Ubudlelwane bezesondo buyinto ebalulekileyo yolwalamano phakathi kwabantu abanothando. Nangona kunjalo, ngokweengxelo, inxalenye yesithathu yabasetyhini ayinandipha ukuzonwabisa. Phakathi kwala mabhinqa, abanye abazange bafumane i-orgasm.
Kubantu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iqabane lawo liva namava esondo. Ngelo xesha bafumana ukuvakalelwa kwezesondo ngokucacileyo. Yaye ukuba intanda endiyifumene nayo ayizange ifinyelele kwintshukumo yeemvakalelo ezithandanayo, indoda iya kuzama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni umfazi engaboni i-orgasm.
Kutheni abanye abafazi bengenawo umlomo?
Kukho izizathu ezine ezenza ukuba umfazi angenakufumana i-orgasm:
1. I-Physiological. Kwamanye amabhinqa, iimpawu zesakhiwo somzimba kunye nemeko yempilo kunokuphazamisa ukufumana iimvakalelo ezipheleleyo zesondo. Sithetha ngala mazwi:
- ukungaqhelekanga kokuphuhliswa kwamalungu omzimba, apho ubudlelwane bezocansi bubangelwa ubuhlungu okanye indawo yezitho ziphazamisa ukuvakalelwa ngokupheleleyo;
- izifo zentsholongwane, ezibandakanya i-vaginismus, ukomama lwesisu, i-endometriosis, ukuvuvukala kwezi zixhobo;
- iingxaki ze-hormonal ezibangelwa ngokuthatha iipilisi zokulawula ukuzala.
2. Izinto zangaphandle. Ukunika ingxelo kwizinto zangaphandle kunceda ukuphendula umbuzo othi kutheni umfazi engazange ahlale efumana i-orgasm. Ukushisa kweqondo eliphantsi, isandi, umbhede ongenakhathazeka, iphunga elibi lingaphazamisa iqabane lakho kumava amnandi. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukususa i-irritant, njengokuba umfazi angaphinda athole umdlalo wesithandwa.
3. Iingqondo zengqondo. Eyona nto iphambili kumbuzo wokuba kutheni abaninzi abafazi abangenayo i-orgasm ingokwengqondo. Ukwesaba, ukuxhalabisa, ukungaqiniseki, ukuzithoba, ukuxinezeleka kunye nokukhathala yizona zizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umfazi abe nomnqweno wesini kunye
4. Ukungazi kakuhle okanye ulwazi olubi lwezesondo kunye nomlingane. Amadoda athile acinga ukuba ngabantu abathandekayo abathandekayo kwaye abatshatile abafazi ngenxa yokungaboni. Nangona kunjalo, ipesenteji enkulu yabasetyhini abangenayo i-orgasm bayakwazi ukwenza phantsi kweminye i-caresses. Iqabane kufuneka lifunde umzimba womlingane kwaye ikhangele iindlela zokudibana nayo.
Musa ukukhathazeka malunga nokuba kutheni umfazi engaboni ngesisu sesisu. Umzimba emva kokuvuselela i-clitoris kunokugqithisa kunowesifazane, kwaye unelungelo lokutshatyalaliswa ngokwesondo.