaye ulibale ngalo. Ukuba oku akuhambelani nemali, kukufanele ukulibale ukuziva ngaloo ndlela ngonaphakade. Kwaye kuya kuba nomvakalelo wendalo wokubonga nothando olungayi kubangela nayiphi na ingxaki.
Hlalani nikhumbula ukuba awunakutyala nantoni na nantoni na, ngoko ke ungahlali ulungelelanisa kwimibono yabanye kwaye uzalisekise i-whims zabo. Wonke umntu kufuneka acinge kwaye aqonde ukuba nguye kuphela onokuzivuyisa. Ungazami ukunyanzelisa umntwana okanye umntu omnye.
Umzabalazo phakathi kokuvakalelwa kunye nomsebenzi uyabaphazamisa abantu abaninzi.
Ingqiqo yomsebenzi kubazali okanye abathandekayo esenza siphila ubomi bethu bonke, kodwa omnye umntu. Yenzani ixesha lonke ukuzama nokuchitha imikhosi ukukholisa abanye? Umbuso wendalo uncedo ekuphumeni akuyi kubangela ukungathandeki, ngelixa uvakalelwa yecala kunye nokwesaba kuya kukuyeka yonke indlela eya kwiinjongo.
Ingxaki yomsebenzi uyasombulula ngokukhawuleza, emva kokuwamkela nokufezekiswa kwento yokuba wonke umntu ungumqhubi wonwabo.
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unomsebenzi, khumbula ukuba akukho mntu ngaphandle kwakho onokukunceda ube nolonwabo. Khumbula ukuba ubomi bakho busezandleni zakho kuphela.