Ibinzana elisehlabathini liphela kuphela iimpumelelo ezinamandla kwaye ziya kuba zifanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, ukuba iziganeko zangaphambili zenyama zithetha, ihlabathi lanamhlanje likhuthaza umntu ukuba aphucule ngokusemzimbeni nangokomoya. Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuphucula amandla okuziphatha ukuze bahlale belungele naziphi na ubunzima ebomini.
Umntu onamandla unokuchaphazela indawo, abantu baninzi kuneetalente, njl. Abantu bagweba abanye ngohlobo lwabo. Emva koko, nguye othetha ngomntu ngaphezu kwamagama akhe. Ngoko ke, umlingani ingcinga zomntu, iimpawu zakhe, izenzo kunye namazwi. Abantu abanomdla oqinileyo baya kuphuhlisa kulo lonke ixesha. Akuyinyaniso ukuba ininzi yesimo somntu sakhiwa kusenokuba ngumntwana, kodwa umlinganiso awutshintshi ngokukhawuleza, kuya kuthatha ixesha.
Iimpawu zobunamandla
Umntu onomntu oqinileyo unempawu ezinjalo zobuntu njenge:
- Ukuqala kunye nokuzithemba. Umntu oqinileyo uyathemba kuzo zonke iimeko zobomi, kuye ngokwakhe, kuye ngokwakhe. Unako ukuqonda ngokucokisekileyo amakhono akhe, ezama ukunyusa. Abantu abanjalo baxabisa ubuchule babo, ngokwabo, amathuba okuphuhliswa kwabo. Ubunzulu obunamandla abuyiki ukungaqiniseki. Kwakhona uhlala ekulungele ukutshintsha rhoqo.
- Isimo sengqondo kwabanye. Iimpawu zomntu onamandla, kwindawo yokuqala, zibonakaliswa kwisimo sengqondo esihle kwabanye. Abantu abanjalo banako ukuseka ubudlelwane obunzulu nangaluphi uhlobo lwendalo. Abantu abanamandla abafuni ukufundisa, ukugweba, ukufundisa. Abanalo njongo yokuthobela ngamnye umntu, ukunyanzelisa iposi yabo yembono, iya kuthi, njl.
- Uxanduva lomntu. Ubuntu obuqinileyo bayaqonda ukuba yonke into ebomini ixhomekeke kubo. Abafuni ukunyaniseka okanye ngokuphambeneyo. Naluphi na uhlobo oluntu aluyiyo, uya kuhlala ephethe uxanduva olupheleleyo kwizenzo zakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba udidi olunamandla lukhokelela abantu abanjalo kwindawo yokusebenza ngokusebenzayo.
- Ukuzama ukuphelela. Abantu abanamandla bayakwazi ukugxila kwizinto ezithile. Bahlala bephila ngokudala into ebomini. Okokuqala, abantu abanomdla oqinileyo banikela ngokubaluleka ngokubalulekileyo kwimicimbi yabo.
- Ukuvuleka, ubume. Umntu onamandla uyakwazi ukuvula iimvakalelo zakhe kokubili yena nabanye. Uyathemba iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye ukhokelwa ngulo xa wenza izigqibo. Kulula kakhulu ukunxibelelana nabantu abanjalo. Bayavuya kwaye bahlala bevulekile ukuthetha.
- Ukungqinelani. Abantu abanamandla banobuntu. Ibonakalisa nantoni na. Abantu abanjalo abesabi ukuba bahluke. Bafuna ukubonisa abantu ngabanye.
- Amava akhethekileyo. Malunga nokuba umlingani wakho unamandla, ukukwazi kwakho amava akhethekileyo, malunga nokufihlakeleyo, kuya kuxela. Ziyakwazi ukudibaniswa nenkqubo yokuqonda, ubuchule, kunye nempumelelo ethile.
La mava avela ngaphandle kokukhuthaza abanye. Abantu abanamandla ngamaxesha anjalo baziva belula, belahlekelwa yintswelo yexesha, njl.
Imigaqo ephambili - indlela yokuba ngumlingani onamandla
- Gcinani umntu ngamnye. Yenza uluvo lwakho lwezinto ezithile, iziganeko.
- Akumangalisi ukuba bathi umoya ophilileyo emzimbeni ophilileyo. Ngoko, yomelela ngokwenyama. Okokuqala, yenza ekuseni
ukuhlawula. - Nquma ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa ntoni. Beka iinjongo ezicacileyo. Ukuqulunqwa kwabo kunye nokuphumelela kuya kukunceda ukuba ukhule ngokwabo, uqinise umlingiswa wakho.
- Yazi ukuba unamandla amakhulu. Kufuneka nje ukuyivula. Zithande ngokwenene kwaye ke naziphi na iingxaki endleleni eya kwiinjongo zakho ziya kubonakala ngathi zihlazo eziqhelekileyo.
- Ukuphuhlisa ngokufunda. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantu bafunda amaninzi amanqabileyo.
Ngoko, abantu abanomdla oqinileyo kanye, kunye nawe, waphupha oku. Ngosizo lokunyamezela bafezekisile oku.